Let's Talk Trust & Boundaries (Page 5)

One of the most uncomfortable things to talk about with a new boyfriend is an old boyfriend. Unfortunately, the ex-factor is a topic of conversation that has to happen sooner or later. Even though we dread talking about previous relationships and sexual partners, we’re going to have to listen to stories about them at some point and share a few of our own. Women are far more interested in getting details about her...

Clergyman, social reformer and abolitionist, Henry Ward Beecher, once said, “I can forgive, but I cannot forget, is only another way of saying I will not forgive. Forgiveness ought to be like a cancelled note — torn in two and burned up, so that it never can be shown against one.” Deciding when to forgive a date, boyfriend or husband is difficult. You are not only being asked to forgive, but in order to move on,...

When your guy gets jealous, it can make you feel secure in your relationship. You think, “If he is getting jealous, he must love me.” That may be true but make no mistake – jealousy can be destructive and cause major problems. Men can get jealous of you talking to another guy, but some even become jealous of your girlfriends and insist you to spend less time with them. Webster’s Dictionary says that to be jealous...

To err is human. We all make mistakes. Still, there are lines of betrayal that are difficult to forgive when someone we love has violated our trust. Lying, infidelity, abusiveness, public humiliation — these offenses can break our spirit. Should you swallow your pride and forgive her anyway? Maybe. Maybe not. The answer depends on the seriousness and frequency of her crime, the genuine love in her heart and yours,...

One of my favorite phrases is “pick your battles.” I have literally seen relationships fall apart because one or both partners are sweatin’ the small stuff. Sure, there are a lot of things that your significant other will do that will annoy you: habitually leave crumbs on the counter, borrow your car and return it on empty, leave dirty clothes on the bedroom floor, never clean out the coffee maker. But you need to...

There comes a time in most relationships when your boyfriend turns to you and asks if he can bring another woman into the mix. No, he’s not talking about your hot friend or the sexy waitress at the cafe. He’s talking about his mother. We all love when the guy we are seeing finally introduces us to his mother. It shows a sign of trust, stability and commitment in the relationship. But what happens when your...

When a new romantic relationship forms, relationships also tend to form between the two families. But not everyone is going to get along. If your boyfriend and sister are fighting over insignificant things like who gets the remote or where to eat for dinner, then they have formed their own brother and sister relationship. This should not be a big deal if they don't mean it. However, if they take personal jabs at...

The beginning of a relationship can be a fun and exciting time, but not everyone enjoys hearing about their new girlfriend's past. If you are the jealous type, you'll have to determine if you are going to take control or let jealousy get in the way of your relationship with a great girl. Being a little jealous is natural because it shows that you really care for this girl, but when it prevents you two from getting...

It's never OK to let someone else dictate when you get to spend time with friends, even if that someone is your significant other. In order to have satisfying lives, we need to balance quality time between friends, family and significant others. You need to try varying up your routine so you can maintain the relationships you still have with your friends. Have a talk with your significant other to let them know...

Typically, girl code states that women should never date a friend’s ex-boyfriend. But is there ever an exception to that rule? If you find yourself having feelings for one of your friend’s exes, are there ways to tell her without ruining your friendship? Here are some tips to help you maneuver the situation in a respectful and considerate way. Determine what kind of relationship they had. Before you tell anyone...