About the Expert

About the Expert

Lillian Castro

Lillian Castro

Senior Editor

Lillian Guevara-Castro edits news content across all verticals at Digital Brands, applying her 30 years of experience as a writer and editor to take DatingAdvice articles to the next level. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, Gwinnett Daily News (GA), Gainesville Sun (FL), and The New York Times, where she covered lifestyle trends, among other topics. Lillian has a degree in journalism and communications from Georgia State University and brings her fact-checking expertise to ensure all content is accurate and engaging.

Fall is here. The leaves are changing. The weather is getting colder and colder. Those cozy nights near the fireplace are more and more tempting. The only... Read More »

More than 1 in 3 Gen Z adults identify themselves as celibate, according to The State of Us: National Study on Modern Love & Dating in 2025, a survey... Read More »

For all the questions I field about queer and LGBTQ+ dating — how to find a compatible partner, how to deal with homophobic family, how to meet other queer... Read More »

I’ve spent 30 years learning the marketing tricks that brands use to get attention and make a sale. I believe many of those same strategies and principles... Read More »

If your dating life feels stuck, it might mean you need to rethink the time and energy you’re putting toward it. We often focus on how to meet someone... Read More »

How many times have you found yourself ghosting on a romantic interest? No judgment. I get it, breaking things off feels really uncomfortable. No one wants... Read More »

Is your significant other straying from the relationship, or is he really just working overtime? Has there been a certain shift in his behavior that is... Read More »

I've self-identified as an introvert ever since I learned what the word meant. Contrary to popular belief, introverts aren't necessarily anti-social.... Read More »

No matter how well-regulated and wise you are and no matter how much therapy you've had, the end of a relationship is one of the hardest emotional... Read More »

To date a coworker or not date a coworker, that is the question. From 1983 to 2007, the second-most common way of finding a partner was at work (the... Read More »

While social media and dating apps may tout a perception of sexual openness and positivity, the “everyone’s having sex” stereotype may be nothing more than... Read More »

I truly believe that pop star Taylor Swift and NFL star Travis Kelce have become America’s royal couple. They are both incredibly famous, and their love... Read More »

While a first date can be exhilarating and exciting, it can also be fraught with anxiety. When our nervous systems detect a threat (even something as... Read More »

I’ve been a dating coach for over a decade. In that time, I've perused thousands of dating profiles. Let me tell you, some profiles fail miserably and... Read More »

First dates offer the perfect opportunity to reveal your true identity and character. You should use the time to have intentional conversations and... Read More »

After 16 years in matchmaking, I’ve heard hundreds of horror stories from clients who came to us after getting burned elsewhere, and I know exactly how bad... Read More »

Flirting with an AI chatbot might not make most people’s list when asked to describe their worst cheating experience. But for the current generation, this... Read More »

No matter how old or how experienced we are with dating, whether we've been out as gay for 20 years or two months, it somehow never gets easier to tell... Read More »

Ben sat across from Dave at the fancy restaurant where they were meeting for the first time to have a romantic candlelit dinner after weeks of... Read More »

Women are in tune with their thoughts and emotions. Once they’ve made the decision to break with a man, it’s typically very well thought out.  Even... Read More »