My 5 Hottest Threesome Experiences

J. and I have had a number of threesomes, both with other men and other women. They’ve been exciting, they’ve been sexy, and they’ve been great relationship-building experiences.

Here are a few of the hottest threesome experiences I have had:

The summer after we opened up, we had a threesome with Josh. We had been seeing Josh and his fiance, Carly, since we met them in early April at our swingers club.

I had exceptionally good chemistry with Josh, and J. really liked watching me have sex with him.

We both were really turned on thinking about the three of us together. I consider this threesome to be a V-threesome because Josh and J. weren’t sexual with each other, but I was sexual with both of them.

Because my chemistry with Josh was so great, and because J. was so turned on by the experience as well, this encounter was pretty explosive.

It made both J. and I realize that when I have sex with another guy I am attracted to, it is a huge turn-on for both of us.

Sizzle factors: Chemistry, adding in another guy

We met Laurel and Jordan on OkCupid, and J. ended up seeing Laurel on his own for a little while in a more casual sexual space. I saw her on my own as well a few times.

Our individual sexual relationships with her meant that when we had threesomes together, we had established ways of communicating and interacting and we were all really comfortable together.

We had a number of threesomes with Laurel, which meant we were able to build up a relationship and the threesomes became more satisfying and fun as we got to know each other’s bodies, needs and desires.

Sizzle factors: Individual relationships, communication

I had been dating a girl a while back. The short story is she was really into me, she and J. had insane chemistry and J. and I had been fantasizing about a threesome with her for a couple of weeks.

We had a couple of really amazing threesomes in a hot tub and king bed.

Sizzle factors: Chemistry, fantasizing before the threesome, emotional intimacy

One of my biggest fantasies and turn-ons is male-male sex. I think gay porn is incredibly arousing, so naturally I fantasized about J. with another man.

Because J. is amazingly open minded and comfortable with himself, and because he knew how hot I thought the idea was, he decided to experiment once with another guy.

We ended up meeting John online. He had explored his bisexuality before and was very comfortable taking things super slow and relaxed with us.

Let me just say this: It was super hot for me to watch J. touch another cock, and it was smokin’ hot to go down on John with J.

While J. identifies as straight and isn’t interested in playing with another guy again, I feel like the luckiest girl on the planet for having such a willing and adventurous partner.

And J. was also able to watch me have sex with another guy, which we both loved a ton.

Sizzle factors: Fantasizing before the threesome, trying something new, communication, adding in another guy

Recently, I have been dating a woman I am pretty twitterpated with.

Because she was dating a guy and wanted to respect his boundaries, and because we want to take things relatively slow in integrating our relationship with my relationship with J., we decided to first have a V-threesome instead of a full threesome.

I had never had a V-threesome with another woman (all of our previous threesomes with other women have been full threesomes).

At first I was a little thrown off because one of my biggest turn-ons in a threesome with another woman is watching J. have sex with her. (My favorite position to watch them in is doggy style!)

In this experience, I found I was able to feel like the center of attention while also getting off on my mental fantasies of J. and Melissa together, as they went down on me together and laid next to each other on the bed naked.

It was really, really hot to be with my long-term partner who I love and a girl I am attracted to, feel close to and who I trust and respect.

Sizzle factors: Respecting boundaries, chemistry, fantasizing in the moment, communication, emotional intimacy.