About the Expert

About the Expert

Lillian Castro

Lillian Castro

Senior Editor

Lillian Guevara-Castro edits news content across all verticals at Digital Brands, applying her 30 years of experience as a writer and editor to take DatingAdvice articles to the next level. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, Gwinnett Daily News (GA), Gainesville Sun (FL), and The New York Times, where she covered lifestyle trends, among other topics. Lillian has a degree in journalism and communications from Georgia State University and brings her fact-checking expertise to ensure all content is accurate and engaging.

I am a big fan of quotes. When I was in theater in high school, I loved having a Shakespeare quote or two handy.  Even before the internet — I had books of... Read More »

The Short Version: Aavia is an app that tracks your hormone health symptoms to provide personalized insights on your cycle. With Aavia’s help, you can gain... Read More »

The Short Version: The dating world is full of options, but not always opportunities. That’s where professional matchmakers like those at Executive... Read More »

Imagine you’re living in the early 1600s, single, and reading this personal ad in the local newspaper:  “A good magician and magnetic healer... Read More »

Endless swiping on dating apps can burn single people out real quick. You're seeing a lot of profiles but never any matches – what gives?  Perhaps... Read More »

He’s hot. She’s cute. They’ve got rizz for days. How do you make your interest known? The answer is flirting! Let’s get straight into it — flirting is a... Read More »

How would you describe the men in your state? What character traits do they possess that make them attractive or unattractive? This is the question we... Read More »

The Short Version: Years of chastity can make married life difficult for some LDS women to get used to. This is why Amanda Louder, a sex coach with a... Read More »

The Short Version: For people in committed relationships who want to have a little fun with people besides their partner, swinging might be the answer.... Read More »

Sometimes it seems that what women are looking for can change on a dime. One minute it’s Manic Pixie Dream Boy and the next it’s Lumbersexuals. They... Read More »

There is no “right” or “wrong” way to find love, as long as you enjoy the process and fall in love with its results. Online dating can get tiring when... Read More »

The Short Version: Fear of commitment is a common thread in the world, but it doesn't have to be so scary. Dr. Scott Sibley of Decide to Commit urges... Read More »

The Short Version: If dating has been no fun recently, I have good news: taking a break is going to be way more fun. We talked to dating coach Blaine... Read More »

The Short Version: Everybody wants to be part of a community that celebrates their interests. Geek Meet Club is the one-stop platform for geeks to meet,... Read More »

The Short Version: Serious people don’t have time for unserious dating. We talked to one of LA’s top matchmakers, Maria Silba, about her curated process,... Read More »

Take a caveman and transport him in your time machine to the present day, and he’ll tell you (in grunts): “Wow, a lot has changed!” We’ve got indoor... Read More »

The Short Version: Sex coach Stacie Ysidro thinks that harnessing the power of your sexuality is the deepest way to transform your life. Stacie talked to... Read More »

As someone with parents in their 50s, I spend a good amount of time during Thanksgivings, Christmases, and family vacations looking at the happily married... Read More »

The Short Version: To find truly compatible matches, matchmakers need to know their clients inside and out. Julia Bendis of Match by Julia does this with... Read More »

Unless you, like my favorite marine friend Patrick Star, have been living under a rock, you know that the journey to find love in the technological era has... Read More »