Pamela Gort

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Pamela Gort
After two long-term relationships and five years of dating, Pamela Gort, The Lesbian Love Coach, spent years synthesizing the most effective and relevant dating and relationship practices into five easy steps called “Find Her and Keep Her" specifically tailored for lesbians. Using her warm, funny, direct coaching style, Pamela guides single lesbians to fall in love with themselves so they can attract and keep conscious, lasting, and loving relationships.
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7 years Lesbian Dating San Diego, California 760-521-4238

Latest Posts

21 posts written/edited to date
How Long Before Becoming Official? A Guide for Lesbian Couples
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How Long Do I Wait to Make it Official?

By: Pamela Gort • 6/8/23

When two women come together in a romantic relationship, it's a beautiful thing. The journey to official status can be...(read more)

7 Stressors Lesbian Couples Face in Their Relationships (Expert Advice)
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7 Stressors Lesbian Couples Face

By: Pamela Gort • 5/1/23

Lesbians in a committed relationship may experience a wide range of stressors, including some unique to lesbians, that...(read more)

5 Lesbian Relationship Stereotypes (And the Truth Behind Them)
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5 Lesbian Relationship Stereotypes

By: Pamela Gort • 2/6/23

Myths and stereotypes abound around every major group of people, including lesbian and queer women. Lesbian relationship...(read more)

12 Organic Ways to Meet Lesbians In Real Life (2024)
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Ways to Meet Lesbians in Real Life

By: Pamela Gort • 10/7/22

Lesbians make up roughly 7% of the population. Although I have often heard the number is 10% -- and I like this more....(read more)

How to Start Conversations with Lesbian Women Online (2024)
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How to Start Conversations With Lesbians Online

By: Pamela Gort • 8/25/22

Meeting lesbians online can be scary and intimidating. It can also be fun and exciting.  Having confidence and...(read more)

Expert Guide: 20 Sensational Outdoor Date Ideas for Lesbians
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20 Outdoor Date Ideas for Lesbians

By: Pamela Gort • 6/14/22

If you are looking for fun, exciting, and interesting outdoor dating ideas for lesbians, then this is the article for...(read more)

Reasons for Hiring (or Not Hiring) a Lesbian Dating or Relationship Coach
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Reasons to Hire a Lesbian Dating Coach

By: Pamela Gort • 4/14/22

Most successful people -- CEOs and top athletes, for example – work with a coach to help them achieve more in their...(read more)

12 Valentine’s Day Date Ideas for Lesbians
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12 Date Ideas for Lesbians

By: Pamela Gort • 2/9/22

Valentine’s Day is a special day that represents a celebration of love for everyone, including us lesbians. We want to...(read more)

7 Messaging Tips for Gay Women to Break the Ice on Dating Apps (2024)
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Tips for Breaking the Ice on a Lesbian Dating App

By: Pamela Gort • 1/10/22

There are so many ways to break the ice with a woman who captures your attention. First let me ask – how committed are...(read more)

15 Fun & Interesting Conversation Starters for Lesbian Singles on a Date
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15 Fun & Interesting Conversation Starters

By: Pamela Gort • 11/2/21

Conversation starters are crucial for any good date. They help you break the ice and get to know your date better. ...(read more)

5 Steps to Create a Magnetic Lesbian Dating Profile (2024)
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5 Steps to Create a Lesbian Online Profile

By: Pamela Gort • 9/30/21

Your dating profile can be viewed as a calling card for potential love interests. Both have real estate to be used to...(read more)

9 Essential Dating Tips for Lesbians (2024)
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9 Essential Dating Tips for Lesbians

By: Pamela Gort • 8/24/21

Whether you’re hoping to meet someone while socializing in your hometown or pursuing matches online, dating can be...(read more)

7 Dating Tips for Lesbian Introverts (2024)
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7 Dating Tips for Lesbian Introverts

By: Pamela Gort • 7/6/21

The dating world can be a scary place for introverts. Introverts are usually not looking for a quick hookup or to meet...(read more)

How to Make a Lesbian Go Crazy for You (2024)
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How to Make a Lesbian Go Crazy for You

By: Pamela Gort • 5/28/21

I know dating is hard. You can't read a stranger's mind, and you don't know if she is attracted to you or not. When it...(read more)

How to Get Along With Your Lesbian Girlfriend’s Parents
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How to Get Along With Your Lesbian Girlfriend’s Parents

By: Pamela Gort • 4/27/21

It’s not uncommon for people to have some difficulties when it comes to their in-laws. Having differences of opinion...(read more)

16 COVID-Friendly Spring Date Ideas for Lesbian Singles
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16 COVID-Friendly Spring Date Ideas for Lesbian Singles

By: Pamela Gort • 3/30/21

It’s time to jump into dating and spring forth because love is in bloom!
...(read more)

How to Survive a Lesbian Breakup (2024)
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How to Survive a Lesbian Breakup

By: Pamela Gort • 2/23/21

My girlfriend of eight months dropped the breakup bomb on me on the phone a week before Christmas. I was devastated,...(read more)

Should I Date Straight Girls?
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Should I Date Straight Girls?

By: Pamela Gort • 1/20/21

Before I was willing to admit to myself that I was a lesbian, I recall having many crushes on straight girls because I...(read more)

How Do I Know When My Lesbian Relationship is Over?
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How Do I Know When My Lesbian Relationship is Over?

By: Pamela Gort • 12/29/20

Most of us have been there: You're in a struggling relationship, and you start weighing the options to leave or stay and...(read more)

3 Lesbian First Date Mistakes To Avoid
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3 Lesbian First Date Mistakes To Avoid

By: Pamela Gort • 11/30/20

We all know that feeling before a first date. You’re both excited and nervous, and every decision — from what we...(read more)