Brian Rzepczynski

Perplexing dilemmas abound when you’re single in the gay dating market, and perhaps one of the most common...(read more)

"How do I tell if a man is gay?" It's a common question I receive from gay men, whether it's coaching clients or...(read more)

Whether someone is depressed or just seeking personal growth, one of the homework assignments I often give to clients is...(read more)

We gay guys get a lot of press about being sex mongers ready to drop our trousers at the first opportunity to hit it...(read more)

Imagine Jeff, a handsome single gay man who's moved to a new city for a job and is wondering, "How do I meet gay people...(read more)

If you're a gay couple who is experiencing relationship distress or seeking enrichment for your partnership, then...(read more)

Recently, a client (we’ll call him Nick) came to me confused about his sexual orientation, and he wanted help...(read more)

A recent client of mine came to a counseling session struggling with some sexual identity issues about the fact that he...(read more)

Our dating experts have noticed that older adults in the LGBTQ community can have a particularly difficult time trying...(read more)

We all know you can meet gay guys on Grindr, the most popular gay dating app, like, ever. However, Grindr is known for...(read more)

A big victory occurred for the gay community on Friday, June 26, 2015: The Supreme Court legalized gay marriage...(read more)

With few visible role models of successful gay couples to emulate, many gay singles have grown up without a roadmap on...(read more)

Nothing can be more frustrating than finally finding a guy you feel want to settle down with — only to not be able to...(read more)

One thing bisexual individuals deplore the most is when people dismiss their sexual orientation as a passing...(read more)

Every couple must negotiate their relationship contract in regards to monogamy. This usually entails discussing one’s...(read more)

I often receive letters from partners in new dating relationships or long-term partnerships who are upset after having...(read more)

When I hear people talking about the certain "types" of guys they’re attracted to and will date, I often find myself...(read more)

Did you see the latest DatingAdvice.com study that reports gay Americans are three times more likely to have a...(read more)

What’s a single gay guy to do when he lives in a rural area that lacks a vibrant gay community?...(read more)

Life is all about development, evolution and progression, and as we go through this maturation process, there are often...(read more)

I'm driving around in my car when the new dance tune “Summer” by Calvin Harris blasts out of the radio....(read more)

There are a variety of treatment strategies available for targeting the specific causes of erectile difficulties that I...(read more)

Difficulties with obtaining and maintaining an erection are a common phenomenon that is experienced by most men at some...(read more)

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Question: Can two bottoms in a monogamous gay relationship make it work? The answer to this...a resounding yes!...(read more)

So what do you do when the object of your desire is a gay man who is in the closet about his sexuality? Are these...(read more)

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There are no qualms about it…we live in a digital world now where technology is king and information and immediate...(read more)

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One of the biggest dating traps for gay men is becoming romantically interested in straight men....(read more)

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One of the big “question mark” situations that is quite common among singles is when their ex-boyfriend comes back...(read more)

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I often get letters from guys who are in the throes of dating relationships with men of the same sexual role preference...(read more)

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Have you seen DatingAdvice.com's study that says gay Americans are more likely to kiss on the first date than our...(read more)

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How do you know if the guy you’re dating is the right one for you? How can you tell if you’re REALLY with Mr. Right?...(read more)

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I’ve had an influx of readers and clients lately who have finally met the man of their dreams and are happily paired...(read more)

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One of the big questions surrounding gay dating is, “Where do I meet quality guys?”...(read more)

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One of the most torturous symptoms of the breakup blues is struggling with being able to let go of your ex....(read more)

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One of the most common gripes I hear from gay men is the complete lack of social etiquette or regard they feel they...(read more)

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While our gay community is enjoying some well-deserved heightened acceptance of our identities and relationships in...(read more)

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Let’s say you’ve been dating this great guy for a while and then things start to go south....(read more)

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So, you and that new guy you are seeing are in the early stages of dating?
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The illustrious first date can be wrought with a combination of excitement and nervousness, causing you to potentially...(read more)

I’ve been getting a lot of letters lately from gay men interested in dating guys either much older or much younger...(read more)

One of the most important make-it-or-break-it moments in dating is your introduction when approaching a person you’re...(read more)

What do you do when all that’s on your mind is getting back together with your ex-boyfriend?...(read more)

With all of the gay pride celebrations going on in June, the LGBTQ+ community pays homage to being true to ourselves and...(read more)

Gay parenting is on the rise!...(read more)

Despite our knowledge about HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted infections these days, recent studies point to a...(read more)

In my experience coaching single gay men, I have found there are four main areas that, if successfully cultivated and...(read more)

A great majority of the struggles I find men having with dating stem from anxiety.
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Did you hear the news about the young Russian girl who tattooed the name of her new boyfriend on her face after their...(read more)

Anxiety can be crippling when it comes to dating, whether it be feeling intimidated about approaching a guy you’d like...(read more)

The decision to reconcile with an ex-boyfriend is one that requires much forethought.
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“Where do I go to meet quality gay men?” is a question I hear a lot from single guys aspiring to meet their Mr....(read more)

Another common gay dating dilemma revolves around whether to have sex on the first date or not.
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You’re brimming with excitement as you prepare to go out on your first date with that interesting guy.
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Without a strategic plan in place, dating can be an overwhelming experience.
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Growing up gay, we didn’t receive any socialization on certain rites of passage when it comes to love and...(read more)

When you break up with a boyfriend, it can feel like your whole world is crashing down around you as you try to make...(read more)

If you’re single, and don’t want to be, the Valentine’s Day holiday can be torture.
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Your eyes catch the handsome stranger from across the bar and you find yourself captivated — he’s just your type....(read more)

You know the scenario. You go out on a first date with that incredible guy who seems like he meets all your criteria for...(read more)

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I often get letters from men asking how to go about maintaining a friendship with an ex-partner after they’ve broken...(read more)

Do you approach dating with the best of intentions by only screening guys who fit your personal requirements but then...(read more)

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So, it’s a brand new year filled with hope and possibility! You’ve probably already crafted your New Year’s...(read more)

Do you have a hard time trying to figure out if someone is feeling the same attraction vibe you are when you meet guys...(read more)

Have you struggled in your efforts to snag a decent, quality guy for a dating relationship? Do you tend to be drawn to...(read more)

I get lots of letters from guys asking how to become a more skilled flirt, and while it seems like a very sophisticated...(read more)

We are in the final stretch now of our countdown of the top characteristics that personify a sexy single gay man on the...(read more)

Welcome back to the second installment of our article series on the characteristics that can help you become an...(read more)

Dating can be an elusive activity, particularly in the gay community where no roadmap was offered to us during our...(read more)