Let's Talk First Date (Page 2)

Amber Brooks

By: Amber Brooks

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Editor: Lillian Castro

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Do you turn into a ball of nerves at the thought of planning for a first date? If you need help cutting through those nerves and nailing that first date, check out our advice for planning and navigating first dates with poise and grace.

Here, we teach readers how to make first impressions count so they can get to that second date. Our team, loaded with dating coaches and experts, knows a thing or two about first dates.

You can browse tips and strategies that take the guesswork out of first dates, with advice tailored to both the male and female perspectives. Dive into everything first date-related. Need conversation tips? Outfit choices? You got it.

No matter the type of date, we've got you covered. Our expert advice provides the scoop on how to prepare for first dates and understand all the nuances, like body language and expectations, along the way.

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What Our Experts Say:

31.
7 Biggest Mistakes Gay Singles Make on the First Date

7 Biggest Mistakes Gay Singles Make on the First Date

Mason Glenn

Mason Glenn

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Throughout my professional dating coaching and matchmaking career, I've noticed many bad patterns in terms of singles' behavior, and a lot of the time, they don't even know they're behaving this way. In case you keep missing the mark on your first dates, I’ll walk you through the biggest mistakes single gay men make when they initially meet someone they like. I’ll also share my top tips to avoid these mistakes...

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Treeline Coffee Cultivates Good Vibes for a Casual Date or Caffeinated Adventure

Treeline Coffee Cultivates Good Vibes for a Date

Amber Brooks

Amber Brooks

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The Short Version: Treeline Coffee Roasters has created a caffeinated haven in Bozeman, Montana. Its two locations serve specialty coffee sourced from farms around the world and roasted in-house. Couples can stop by for a casual afternoon date and share a flavorful coffee flight while chatting about their tastes and experiences. The coffee shop also has subscription boxes and roaster's choice beans available for...

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What Senior Men Should Wear on a First Date

What Senior Men Should & Shouldn't Wear on a First Date

April Braswell

April Braswell

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You put your single self out there, met a sexy senior lady, and asked her out on a first date. Good for you! But now you’re probably left wondering what you should wear, especially if it's been a long time since your last first date. Maybe you wore corduroy pants in the '60s, leisure suits in the '70s, gold monogram buttons on your blazer in the '80s, and biker jackets in the '90s. Well, those fashions won't...

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The Dark Knot Has Ties, Pocket Squares & Accessories to Upgrade a Man’s Date Outfit

The Dark Knot Accessories Upgrade Date Outfits

Amber Brooks

Amber Brooks

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The Short Version: The Dark Knot is an esteemed online retailer of men's accessories. Its silk ties, scarves, socks, and pocket squares come in a variety of colors and patterns to complement any adult look. In addition to its luxury collection, The Dark Knot offers style tips and recommendations to ensure men know how to make a good first impression. Whether you're going on a first date or a job interview, you can...

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3 Lesbian First Date Mistakes To Avoid

3 Lesbian First Date Mistakes To Avoid

Pamela Gort

Pamela Gort

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We all know that feeling before a first date. You’re both excited and nervous, and every decision — from what we choose to wear to the location we select for that first meetup — is carefully evaluated. First dates are so important, but we often go into them with the wrong mindset. What do I mean by that? We either have the expectation that she will be The One, or we bemoan that she’s probably not The One. We often...

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What Women Should Wear on a First Senior Date

What Women Should Wear on a First Senior Date

April Braswell

April Braswell

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If you’re a senior lady and you’ve got a first date scheduled, a nagging thought you probably have immediately after accepting the gentleman’s invitation is, “What on earth am I going to wear?!” Have no fear. That’s what I'm here to do: help you with all things related to senior dating, including your wardrobe. Read on to learn more about what I, as a professional senior dating coach, recommend you wear on a...

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4 Gay Blind Dating Tips (From a Coach)

4 Gay Blind Dating Tips

Mason Glenn

Mason Glenn

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We're well into 2020, and you may be thinking about how you can make this the year you find love, especially if you've been single for a while. Let's face it: Singles have to try new tactics or even be reminded of proper etiquette when trying to seal the deal of a true connection. When you’re going on blind dates to meet people, your nerves can create a heightened emotional state, of sorts, that can lend nuance...

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Editor’s Choice Award: The Hawthorne Offers Exquisite Cocktails and an Elegant Atmosphere for Intimate Date Nights

The Hawthorne: Exquisite Cocktails for Intimate Date Nights

Hayley Matthews

Hayley Matthews

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The Short Version: Couples in Boston often visit The Hawthorne for unique cocktails in a sophisticated, but comfortable, setting. It's a great place to meet for a first date or to take your special someone for a memorable evening of sipping on specialty concoctions and eating high-end appetizers. In addition to cocktails created with fresh ingredients, The Hawthorne offers an impressive list of wines and craft beers...

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How Can a Man Look Good on a Date? 5 Quick Steps

How Can a Man Look Good on a Date?

Hunt Ethridge

Hunt Ethridge

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I basically grew up on the runway. My mother was a model when I was younger, so I was introduced to that world early in my life. My first job was at 9 as a ring bearer in a bridal fashion show. Then I was in prom fashion shows and worked my way up to groom in bridal shows. Eventually, I worked as a fashion editor for a glossy magazine in New York City. What I’m getting at is that I grew up around fashion, love...

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The Bronx Museum of the Arts Gives Couples a Cultural Experience Surrounded by Conversation Starters

The Bronx Museum of the Arts Surrounds Couples With Conversation Starters

Amber Brooks

Amber Brooks

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The Short Version: New Yorkers looking for an affordable and engaging date spot should consider visiting the Bronx Museum of the Arts. This contemporary art museum is open from Wednesday through Sunday until 6 p.m. (8 p.m. on Fridays) and admission is free, so it's a perfect substitute for an expensive and crowded bar. Couples may also want to check out the museum's calendar to find out about upcoming programs,...

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What’s Your Price: A First-Date Site Encourages Generous Users to Make an Enticing Offer to Attractive Singles

What’s Your Price: A First-Date Site for Generous & Attractive Singles

Amber Brooks

Amber Brooks

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The Short Version: WhatsYourPrice.com, a groundbreaking dating site, helps single men and women arrange a first date as quickly and effortlessly as possible. Instead of sending messages or swiping right, singles introduce themselves by making an offer of what they're willing to pay or be paid to go on a first date. The average date offer is $125, but it's up to each individual to negotiate and determine their own...

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15 Tips for the First Online Date (Advice From the Experts)

15 Tips for the First Online Date

Hayley Matthews

Hayley Matthews

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One of my closest friends, someone I've known since I was 2 years old, recently met a guy on Tinder and had a first date that lasted almost seven hours. From going for drinks to having dinner to playing old-school arcade games to walking around downtown and going for one more drink, there wasn't much they didn't do. She was a little worried the date was going to be awful because they'd had such good chemistry while...

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16 Cute Date Ideas: For First, Cheap, Double & At Home

16 Cute Date Ideas: According to a Dating Coach

Hunt Ethridge

Hunt Ethridge

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Dating is supposed to be fun, right? I know it may not feel like it when you’re out in the trenches, and going on your standard dinner dates can sometimes feel, well, less than exciting. This is why doing new things is extremely important. Anytime we do something for the first time, we remember it forever. By introducing the woman you're seeing to new and fun dates, you’ll make sure a part of you will indelibly be...

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“What Not to Do on a First Date” — (6 Things to Avoid Saying & Asking)

What Not to Do on a First Date: 6 Tips From an Expert

Hunt Ethridge

Hunt Ethridge

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Many of my male clients are in their late 20s and mid-30s, and I'd say it's because of the rise of online dating, especially for mobile. While online dating makes it easy to get dates, it's one of the reasons why a lot of my clients are going on more first dates but the same amount of second dates. Instead of going on four dates a month and getting one second date, they're going on 12 dates but are only getting one...

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Good Questions to Ask a Girl (6 Topics to Win Her Over)

Good Questions to Ask a Girl

Robert Warner

Robert Warner

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The first couple of dates with a new girl can be awkward, but they’re a lot less awkward when you know the right questions to ask to get the conversation going. It’s not just about asking the right questions either. It’s also about knowing what you want to get out of the date. So what are you trying to accomplish with these questions? Comfort: You want her to feel comfortable around you. By comfortable, I...

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“Our First Kiss Sucked!” — 3 (Quick) Ways to Recover

“Our First Kiss Sucked!” — 3 (Quick) Ways to Recover

David Wygant

David Wygant

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So you scored a date with someone awesome. Everything's going great. Then all of a sudden, like a train wreck, you move in for the kiss. Your mouths meet, and guess what happens? The kiss sucks. Your tongue goes left; her tongue goes right. Her tongue goes up and down; your tongue goes side to side. You kissed fast; she kissed slow. Here are 3 ways to recover from that awkward mess: 1. Don't Bring It Up You do...

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3 (Easy) Ways to Follow Up After a First Date

3 (Easy) Ways to Follow Up After a First Date

Thomas Edwards

Thomas Edwards

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So you made it through the first date. You two had an awesome time and maybe even shared a kiss at the end of the night. Overall, all is good in the world. So how do you make sure you get that second date? One of the biggest things that can derail your momentum with a potential relationship is waiting too long to follow up (you do follow up, right?) or doing the wrong thing. It's easy to let the nerves or the...

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5 Ways To Deal With First-Date Nerves

5 Ways To Deal With First-Date Nerves

Hayley Matthews

Hayley Matthews

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You’re sitting at the table staring at your phone. Among the flurry of thoughts running through your head about the outfit you chose and the fear she might not show up is one common undercurrent of all first dates: “How do I get rid of these nerves?” If this is you, don’t worry — you’re not alone. The first date can be a nerve-racking experience for everyone. Here’s how you cope with first-date jitters in five...

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5 Ways to Make a Good First Impression

5 Ways to Make a Good First Impression

Amie Leadingham

Amie Leadingham

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Recent research shows first impressions are more important than actual facts. That means whatever someone thinks of you at first could actually supersede things they learn about you at a later date. "We judge books by their covers, and we can't help but do it," said Social Psychologist Dr. Nicholas Rule, of the University of Toronto. “First impressions continue to assert themselves long after you know relevant...

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11 Best Makeover Experts to Improve Your Date Look

11 Best Makeover Experts to Improve Your Date Look

Hayley Matthews

Hayley Matthews

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Finally scored that hot date this weekend? Don’t let him or her see you all scuffed up and messy just yet. Let's save those sweatpants for a few dates in. Whether you need outfit advice or a full-fledged makeover, we rounded up the top 11 makeover experts to prep you for your big date. Take a look. The Style...

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The #1 Conversation Tip for a First Date [Video]

The #1 Conversation Tip for a First Date [Video]

Laurel House

Laurel House

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14 Best Small Cities for a First Date

14 Best Small Cities for a First Date

Hayley Matthews

Hayley Matthews

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Planning a first date is never easy. Do you go casual, or do you go fancy? What activities should you do? Where should you go to eat? It's nerve-wracking to say the least. But you know what makes the process a whole lot easier? Being in a great city! (And not just the ones you hear about all the time!) From cute shops to romantic restaurants to exciting things to do, you can't go wrong with our 14 Best Small Cities...

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Study: Divorcees 22% More Likely to Kiss on a First Date

Study: Divorcees 22% More Likely to Kiss on a First Date

Hayley Matthews

Hayley Matthews

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This is an exclusive study conducted by DatingAdvice.com, which surveyed respondents over the course of three weeks to reflect an accurate representation of the U.S. population. A person "who'll kiss on the very first date is usually a hussy." Well, that's according to "The Music Man." Nowadays, it seems much more common for folks to watch a movie, grab dinner and play a little tonsil hockey on their first time...

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Study: Seniors 39% More Likely to Choose Coffee as First Date Activity

Study: Seniors 39% More Likely to Choose Coffee as First Date Activity

Hayley Matthews

Hayley Matthews

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This is an exclusive study conducted by DatingAdvice.com, which surveyed respondents over the course of three weeks to reflect an accurate representation of the U.S. population. Since the dawn of time - well, the dawn of coffee shops - there has been debate as to whether or not coffee is the go-to first date activity. Is it not structured enough? Is it considered cheap? Is it too cliche? And then there are the...

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Trick or Treat? 3 Ways to Survive a First Date Disaster

Trick or Treat? 3 Ways to Survive a First Date Disaster

Michelle Johnson

Michelle Johnson

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“Dating is like trying to make a meal out of leftovers. Some leftovers actually get better when they've had a little time to mature, but others should be thrown out right away..." ― Lisa Kleypas Have you ever had a really horrible first date? I’m not talking about a date where there is just no connection or chemistry, but rather I'm talking about a date that makes your skin crawl. This is the kind of date that makes...

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5 Reasons Kissing on a First Date Doesn’t Make You a Lesbian Couple

5 Reasons Kissing on a First Date Doesn’t Make You a Lesbian Couple

Mary Gorham Malia

Mary Gorham Malia

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There was chemistry, attraction and a few fireworks. You made out in the parking lot so long you lost track of time. You drove home all tingly and lit up. You thought she’s fabulous, sexy and hot, and you love how she kisses. You’re pretty sure this one has staying power because WOW that was so great. She told you she thought you were great, fun and amazing. She loved your lips… and on and on. Now there’s no...

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Study: Women 2x More Likely to Go on Group First Dates

Study: Women 2x More Likely to Go on Group First Dates

Hayley Matthews

Hayley Matthews

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This is an exclusive study conducted by DatingAdvice.com, which surveyed respondents over the course of three weeks to reflect an accurate representation of the U.S. population. In high school, group first dates were the way to go - often because your parents said so. As an adult, you may have traded in a gaggle of friends for some one-on-one time - or maybe not. As it turns out, there's more appeal to group...

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8 Ways to Avoid Awkward Silence on a Date

8 Ways to Avoid Awkward Silence on a Date

April Davis

April Davis

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The date was going well, but then you stumbled upon the killer of all great dates: the awkward silence. It’s that moment when a sudden silence falls upon the dinner table. Neither of you knows what to say, and now the silence is growing deeper and deeper. It feels like the whole table will be consumed. The longer the silence continues, the less chances you have of ever seeing this date again. Don’t be an awkward...

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Why Viagra and Airplanes Don’t Mix

Why Viagra and Airplanes Don’t Mix

David Wygant

David Wygant

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This is the story of a Viagra incident gone hilariously wrong, as told through David Wygant for a client of his. I personally don’t have to use Viagra, so I don’t have any personal stories to share with you. However, I’ve been asking around, and I can tell you I’ve heard some very funny stories. This is the best story I've heard A client of mine was going to meet a woman for the first time in person. They were...

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What 64% of Americans Won’t Discuss on First Dates

What 64% of Americans Won’t Discuss on First Dates

Hayley Matthews

Hayley Matthews

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This is an exclusive study conducted by DatingAdvice.com, which surveyed respondents over the course of three weeks to reflect an accurate representation of the U.S. population. When it comes to getting to know one another on a first date, how much is too much to share, especially in regards to breakups and exes? In the latest DatingAdvice.com study, we found more than three in five Americans would not talk...

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Amber Brooks

By: Amber Brooks

Editor-in-Chief

Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.

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