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7 Best Online Speed Dating Sites & Games (Feb. 2024)

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Online speed dating has taken an age-old practice of meeting people in five-minute mini-dates and turned it into an internet sensation.

Speed dating can be efficient and fun in the right setting, and the virtual space is perfect for singles who want to explore new connections quickly and safely.

We’ve compiled a list of 10 free sites where you can speed date and find speed dating events near you — as well as five online speed dating games where you can hone your skills from the comfort of your home. On your mark, get set, go!

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Best Free Online Speed Dating Sites (#1-10)

Below, we’ve listed our favorite sites for speed dating online and finding speed dating events in your city or town. All of these are completely free, or offer a variety of free features, and can connect you with your ideal match in no time.

1. Match

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Match.com 4.9/5.0

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4.9/5.0

Relationships: Friends, Dates, and Relationships

Match System: Browse by zip, age, appearance, more

Our Experts Say: “Match has facilitated the most dates and relationships of any dating site, and its large audience and high success rate make it our top review...” Full Review »

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Not only does Match.com have one of the quickest and most thorough signup processes of any dating site (a couple of minutes to answer important questions like “Do you want to have kids?”) — but it also wastes no time in finding you dates as soon as your profile is created.

Match delivers a curated list of compatible singles, and it promotes singles-friendly events in cities across the nation.

As an all-purpose matchmaker, Match can help you pursue real-life dates as well as online dates any time you like. The company hosts its own exclusive events to encourage members to meet face to face and see if the chemistry is really there.

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OneNightFriend 4/5.0

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4.0/5.0

Relationships: Hookups, Casual Dating, Chats

Match System: Search by location, age, and appearance.

Our Experts Say: “OneNightFriend is a dating website that provides a fast track to a one-night stand with a flirty partner. The network has chat rooms, search filters, and safety features to help spark real connections…” Full Review »

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OneNightFriend is a casual dating service that is active in major U.S. cities and foreign countries, with plans to expand internationally. This fast-paced dating company appeals to young professionals who want to find a one-night stand.

Building personal connections on the spot is the name of the game here, and the engaging, friendly, and sexy atmosphere is welcoming to all single adults.

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AFF.com 4.2/5.0

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4.2/5.0

Relationships: Hookups Only

Match System: Search by location, interest, more

Our Experts Say: “Make no mistake: this site isn’t about making friends, it’s about finding hookups and casual encounters. No adult site has a larger or more active user base of those seeking discreet fun…”

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Adult Friend Finder strives to get singles flirting and hooking up without having to go to crowded bars. The free hookup site provides instant matching tools online, and its photo galleries and chat rooms allow for casual daters to explore erotic conversations without any pressure or time crunch.

After you sign up, which is free to do, you’ll complete a dating profile with personal information and an optional photo or two. AFF only requires a person to give an email address, age, location, and gender, so it’s easy to stay anonymous if you’re still getting comfortable in the online dating world.

While AFF is definitely more of a hookup platform and porn site than a speed dating service, things do tend to move quickly here, so our dating experts think it can satisfy the desires of local daters hoping to accelerate their dating lives.

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AshleyMadison.com 4/5.0

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4.0/5.0

Relationships: Hookups, Casual Dates, Affairs

Match System: Search by age, location, appearance, and more

Our Experts Say: “With its massive user base and advanced privacy features, Ashley Madison is the #1 site for discreet hookups, dates, or relationships…” Full Review »

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Ashley Madison is an affair dating site where people don’t waste much time on small talk. The online dating experience is all about anonymous hookups and sexting, and Ashley Madison users tend to embrace new chats with the same gusto you’d find at a traditional speed dating event.

Over 80 million people have created profiles on Ashley Madison to date, and this ever-growing user base is a great place to start meeting new people online. Ashley Madison has quick and intuitive matchmaking tools to help spark connections, and all female users can message for free, so men can have greater confidence when sending a flirty icebreaker or date invite.

5. Pre-Dating.com

Pre-Dating.com was launched in 2001 and quickly became one of the most well-known speed dating directories in North America. The company holds monthly events in more than 70 cities across the United States and Canada and is responsible for over 5 million speed dates and counting.

Events are held in an upscale restaurant or bar in your area — and with people in your preferred age range and your preferred interests. You’ll go through a series of six-minute face-to-face pre-dates in one night, and since Pre-Dating has a 70% match rate, the odds of meeting someone special are in your favor. It’s free to find and receive notifications about events, and if you don’t like any of the attendees, your next event is on them.

6. LightningSpeedDating.com

LightningSpeedDating.com is a popular singles event organizer and directory. No more than 40 people can attend each event (20 men and 20 women), and you’ll get to “share moments in six minutes” with your opposite gender. LGBTQ+ singles can join the fun, too.

Lightning Speed Dating just announced events specifically for this community — as well as an upcoming app where you can input your likes and dislikes about your dates in real time and receive compatible matches that same night.

It costs $20 for each event, but you can get out of paying when people buy tickets for others to attend an event.

7. RoundHop.com

RoundHop.com boasts that you can “meet 10 singles in one hour without leaving your house,” and if that sounds like something that’s up your alley, consider giving the site a try. After all, it’s free.

Another aspect of RoundHop that we like is every member is verified via Facebook and LinkedIn, so you don’t have to worry about flaky people or potential scammers.

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RoundHop brings the thrill of offline speed dating to the internet, and the site will help you meet 10 singles every hour.

The process is simple as well — all you have to do is give someone a thumbs-up if they catch your eye. If they feel the same way, RoundHop will exchange your contact info. “We bring people together via online video speed dating. It works just like regular speed dating at a restaurant. The only difference is that you don’t have to travel to the venue to take part in the speed dating event,” said Aditya, Founder of Roundhop.

8. The Fun Singles

The mission of The Fun Singles is to connect singles across the U.S. Its speed dating events, venues, and providers reach several major cities, including New York, Dallas, Los Angeles, Chicago, and Detroit. Browsing the site is absolutely free, and the information the site gives you includes the ages and genders of the attendees and how much it’s going to cost, with discounts offered regularly.

9. Mingle2.com

Mingle2.com is among the top free online dating services, and if speed dating is what you want, this site can give it to you. Mingle2 says it only takes 30 seconds to create an account and meet someone like-minded, and with millions of members, you’ve got a ton of options.

Something else worth mentioning is the team monitors the site for inactive or fake profiles, so you can spend more time focusing on matches and less time worrying about your safety.

“I’m now in a wonderful relationship. Thank you, Mingle2! The site is so easy to use, and there are tons of people who want to chat,” said Jeff, a former Mingle2 user from Phoenix, Arizona.

10. FriendFin.com

Registering and finding matches on FriendFin is similar to other speed dating websites, but the platform has a few unique features that make it stand out. In addition to being 100% free (no hidden fees will creep up on you later in the process), you can chat using audio and video as well as sync up your Facebook profile to find even more FriendFin.com users. Whether your goal is a new friendship, a casual date, serious relationship, or a lifelong marriage, FriendFin wants to help you meet that goal.

Best Free Online Speed Dating Games (#11-15)

When online and offline dating have got you down (believe us, it can happen to everyone), that’s where online speed dating games come in handy. You can take a break from your frustrations (dates who are late, incompatible, or just plain weird, etc.), have some stress-free fun, and even improve your dating skills.

11. Addicting Games Speed Dating

Addicting Games is an online gaming site with a massive reach — more than 10 million unique visitors a month. The company’s speed dating game is a go-to among fans, as over 9 million of them have played it since it launched in 2008. If you’re good at answering rapid-fire questions, such as “Do you like Kurt Cobain or Mozart?” this might be the game for you.

12. AGame Speed Dating

The goal of AGame.com’s speed dating game is to get as many dates as possible in record time. You’ll use the arrow keys to choose your answer, and you’ll want to get as many right answers as you can before the buzzer sounds.

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AGame.com’s speed dating game requires you to get as many dates as you can within a certain amount of time.

If you want a quick tutorial before starting the game, which we’d recommend, AGame.com offers a seven-minute video right below the description.

13. GaHe Speed Dating 2

Speed Dating 2 is the next installment in GaHe.com’s speed dating series. To play the game, you’ll enter your name, age, and gender, and then use the keyboard to choose your opening lines and topics of conversation. Speed Dating 2 has an 84% rating among users, so we think you’ll enjoy it, too.

14. DidiGames Disney Princess Speed Dating

DidiGames.com has a virtual speed dating adventure where you get to be a Disney princess trying to find her Prince Charming. Whether you’re Elsa from “Frozen,” Belle from “Beauty and the Beast,” or Rapunzel from “Tangled,” you’re sure to have fun seeking a happily ever after.

Here’s how Disney Princess Speed Dating works: If you like the way the prince is answering your questions, then start dating him. If you don’t, move on to the next one.

15. BoardGameGeek Speed Dating

BoardGameGeek’s speed dating game is a little different than the others on this list — as you play with others (three to six people), have a longer time limit (40 minutes), and use cards instead of just your keyboard.

The instructions for the game reads, “Each player has 12 cards in hand: six with female characteristics and six with male characteristics. The main player for the turn selects three cards from his hand and lays them down, describing his character — for example, for a male character: “war weapons collector, spends his holidays in Kazakhstan, likes movies about gladiators.” Then each other player must select three cards from his hand and convince the main player that she (or he) is his best match. The main player then selects the turn’s winner.”

Get Your Speed Dating & Speed Gaming On!

The speed dating scene in “The 40-Year-Old Virgin” pokes fun at the dating process and entertains viewers with its exaggerated scenes, but that’s not how it is in real life.

If you really want to know what speed dating is like, you can always try out some of the sites and games on our list. Who knows? You could meet a new person who takes your breath away. Speed dating is all about saving time, right? And you don’t want to waste any of it!

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