How Can I Take More Initiative in My Dating Life?

Bethany Heinesh
Bethany Heinesh Updated:
Discuss This! Discuss This!
Advertiser Disclosure

Guys, if you are looking for someone special and you haven’t found her yet, it’s time to kick your efforts up a notch. Trust me, there is a woman out there looking for you and counting the days until she finds you. This may be hard to believe, but you are some girl’s perfect catch. You may not realize it, but you are exactly what some woman is looking for. You are her dreamboat, her Mr. Perfect, her soul mate. Now, all you have to do is find her.

This will require you to take some initiative in your dating life, but I know you’re up for the task. There are three fast and easy ways you can immediately step up your game and take an active part in finding that special lady you’ve been searching for. One way is to join your favorite online dating site, build yourself a rockin’ profile with great pics, communicate with your matches and start scheduling dates. Another is to pass the word. Tell your friends, co-workers and relatives you’re on the lookout for a great gal to take out for dinner and drinks. Trust me, you’ll be booking dates in no time.

Finally, you need to get out there. Go to places you enjoy like church, a pool hall, the gym, whatever. Keep an eye out for single women you find attractive. Don’t be shy. Introduce yourself and make conversation. Before you know it, you’ll be securing plans for coffee.

Advertiser Disclosure

DatingAdvice.com is a free online resource that offers valuable content and comparison services to users. To keep this resource 100% free, we receive compensation from many of the offers listed on the site. Along with key review factors, this compensation may impact how and where products appear across the site (including, for example, the order in which they appear). DatingAdvice.com does not include the entire universe of available offers. Editorial opinions expressed on the site are strictly our own and are not provided, endorsed, or approved by advertisers.

Our Editorial Review Policy

Our site is committed to publishing independent, accurate content guided by strict editorial guidelines. Before articles and reviews are published on our site, they undergo a thorough review process performed by a team of independent editors and subject-matter experts to ensure the content’s accuracy, timeliness, and impartiality. Our editorial team is separate and independent of our site’s advertisers, and the opinions they express on our site are their own. To read more about our team members and their editorial backgrounds, please visit our site’s About page.