12 Best W4W Personals Sites (2024)

BeNaughty is a popular choice for lesbian singles as well as lesbian couples. Not only can you find one-night stands and friends with benefits, but you can also find threesomes, poly partners, and swingers. To create a free profile, you must provide your username, age, gender, and location, and you can search through the millions of profiles by those identifiers as well as others like appearance and interests.

Adult Friend Finder was one of the first W4W personals sites (having been founded in 1998), and it’s been paving the way ever since. You’ve got group forums, live chats, private messages, videos, and a few other ways to get to know the 77 million+ members. Adult Friend Finder will also show you who’s online at the same time as you, so setting up a meetup should take no time at all.

An expert at facilitating X-rated fun, FriendFinder-X was launched in the late ’90s and offers a 100% free membership. Check out the frisky lesbian and bisexual members and test out the helpful features (e.g., advanced search) without having to fully commit to the site from the get-go. “You’re never too busy for a great sex life” is FriendFinder-X’s motto, and the team will help you take things to the next level by doing a majority of the work for you.”

Right off the bat, we want to tell you that Match isn’t really a W4W hookup site, but it’s a great option for lesbian and bisexual women who are interested in short-term dating and long-term relationships. Match has a reputation for pairing people based on common interests and values, and that often leads to deep connections. In fact, Match is responsible for more dates, relationships, and marriages than any other dating site. You have more than 42 million profiles to browse through, and it won’t cost you a penny to do so.

EliteSingles is another W4W personals site that caters to commitment-minded singles. Approximately, 100% of members want to find a lifelong partner. In addition, approximately 90% are 30 or older, and 82% have earned at least a bachelor’s degree. EliteSingles uses its one-of-a-kind personality assessment to determine what kind of person you are, what you’re really looking for in terms of romance, and who of its members will be a compatible match.

Work, errands, family obligations — these are just a few things that can cut into your online dating time. However, Zoosk is here to help. It doesn’t matter if you’re commuting to the office, waiting in line at the DMV, or celebrating your parents’ anniversary — Zoosk is always working in the background to connect you with your ideal match. Not to mention the dating site/app is doing this for free.

Sometimes mature lesbians have a difficult time finding each other on traditional dating sites. That’s why we often direct them toward niche dating sites like OurTime. Most members are at least 50 years old, and the layout is so intuitive that even people with minimal technology skills can quickly and easily figure everything out. Whether you’re on a laptop, smartphone, or tablet, OurTime is absolutely free to download and use, so give it a try.

According to the Williams Institute, about 3.7% of African Americans identify as LGBTQ. That percentage is even smaller if you don’t factor in those who are gay men and those who are already in a relationship. This means dating can be a challenging experience for black and biracial LBTQ women, but BlackPeopleMeet is here to make things easier. In addition to nearly 6 million monthly visitors, the site provides numerous filtering options, including gender, sexual orientation, ethnicity, and culture.