Your First Gay Sexual Experience

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Your First Gay Sexual Experience

The Gayly Dose The Gayly Dose • 12/01/14
People usually say, “I’ve known I was gay my whole life.” Although this may be true, it doesn’t necessarily happen to everyone.
I never knew I was gay my whole life, per se, but I’ve always known I was different.
When I was five, I remember having a huge crush on Aladdin and his purple vest that revealed rippling muscles underneath. Now that I think about it, maybe Aladdin is gay.
Only now do I know I was gay when I was five, but I didn’t know it then. Therefore, I didn’t know I was gay my whole life until I came out and reflected on my past.
Honestly, I knew I was gay since I was about 10 or 11.

My first sexual experience.

My first hand job was given to me by my friend when I was 14. Some people lose their virginity by then, but unlike them I didn’t grow up in West Virginia.
My friend was a childhood friend whose parents were best friends with mine, so we used to see a lot of each other. My first gay sexual encounter happened when he spent the night and things got a little bit “hands on.”
We decided to show “it” to each other and you can imagine the rest. Actually, don’t imagine the rest because that would be sick. We are both underage in that fantasy, for God’s sake.
“Your first sexual encounter helps
you understand your sexuality.”

A lot of my friends say their first encounter was similar.

My straight male friends also say their first sexual experiences were hand jobs, while my straight female friends say their first sexual experience was the female equivalent to a hand job.
I know a lot of gay men who tend to have their first gay sexual encounter when they’re quite older, like around their late teens and early 20s, because they finally come to terms with their sexuality and embrace it.
As long as they figure who they are, no matter what age, that is an accomplishment in itself.

This first encounter isn’t a precursor of who you are sexually.

A lot of gay men and women sometimes lose their virginity to someone of the opposite sex before they actually come to realization they’re gay.

Some people know when they’re five years old and some people know when they’re a teenager, like myself. Some people realize they’re gay when they’re much older.
All in all, your first sexual encounter does help you understand your sexuality. The real purpose of it is to embrace your sexuality and your true self – gay or straight.
Guys, what was your first gay sexual encounter like? How has it shaped how you approach sex now?
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