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38 Interesting & Surprising Online Dating Statistics (May 2025)

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When the first dating site launched in the 1990s, there were no online dating statistics, guides, or reviews.1 Single people didn’t really know if a dating site could work, and braved this new frontier on their own, so signing up was truly pioneering the unknown.

Thankfully, we’ve learned a lot since then, and tons of research has gone into describing the trends and success rates in the online dating industry. The numbers show that online dating can work, and it’s rapidly becoming the new normal for singles, young and old.

But you don’t have to take our word for it. We’ve collected stats from the top researchers, polling institutes, and dating services to give people a well-rounded picture of what online dating is all about.

The following online dating stats are must-know information for anyone considering creating a dating profile and seeking romance online.

1. About 30% of Americans Have Tried Online Dating

The Pew Research Center has been polling Americans about online dating for decades now, and its data shows some encouraging trends for the swiping scene. According to a study conducted by Pew Research Center, about 30% of U.S. adults said they have tried using a dating site or app to meet people.2

Younger or LGB Adults are more likely than others to have tried dating apps

What’s more, the Pew Research Center broke down online dating usage by age, gender, race, education, and sexual orientation, and the survey found that online dating is slightly more popular among men than women and significantly more popular among 20-somethings than 60-somethings.

More than half of respondents (53%) between 18 and 29 years old said they have tried online dating before, and only 13% of respondents in the 65-and-older category said they have tried online dating.

2. There are Over 1,500 Dating Sites & Apps Worldwide

Everyone has likely heard of the mainstream dating platforms of Match.com, eharmony, Tinder, and Bumble, but they’re hardly the only players in the online dating market. Niche dating sites have cropped up to satisfy every possible dating desire and cater to minority groups of all shapes and sizes.

According to rough estimates, over 1,500 dating platforms exist worldwide.3 Many of these sites are not nearly as popular as the big-name services; however, some singles prefer swimming in a smaller dating pool, so to each their own!

3. Online Dating is the Most Popular Way to Meet a Spouse

Online dating was once stigmatized as a tool for the lonely and desperate, but now it’s the toast of many wedding parties around the world. The U.S. has seen a particular uptick in the number of newlyweds reporting that they met online.

The Knot conducts a newlywed survey every year to see what’s going on in the world of love. In 2024, the website reported that online dating is now the most popular way to meet a spouse.4

A sizable 17% of engaged couples say they met their partner online

Thanks to its survey, The Knot has been able to track how online dating has become more successful than other avenues in matching young adults with a long-term partner.

Within the last year, a sizable 27% of engaged respondents said they met their partner online, while 16% met through friends and 15% met at school.4

Stanford sociologist Michael Rosenfield came to a similar conclusion in his academic study, saying, “I was surprised at how much online dating has displaced the help of friends in meeting a romantic partner.”5

4. About 4 in 10 U.S. Adults Say Online Dating Has Made the Search for Love Easier

Times have changed, and so has how people meet romantically. Many people have turned to the virtual world of dating to search for love, not just because it’s hip and trendy, but because it has made dating simpler.

According to the Pew Research Center, 42% of U.S. adults say online dating has made the search for a long-term partner easier. Dating apps place an always-available, vast pool of options at daters’ fingertips, increasing the probability of finding a long-lasting relationship for users.

5. Millennials Swipe for 55 Minutes a Day on Average

It’s no secret that consumers tend to log a lot of screen time throughout the day, and younger people tend to spend more time on their phones than average screen time.6 And it’s no different with dating apps.

According to a study by Forbes Health, millennials spend more time on dating apps than other generations. People in this age group spent about 55.7 minutes per day swiping on a dating app.7 The average dating app session lasted 49.3 minutes for single men and 52.3 minutes for single women.

6. LGB Singles are More Likely to Meet a Partner Online

The Pew Research Center has followed up with daters to see how successful their online dating experience is, and the results are fairly encouraging — especially for a single person in the LGBTQ+ community.

LGB singles have the most success online in the love department

The most recent survey reported that among those surveyed, 9% of straight singles and 24% of lesbian, gay, and bisexual singles have met a long-term partner on a dating website or app.

Online dating seems to be a winner in the queer community. Statistics show that meeting through an app is both more popular and more successful among gay and lesbian singles.

7. Over 70% of App Users Have Successful First Dates

The Hinge team is serious about helping singles get into a committed relationship — that’s why they’ve adopted the tagline “designed to be deleted.”

One of the ways the team improves online dating is by consistently asking for feedback from its active users. Hinge launched its We Met feature in 2017 to allow online daters to provide feedback on their dating experience.

So far, over 90% of users have reported they had a good time on their first date, and 72% said they would go on a second date, if asked.8

Hinge boasts being the best online dating app for second dates, and it has the numbers to back that up.

8. The Average Age for an Online Dater is 33

A lot of experts want to pin down exactly who uses online dating to meet new people, and the answer comes back consistently: young people do. Gen Z and millennials have been leading the way in terms of online dating usage.

According to the Kaspersky security company, the average online dater is 33.8 years old, and 63% of online daters are single professionals who work full time.9

9. Women in Oceania Report the Highest Rates of Online Dating

The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University has been conducting academic research into human sexuality and relationships since 1947, and the rise of online dating has opened a new field of study for the researchers.

The Kinsey Institute has published assessments outlining the regional and gender differences in online dating usage. These numbers can help singles get the lay of the land before they sign up for a dating website or app.

Women in Oceania see the highest rates of online dating usage

In 2020, the Kinsey Institute conducted the largest survey of women’s sex-tech engagement. Researchers surveyed more than 130,000 women around the world to see how technology impacted their love lives.

Nearly 22% of the women in the survey said they have used mobile dating apps to find romantic partners.

Online dating usage appeared to be particularly prevalent among the women surveyed in Oceania — 1 in 3 of whom said they use dating apps to meet people.10

10. A Solid 39% of Online Daters Are High-Income Earners

In 2024, the number crunchers at Statista broke down the income levels of the online dating population to see if downloading a dating app could pay off.

It found that 29% of online daters make less than $30,000 a year, and 39% have an income of over $75,000 a year.11 These single professionals find it saves time to swipe online for a match.

11. Tinder Users Exchange Over 52 Million GIFs Per Week

Tinder changed the online dating game when it launched in 2012, and it has collected some pretty impressive statistics since then.

Tinder remains the top dating platform in the world

The dating app isn’t the #1 dating platform in the world by chance. It has been downloaded over 630 million times and created over 100 billion mutual matches since its inception. Tinder also has approximately 50 million monthly users, who happen to exchange over 52 million GIFs per week.12

Tinder is currently available in more than 45 languages and 190 countries. What’s more, about two-thirds of Tinder users are 18-30 years old.

12. More than 350 Million People Use Dating Apps Worldwide

Online dating is a universal experience shared by users all over the world. Even the most popular dating apps operate in multiple countries and languages around the world. In fact, over 350 million people globally use dating apps to connect with other singles, and about 25 million pay for premium features to up their chances of snagging a hot date.13

13. Women in Their 20s Receive the Most Messages & Likes

The eharmony team has a run-up of online dating statistics pulled from its dating service and other respectable outlets. Its most interesting findings concern the age when a person’s desirability is at its peak.

Women in their 20s receive the most messages

According to eharmony, heterosexual women who are 21 receive the most attention from male users.14 Young women are highly desirable in the online dating world, and they can sometimes become overwhelmed by an onslaught of likes and messages.

Women in their 20s consistently see the highest rates of incoming messages and likes, but men catch up to women in terms of desirability in their late 40s. The experts say, “At 26, women have more online pursuers than men, whereas, at 48, men have twice as many online pursuers as women.”

14. Women Are More Likely to Feel Overwhelmed By Messages Than Men

Message overload is not a rare occurrence in online dating, especially when you’re a woman.

A Pew Research Center study revealed that 54% of women say they felt overwhelmed by the number of messages they received on dating apps, compared to only 25% of men who felt the same.

Men, however, have had a different experience. By contrast, 64% of men say they’ve felt insecure by the lack of messages they received.2

15. The First Sunday in January is the Busiest Swiping Day of the Year

The first Sunday in January has become something of a holiday in the online dating industry because online dating activity tends to peak on this day every year.15 Industry leaders refer to it as Dating Sunday and expect traffic to increase anywhere from 40% to 70% on that day.

Online dating activity peaks every year on Dating Sunday, the 1st Sunday of January

Dating Sunday is basically the Black Friday of online dating. Many single people make a New Year’s resolution to get a date or fall in love, so early January is statistically one of the best times to set up a dating profile and start swiping on new romantic possibilities.

16. The Most Successful Online Dating Messages are Between 40 and 90 Characters

Ever wonder what to say in a first message? Well, OkCupid has dug into its user data, crunched the numbers, and come up with some first-message tips based on site-wide trends.

OkCupid has found that interest-based words (band, vegetarian, favorite movies) tend to elicit higher response rates than physical compliments (hot, sexy, beautiful), and unique greetings such as hola and howdy go over better than generic greetings such as hi or hello.

The numbers also provide insight into the right length for a first message, which is about one or two sentences long. OkCupid reports that the sweet spot for an online dating message is between 40 and 90 characters.16

“FYI this sentence is 40 characters long,” the OkCupid article says. “This little ditty has 90 characters. Can you believe it?? We can. Because we counted them.”

That is basically just enough space to say howdy and ask one personal question, so online daters have to make every word count.

17. About 27% of Users Lead With a Compliment as a Conversation Starter

When making a first impression online, having a strategy is almost like employing a wingman to assist you with your landing. In fact, tons of daters use routine conversation starters to maximize their experience.

According to a Forbes Health study, the most popular online dating strategies include these conversation starters: leading with a compliment (27%), asking about a match’s profile (26%), recycling a rotation of conversation starters (19%), and using pickup lines (13%).

18. Fewer Than 1% of Bumble Women are Seeking a Hookup

Bumble has created a buzz in the online dating market as the world’s first feminist dating app. It was launched by former Tinder co-founder Whitney Wolfe Herd in an effort to empower single women and civilize single men.

By 2020, the dating app had surpassed more than 100 million users, making it one of the most popular online dating services available.17

A majority of women are seeking healthy, committed relationships

The Bumble app has positioned itself as a values-driven alternative to casual swiping apps like Tinder. It appeals to single people who are serious about making a meaningful connection.

In an internal survey of active Bumble users, fewer than 1% of Bumble women — and fewer than 4% of all Bumble users — said that they were on the dating app to find casual sex.18 Over 80% of users said their ultimate goal was to get in a committed relationship.

19. About 72% of Daters Believe Politics Matter in Dating

Politics is a sticky issue in the dating scene, especially in today’s hyperpartisan political climate, and some dating experts encourage singles to avoid talking about politics when they’re first getting to know someone.18

However, many singles have started bucking this norm and talking politics early in a new relationship.

Since 2016, reports show that online daters have started talking politics earlier and more frequently. A growing number of today’s dating profiles contain terms like “Trumper” and “Black Lives Matter” because such issues have become common dating dealbreakers.

In 2024, the dating app Coffee Meets Bagel conducted a survey with users and reported that 72% of singles believe political alignment is at least “somewhat important” when choosing a partner. About 69% of users would filter potential matches by their party if possible.19

20. Profiles That Mention Sports or Music Attract More Fans

Zoosk is an online dating platform with a following of more than 40 million users in 80 countries. These singles come from all age groups and backgrounds, but Zoosk’s internal data indicates that one of the most popular subsets of users is sports fans in the U.S.

A data study showed that profiles that contained the word “sports” received a 53% boost in messaging when compared to the site average.20 Terms like MBA, MLB, and rugby also correlated with an increase in messaging.

“Simply being a sports fan can boost your chances of getting attention.” — A Zoosk study

Plenty of Fish is a dating platform with over 150 million users, and it has found similar evidence that personality quirks pay off online.

Specifically, being a music fan seems to be an attractive quality for online daters to possess. POF users received 32% more messages than average if they mentioned an interest in music in their dating profiles.21

Female users who referenced Led Zeppelin, Queen, Pink Floyd, or the Rolling Stones were 68% more likely to find a match than female users who were less rock-friendly.

21. Singles Like Dating Profiles With 4+ Photos

Photos are one of the most important parts of a dating profile because they receive the most scrutiny from online daters. An eharmony study found that women are more likely than men to post multiple photos.

Dating profiles with four or more photos were the most successful on the online dating website. This held true for both genders.22

Additionally, eharmony profiles with photos were found to be nine times more likely to receive messages and likes than profiles without a photo. So, brush off your favorite selfies if you want to make a good first impression in the swiping scene.

22. One-Third of Gay Dating App Users Have Multiple Sexual Partners

Gay dating apps like Grindr and Hornet promote a fast-paced and photo-driven matching system that has allowed gay, bisexual, and queer men to come out of the closet with a bang — pun intended.

Regular HIV and STI testing can you and your partner stay safe

However, some academics warn that the numerous options on men-seeking-men apps can lead singles to engage in risky and even dangerous behaviors.

For instance, a study in Hong Kong found that 25% of single men on gay dating apps said they did not use a condom during anal sex, and 30% of app users said they had anal sex with three or more sexual partners.23 Another 13% admitted to having group sex with men they had met on a dating app.

Fortunately, Grindr has taken steps to spread awareness about HIV and other STDs. This popular gay dating app currently allows its 27 million male users to opt in for reminders to get tested.24

Research has proven that gay dating apps can have a positive impact on a user’s sexual health by being proactive about it.

In a recent study, gay app users who encountered HIV intervention methods, including social media posts, were found to be 2.9 times more likely to have gotten an HIV test in the past year.

23. Daters Give Their Dating Experiences an Honesty Score of 5.1 Out of 10

Breaking news: Some people lie on the internet just because they can. Online falsehoods can range from fake news to Nigerian prince scams, but the most common lies in the online dating world are best categorized as personal embellishments.

Basically, singles lie to make themselves seem richer, taller, and more impressive.

According to a DatingAdvice.com study, the top areas of dishonesty include relationship status, age, and real-life experiences. Another 32.5% reported discovering that a match had used AI to enhance their profile photos.25

Kittenfishing is when someone lies on their dating profile to make themselves look more impressive

In one study, 31% of women and 36% of men admitted to lying on an online dating profile “just for fun.” Such fibs may seem harmless to some, but this kittenfishing phenomenon has caused widespread frustration.26

Online dating platforms have had to get creative to support honesty and build trust among users. Some premium services allow a single person to verify their dating photos, annual income, and other personal details to prove they’re the real deal.

About 71% of online daters say it is very common for people to lie about themselves on a dating platform, and an additional 25% say it is somewhat common.27

24. About 1 in 10 Singles Quit Online Dating After Three Months

Online dating burnout is common among singles who spend hours swiping and chatting without getting the results they want. Many dating sites and apps struggle with user retention because it’s hard to convince an app user to come back after they’ve been ghosted, rejected, or flat-out ignored.

Sadly, about 10% of online daters give up on the swiping scene within three months.28 Some delete their profiles, while others simply leave without providing a reason why.

25. Nearly 80% of Gen Z Report Dating App Burnout

Feeling burnt out from dating apps? Well, you’re not alone.

Online dating has placed a seemingly endless pool of dating options at singles’ fingertips. But constant swiping can also leave singles feeling drained.

An overwhelming number of users have expressed feeling worn out from their time on dating apps, with Gen Z scoring at a high rate of 79% for burnout.5

However, it’s not all what it seems. According to Dr. Judy Ho, a Forbes Health Advisory Board member, younger generations may face the most burnout due to how common it is for these age groups to use dating apps and other digital platforms to communicate, suggesting a carryover from overall digital activity.

26. Half of Gen Z Singles Have Gone on a Video Date

Dating sites with video calls have become the go-to wingman for singles seeking a low-risk way to meet new people and pursue romantic relationships. Studies indicate that singles have largely embraced video dating since the COVID-19 pandemic.

a video date can be a good first step

Before the COVID-19 outbreak, only 6% of singles reported using a video platform for dating purposes, but by April 2020, the same study found that 69% of singles had used video streaming to chat with someone they met on a dating site or app.29

Half of Gen Z singles and 29% of millennials said they had gone on a video date in 2020. It basically became the new coffee date during lockdowns.

27. About 52% of Daters Plan to Continue Video Dating

The Hinge team asked its users for feedback after unveiling its Date From Home video feature in the summer of 2020.

The online dating app found that 82% of singles did not find video dates more awkward than in-person dates, and 52% said they planned to continue going on video dates after the pandemic.30

28. More Than 20% of Online Daters are Open to Pen Pals

The very nature of a romantic relationship changed during the era of social distancing. During the pandemic, a wave of singles turned away from bars, house parties, and social gatherings and began exploring social media and dating sites to find meaningful connections while staying at home.

Nearly one-third of online daters reported that they sent more online dating messages during the lockdowns of 2020, and 25% said they’d been in contact with an ex.31

Attitudes have shifted in favor of online relationships. About 22% of online daters said they would consider entering a committed relationship with someone they hadn’t met in person.31 A remarkable 49% of single adults said long distance isn’t a dealbreaker in their relationships.32

29. A Majority of Daters Say Men Should Pay for Dinner

Feminism is another hot-button issue in the online dating scene. Heterosexual couples can struggle to balance progressive ideals with more traditional values, and sometimes they may encounter gender differences that hold them back.

For instance, there isn’t a clear consensus on how to split the bill on a dinner date. About 72% of respondents in a NerdWallet survey said the man should pay, and interestingly enough, men were more likely to support this opinion than women.33

A majority of heterosexual daters think men should take care of the bill on dates

Comparing by gender, 78% of men think they should pay for a dinner date, while 68% of women think a man should pay.

By and large, single men seem to put pressure on themselves to pay for dinner. A lot of factors may play into why, but men being the primary pursuer may also explain it.

One study revealed 53% of men say they asked for the first date compared to just 15% of women.29 And per dating experts’ etiquette, whoever asks for the date should pay for the date.

30. About 45% of Straight Women Prefer to Be Pursued

Bumble, Hinge, and other female-friendly dating apps empower a single woman to screen potential matches and make the first move in the swiping scene. But some dating apps have found evidence that not every single woman is about that life.

OkCupid did some research on how feminism impacted dating habits. The dating platform found that while 77% of female users called themselves a feminist, fewer than 1% of straight women said they would rather pursue men than be pursued.34

A solid 45% of women said they want to be pursued by a man, and 54% said they prefer a little of both.

“Being feminist doesn’t mandate that you reject all traditional gender roles,” the OkCupid team concluded.

31. Seattle, Denver, and New York City are Online Dating Hot Spots

Every city has a different demographic, and that can have a dramatic impact on the local online dating scene. Ashley Madison is most popular in Seattle and Denver, while eharmony gets the most traction in New York City, where 57% of the population is single.35

Seattle, Denver, and NYC are the top hot spots for online dating

Every city has its own favorite online dating app. Tinder’s most swipe-happy cities tend to be college towns or cities with a lot of young residents.36

On the other hand, Facebook Dating has been doing well in less populous areas, where singles want a more organic and less fast-paced way to meet a romantic partner.

32. The Average Date Night Costs $116

Elite Singles recently tracked how many online daters spend on their romantic nights out and calculated that the average date costs about $116.37

Of course, the cost of a date varies based on the city and the activity. The researchers found that San Francisco is the most expensive city to go on a date — a date night costs about $143 there. Omaha, Nebraska, is one of the cheapest cities to cover the cost of a date at $83.

The most expensive date night activities typically involve drinks, dinner, or live entertainment. Budget-conscious singles can always meet for coffee or a hiking day to save money and fall well below the $116 average date night cost.

33. Over 80% of Online Daters Say They are Selective

Match.com surveyed its members to get a sense of who they are and what they want. The data shows that Match members tend to be well-educated singles with high dating standards.

The survey asked 1,500 singles if they were more selective about first dates in today’s economy, and 84% said yes.38

34. Online Dating Revenue in the U.S. May Reach $4.2B by 2034

The online dating market has grown tremendously over the last decade or so. From 2013 to 2015, online dating usage tripled among young adults in the U.S. alone, and global traffic has continued to climb as dating services like Tinder and eharmony have become household names.

The U.S. online dating services market is expected to reach $4.3 billion by 2034

Global dating app revenue has skyrocketed since 2015, increasing from $1.6 billion to $6.18 billion in 2024. In the U.S. alone, the online dating services market reached a valuation of $2.9 billion in 2023.3940

Financial experts predict online dating revenue in the U.S. will nearly double in size and reach $4.3 billion by 2034.

35. About 53% of Online Daters Say They Have a Good Experience

Online dating experiences can vary widely. On one side, you have a single woman overwhelmed by incoming messages within minutes of her registration, and on the other side, you have a single man hustling to send out likes and messages but getting few responses.

Some singles say they enjoy having a lot of potential date options at their fingertips, while others say it’s too much work for them to get a date.

According to the Pew Research Center, the general opinion on online dating is divided. About 53% of U.S. adults described their online dating experience as either very or somewhat positive, and 46% said it was very or somewhat negative.2

Interestingly, some demographics were more likely to say the experience was positive than others. For instance, 57% of men described online dating as a positive experience versus 48% of women. LGB users also had a higher likelihood to report positive vibes than straight users (61% vs. 53%).

36. Online Daters Tend to be Optimistic About Swiping

The Pew Research Center asked Americans to provide value judgments on online dating and discovered, perhaps unsurprisingly, that people who had tried online dating had a more positive opinion about it than people who had never tried online dating.

Many online daters believe a long-lasting relationship can come from a dating app experience

About 62% of online daters agreed that relationships that start online are just as likely to succeed as any other relationships. Whereas, 52% of non-app users said the same thing.41

Additionally, about 1 in 3 online daters said dating sites and apps have been a good thing for modern-day dating and relationships, and only 21% of non-app users agree with that.36

37. Americans are Now More Open to Interracial Dating

Powered by Match.com, the Singles in America study has kept a finger on the pulse of the dating landscape for decades. That has given it the unique ability to track how attitudes, norms, and trends change as new generations of daters come into their own.

Today’s daters express more openness to dating outside their race than in any of the previous surveys. The data shows that in 2010, a remarkably high 75% of singles said they would prefer to date within their own race. In 2020, that number decreased by 58% and reached an all-time low in the survey’s history.

Approximately 64% of Americans in the survey also said a potential partner’s views on racial equality could be a dealbreaker for them.

more people are open to interracial relationships than ever before

Gen Z is the most diverse generation in American history, so it should come as no surprise that these young singles have canceled racial prejudice in the dating scene.42 More than half of Gen Z (57%) have expressed interest in dating a person of a different race or ethnicity.43

Some evidence suggests that online dating has helped contribute to the rise of interracial relationships and marriages because it allows singles of different backgrounds to find one another.44

Some dating sites and apps have gotten flak for having race or ethnicity filters, but Match.com has defended these tools by saying they serve to empower minorities seeking a partner with shared values.

38. Couples Who Meet Online Report Greater Relationship Happiness

Lastly, we’d like to end on a high note by pointing out an oldie but a goodie. Neuroscience researchers conducted a survey of over 19,000 people who got married between 2005 and 2012, and the study found a positive association between online dating and relationship satisfaction.

Respondents who met their spouses through online dating reported higher levels of happiness in their marriages than those who met through traditional means.45 Couples who met online were also less likely to break up or get divorced, according to the study.

Online Dating Stats Show It Really Can Work Out

Decades of expert-led research and surveys have yielded a wealth of online dating statistics. Our list includes some of the most noteworthy trends impacting singles across the spectrum.

The numbers tell a story about what modern daters are looking for online and what type of singles are most successful in this medium.

From insights on messaging strategies to the average cost of a date, such data-driven takeaways can help online daters make informed decisions to upgrade their online dating experience.

We hope these interesting facts and figures have given you something to think over as you create your own personal stats on the online dating site or app of your choice. Good luck!

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