Youdate Is A Fun Dating Site

Online Dating is a Fun Dating Website With Time-Tested Compatibility Matching

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The Short Version: launched in 2007 as an open-ended dating site for singles in a flirtatious mood. The site offered free browsing and communication tools to help individuals reach out to prospective dates in their area, and it has led to countless romantic connections. Today, YouDate continues to host a safe and fun dating space where anyone can match, chat, and online date for free.

The year 2007 was a pretty major one for online connectivity. It was the year Steve Jobs unveiled the first iPhone, for one thing. It was also the year Netflix launched its movie streaming service, and Amazon released the first e-reader known as a Kindle.

In 2007, Facebook and Twitter were in their first year of building a global membership and becoming household names.

During this momentous year, launched into the online dating scene. This dating website appealed to users with its freemium model, and it soon had members scattered throughout the U.S., Canada, and the U.K.

The YouDate team told us, “ was founded as a 100% free dating site with one goal in mind: to help singles with similar interests and compatibility interact with each other with no costs involved.”

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YouDate offers free instant messaging to all registered members.

Instead of burdening singles with paywalls and subscription costs, removed all barriers between single people and gave them the freedom to explore romantic connections by sending likes and messages.

To this day, YouDate offers a free online dating experience that has all the bells and whistles with no credit card charges. Its free messaging and compatibility matches give singles what they want with no waiting. YouDate’s smart matchmaking system has proved its merits over the last 13 years, so singles can trust it to steer them in the right direction.

“YouDate is where to find friends [and] where to date for free,” the website says. “Not many things in life are as rewarding, exciting as meeting the love of your life, experiencing the joy of a loving relationship with a special someone.”

Free Features Unlock a World of Dating Opportunities

YouDate is a fast-growing dating site with over 100,000 page views per month and thousands of new singles joining the dating pool every month.

The YouDate team takes pride in offering instant messaging and live chat features for free, and it also has an adults-only chat room where groups of flirty people can spark connections.

“YouDate was created with the user in mind,” the team said. “It’s easy to join, and easy to find a date.”

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The YouDate matching system highlights local singles who are currently online.

The first step to becoming a full-fledged YouDate member is to choose a username. Usernames must be between 5 and 20 characters long. Next, new users must fill out their personal bio and complete sections regarding their location, birthday, and dating preferences.

A valid email address is also required upon registration, and YouDate will send an authentication email to confirm a new user is a real person and not a bot.

All members must also upload at least one profile picture to browse the YouDate database. The dating profile allows up to 10 photos and will delete any nude photos, inappropriate images, or pictures that do not have you in them. Photos must be approved by a YouDate moderator before they appear on the dating site.

There are no premium features. Everything is just free. It’s free to browse dating profiles, review matches, and send messages on the YouDate platform.

Free members can see who has viewed their dating profile and see which members have favorited them without paying a subscription fee. Members receive an email notification when another member sends them a wink or a private message. And they can go into their inbox to see if their outgoing messages have been read yet.

YouDate offers an online dating free-for-all where members can chat without restraint, and many romantic connections have been established as a result.

Facilitating Online Conversations That Lead to IRL Dates

YouDate is a dating site for everyone. It has registration options for singles, couples, and groups seeking all types of romantic encounters, including bisexual dating and polyamorous dating. Pansexual singles can choose the “Any gender” option to view all types of dating profiles on the website.

The membership base has a pretty even split between men and women, but straight women have a slight romantic edge here. About 60% of YouDate users are men and 40% are women.

Anyone over 18 can create a dating profile on YouDate, and they can use the age matching features to seek dates as old as 90 years old.

YouDate provides a warm welcome for young singles who are just entering the dating scene as well as widowers who are re-entering the dating scene. People from all walks of life can use the search filters and matching tools to find their place in a diverse crowd of singles and swingers.

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Adults of all ages and sexual orientations can mingle freely on YouDate.

Over the years, the YouDate team has received many thank-you notes from members who had a positive experience on the dating site. Some fell in love, and others got married and had children. Out of respect for user privacy, YouDate does not publish any user testimonials on its website.

The team told us about a personal message sent by a man named Joe when he canceled his membership. “I found a most wonderful woman on your site,” he said and thanked the YouDate team for making his love story possible.

“Thank you guys for making this site,” said another satisfied YouDate member. “I found my love only after being on here a few days. I am very happy. Thanks again!”

YouDate Puts Your Romantic Interests First

The year 2007 saw many groundbreaking advancements in technology. It was the dawning of social media, and it was the first year where people texted more than they called each other. Online dating still carried a stigma against it at that time, but YouDate launched to help normalize the practice of meeting and forming authentic connections with someone online.

YouDate is one of the few totally free dating sites that doesn’t charge its users to send, receive, or read messages. The YouDate team has spent over a decade studying the online dating scene and streamlining its matchmaking system to better serve the modern single.

YouDate is on a mission to bring people together, so members won’t find any paywalls standing in the way of romance.

“YouDate is the source for finding fun and excitement…with more singles and more features than most online dating websites,” the team boasted. “No credit card needed to see your matches, flirt, and send or read messages. It’s 100% free!”

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