Emyli Lovz Motivates Single Men To Create A Dating Action Plan

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Dating Coach Emyli Lovz Motivates Single Men to Create an Action Plan Based on Her Unique Dating Philosophy

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The Short Version: Love and relationships aren’t included in the typical school curriculum, but Emyli Lovz decided to add these important subjects to her studies at UC Berkeley. In 2011, she developed and executed a research project on how dating works and what singles can do to get better at it. Emyli spent a year conducting her 100-date experiment, and, at the end of it, she had a boyfriend and many insights on love. In 2012, Emyli started a dating coaching business to share her dating knowledge with single men who don’t know how to attract a date. On her website, she offers one-on-one Skype sessions, online dating assistance, advice articles, and engaging lesson modules to help singles hone their dating skills and get more dates than ever before.//

Emyli Lovz was an undergraduate at the University of California at Berkeley when she got an idea for a research project on the subject of love. She wasn’t sure love existed in the real world. She hadn’t seen evidence of it in her life thus far. Love sounded like a fairytale to her. So she decided to collect data and get the facts for herself by going on as many dates as she could, looking for patterns, and recording her thoughts.

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Emyli Lovz became a dating coach to teach singles how to date more effectively.

That was the beginning of her 100-date experiment. After a year of carefully documenting her experiences, Emyli felt she had important takeaways to share with singles out there. She had explored the dating scene and at last met a man she wanted to commit to. They’ve now been together for over six years.

During her 100-date experiment, Emyli developed the idea of MegaDating, a strategy that involves seeing multiple date prospects at once.

By dating many different people, she argues, daters can gain perspective and better understand what they want and who would be a good fit for them.

In 2012, Emyli launched EmLovz.com to share her dating knowledge and philosophy with singles through advice articles, coaching sessions, and online courses. Her coaching business took off, and many men saw their date calendars fill up thanks to a few strategy sessions with Emyli. Today, her comprehensive dating resources provide guidance to single men in the online and offline dating scene. Emyli uses her research-driven approach to dating to inspire singles to find a loving partner — just like she did.

“I love coaching so much,” she said. “My focus is on getting my clients to their goals. It seems to work quite well so it’s been an exciting journey.”

Imparting Valuable Dating Strategies in One-on-One Sessions

Emyli became a dating coach to give single men the information they need to attract quality dates and find the one person deserving of their love and devotion. She advises clients in 50-minute Skype sessions, and has worked with men ranging in age from 20 to 60 in creating dating action plans that yield results for them. Her typical client is highly successful in his career and looking to achieve similar success in his love life.

“They’re definitely not afraid to go after what they want,” Emyli said. “They come in, and I help get them success in all areas of their lives.”

During these impactful one-on-one sessions, Emyli assesses her client’s motivations and dating history, identifying ways they can overcome their dating roadblocks and reach their short-term and long-term goals. She offers her ongoing clients (those who sign up for a three-month program) access to video modules in addition to their weekly sessions. Her guidance helps men feel more confident when approaching women and going on dates. Plus, Emyli’s philosophy of MegaDating often inspires men to keep their options open and not rush into a commitment they’re not excited about or ready for.

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Emyli helps her clients figure out their long-term dating goals.

Emyli said she adjusts her coaching style to fit the personality and needs of each individual client. “I like to be as blunt as possible by nature,” she said, “but that doesn’t always work for all clients all the time.”

She also shares her dating insights via her blog and YouTube channel EmLovzTV. Emyli posts multiple articles a week on her website to give advice on hot topics in the dating world, including Tinder bios, first date etiquette, attraction, and confidence. Singles who can’t afford coaching or have a general question about dating can use this free resource to find the answers they’re looking for without paying anything.

Emyli’s articles and videos offer quick tips for guys wondering how to navigate dating challenges, but, if you want to get some specifics, you can always book a session with her.

Empowering Online Courses Underscore the Upsides of MegaDating

Single men looking to completely overhaul their dating experience can visit Emyli’s website for the resources and information they need. The EmLovz Academy walks men through the phases of building confidence, attracting dates, and choosing a romantic partner. Emyli helps men get acclimated to the nuances of in-person and online dating and recommends proven strategies to help them succeed.

This 45-day online course can lead singles to transform themselves from dating novices to dating experts. Emyli uses a combination of video modules, worksheets, and real-life assignments that help men improve their online dating, conversation, and other social strategy skills that ultimately help them reach their short-term and long-term dating goals. Her primary objective is to empower men to gain experience by dating multiple women at the same time. That way, when they meet someone truly exceptional, they will know what to do.

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Emyli’s online course includes unlimited access to instructive videos and learning materials.

Ted took Emyli’s dating course for men and said he started going on 10 times more dates as a result. It was well worth the investment for him. “Even if you intend to rely on dating apps, some time spent perfecting your game with the training materials will reduce your frustration,” Ted said. “I still turn back to them for pointers before dates.”

Additionally, Emyli offers three online dating profile services to help modern daters take advantage of dating apps and sites. She gives individual feedback on her client’s profile, photos, and messages, and she can even write or revise a dating profile on behalf of her client. Her online dating services include at least one 50-minute Skype session.

Her Research-Driven Approach Yields Fast Results

Emyli feels confident that her approach to dating works because she’s seen it work time and time again for herself and her clients. She told us that she hears back from many former clients who take her words to heart and use her dating philosophy to turn their love lives around.

Saad only had one session with Emyli, but that was enough to put him on the path to love. He wrote to his former dating coach a year after they’d worked together and said he was engaged to be married. “The action plan we created together during my first session really paid off,” he said. “You helped me realize that I had to love myself first and really accept my own unique style.”

When Saad met Emyli, he wanted nothing more than to be married, but he didn’t know how to get himself there. Then, after a year of self-development, he met someone he was excited to spend the rest of his life with.

“Thank you so much for everything. You might not always realize how much impact your words may have, but they sure made a difference for me.” — Saad, one of Emyli’s former clients

Another client named John said he could never get a woman to respond to him on any dating app. He thought something must be going wrong with the algorithm because none of his matches were working out. Consulting with Emyli, however, prompted him to reexamine his own profile and see room for improvement.

“Em helped me realize it was my photos,” he said. “When we made a few tweaks, everything changed. It’s crazy, but now I have to turn down women because I have so many women hitting me up. I never thought this would be my life.”

Emyli Lovz Informs Singles So They Can Reach Their Potential

After a year of dedicated research, Emyli said she discovered conclusive evidence on the existence of love when she fell for her current boyfriend. Her 100-date experiment yielded fantastic results, and she has seen her MegaDating strategy work for her clients as well. Emyli’s unique approach to dating can motivate singles to gain confidence and attract quality dates, thus increasing the likelihood that they’ll meet their match.

Emyli provides many instructive resources for single men seeking romance and love. Whether you need someone to write your dating profile or give you advice on picking the right partner, you can rely on this professional dating coach to point you in the right direction. Emyli is only too happy to suggest specific and actionable dating tactics to help her clients improve themselves and get the results they want.

“I can only give them information. They take action,” she said. “They have the raw materials to succeed, and I get to see them grow. It’s the coolest experience to get to be part of that journey.”

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