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A study is attempting to define how common, how frequent, and under what circumstances women have orgasms. Appearing in the latest edition of Evolution and Human Behavior, women with dominant or masculine men as partners were found to have a greater frequency of orgasms. Conducted at the University of Pennsylvania, the study involved surveying heterosexual woman about the frequency and timing of their orgasms,...

This is an exclusive study conducted by DatingAdvice.com, which surveyed respondents over the course of three weeks to reflect an accurate representation of the U.S. population. Should you have sex on the first date? This is often a hot topic in the dating industry and opinions vary across the board. However, some research may help us better understand who engages in this type of sexual behavior and why. A...

New research has found it's not just older men who may have trouble in the bedroom. According to a study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, about one in four men seeking treatment for erectile dysfunction are under the age of 40. This represents a significant change since ED has historically been an older man’s ailment, typically only occurring in younger men experiencing a psychological problem. In...

Sometimes group sex experiences are amazing and mind-blowing and way more fun than watching "Batman." But sometimes they are boring, uncomfortable or stressful. I’m going to shed some light on some of my experiences. (Make sure to look at some of my awesome threesome experiences, too!) Most of my negative experiences with group sex have resulted from feeling uncomfortable with something or being left out or...

Despite the cinematic fantasy of a nameless stranger and an anonymous encounter, research finds women actually enjoy sex more with an established partner. The study, which was conducted by researchers from Stanford University, the University of Michigan and New York University, found 83 percent of women in established relationships (six months or more) described enjoying their most recent sexual experience “very...

Is timing everything when it comes to sex? Dr. Wendy Walsh gives her take on this common dating question. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RdLtWQspLzw

This is an exclusive study conducted by DatingAdvice.com, which surveyed respondents over the course of three weeks to reflect an accurate representation of the U.S. population. The lure of the familiar can be a powerful thing, as demonstrated by new research that shows just how many Americans have slept with an ex-lover. In a sweeping study conducted by DatingAdvice.com, 39% of men and 30% of women said they've...

Women have always been more harshly judged in terms of promiscuity than their male counterparts. Taking multiple lovers is seen as a victory for a man, but a blemish against a woman. However, research suggests even other women strongly indulge in that double standard themselves. Newly published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, the study found women preferred not having promiscuous friends, even...

Reader Question: I've been divorced a little over a year. During that time, I have become a full diabetic and can't perform like I should in the bedroom. It's really depressing and it has stopped me from dating at all. Do you have any suggestions? -George (Virginia) Dr. Wendy Walsh's Answer: Dear George, My heart breaks for you. Not because you aren’t fully able to be sexual, but because you think this...

Fellas, have you been getting enough sleep lately? It could be important to your love life. Academic research finds a single night of missed sleep can impair a man’s ability to discern how interested a woman is in having sex. The study, which was led by Dr. Jennifer Peszka, involved 60 college-aged students who completed a survey about their sexual interest, sexual intent, commitment interest and commitment...

The first time you have sex with your significant other is an anticipated, special moment, but what if the first time is terribly disappointing? Terrible sex happens a lot, and it is also subjective. What is considered terrible varies from person to person, depending on what your past experiences have been. There are a couple of ways I can approach this dating issue. First, I blame you. If you have been dreaming...

Extensive new research has found no evidence that supports the existence of the long-debated female "G-spot," also known as the most highly sensitive erogenous zone. And some sex experts even say the myth can be harmful to women. The study made no attempt to conclusively pinpoint the location of a G-spot. Instead, it focused on how it is perceived among women. For the study, 900 sets of identical and nonidentical...

As American women continue to gain on men as the primary breadwinner in households, the issue may become a larger one. Research finds men are more likely to have issues in the bedroom, including anxiety and erectile dysfunction, when their wife earns more money. Those men are also more inclined to cheat as a means of recapturing their lost masculinity. Conducted at Washington University in St. Louis, the study...

This is an exclusive study conducted by DatingAdvice.com, which surveyed respondents over the course of three weeks to reflect an accurate representation of the U.S. population. “I have a headache.” “I’m tired.” “I have to get up early.” These are some common lies someone may tell when they just aren’t in the mood to do the deed. And research shows a considerable portion of Americans may actually be using...

What's your number? No, I'm not talking about your age. I'm talking about the number of sexual partners you've had. Some research finds while both men and women lie about their sexual history, the way in which they lie may be very telling by gender identity. Published in the May edition of the journal Sex Roles, the study involved 293 heterosexual college students who were surveyed on their sexual history and other...

Reader Question: I am a 63-year-old man and have known a woman for 34 years who is now 86. I am attracted to her and I know she is even more so to me. I would really love to get involved with her, as crazy as that may seem. I want to know if it is safe for her to engage in intercourse at her advanced age. I dearly want sex with her, even regularly if possible, but NOT at the risk of her health. She is in good...

If you tend to be more reserved in the bedroom, you may want to reconsider pulling out the whips and handcuffs. A study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine finds people who engage in kinkier sex are psychologically healthier than those who practice a more traditional love life. Led by psychologist Dr. Andreas Wismeijer at Tilburg University, the study involved 1,336 participants taking a variety of...

Two years ago, I was lying on our bed. Our two good friends and partners at the time, Kathryn and Jake, were on the bed with me. Kathryn had been eating me out, asking me what I liked and what I wanted. I tried to sputter out some words, but I was embarrassed. My primary partner J. and I hardly ever talked during sex (if there was any verbal conversation, it would be about the news - not about sex) and I didn’t...

One of the most mysterious aspects of sexuality for men is how to go down on women the right way. You’ve probably spent many a late Saturday night getting a sore neck and jaw wondering if you’re making any progress whatsoever. Listen, there’s nothing to be ashamed of here. It’s not as if they covered this in your high school sex ed class. Fortunately, I’m going to give you some tips that I've gotten from some of my...

Despite our knowledge about HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted infections these days, recent studies point to a decrease in condom usage among gay and bisexual men. Why is this happening in spite of our knowledge of safer sex education and of the lethality that can be involved with contracting HIV? There are a variety of reasons. A complacency may be developing in the gay community about the belief that HIV is...

"I have a headache" might not be a good excuse to get out of sex anymore, according to a new study. Conducted at the University of Munster in Germany, the results show endorphins released during sexual activity may help numb the pain. Researchers surveyed 800 migraine patients along with 200 who suffer from cluster headaches. Questions were focused on their experiences with sexual activity during headaches and how...

Does the sexual double standard still exist? You know, the one where men get points for having multiple partners but women get demerits. Dr. Wendy Walsh shares her thoughts. Nope! Sexual double standards are as real as the fact that a young girl having sex will be labeled as easy or a slut at the same time her male sexual partner is getting high fives from his friends.

This is an exclusive study conducted by DatingAdvice.com, which surveyed respondents over the course of three weeks to reflect an accurate representation of the U.S. population. Sex is an important part of any romantic relationship, but would you break up with your partner if the sex wasn’t good? A study conducted by DatingAdvice.com shows men put more emphasis on the quality of sex. According to the results,...

Women ask this to themselves time and time again: Why won't men cuddle after having sex? It's an age-old mystery we're going to try to explain here. Have you ever wanted to cuddle with a man after sex and been denied? Your man simply doesn't give you the kind of intimate affection after sex that you would like, and you're starting to wonder if it's you. In need of a cuddly date? Try Match free for 3 days and put...

It happens to every guy at least once: The mind is willing but the body is not. Some guys encounter it rarely. Some guys have trouble with it all the time. While it might be a punch line on a sitcom, it’s probably not very funny to you. Why are you having trouble keeping it up? More to the point, what can you do about it? Let’s talk about a taboo subject and hopefully provide you with a little guidance. Why do guys...

Does group sex turn you on? Have you talked to your partner about getting it on with a third (or a fourth)? Where do you find other people who are into the same experience as you? Invite a friend. One way is to identify people you already know that might be interested in the idea of joining you both in the bedroom. Do either of you have a close friend that exudes sexual energy? Does sexual tension permeate the...

Reader Question: I am a 36-year-old single woman. I am eagerly looking for a husband and am having a challenging time of it. In the meantime, is it a bad idea to engage in casual sex with men I am physically attracted to? For instance, I have a "friend" I have been "booty calling" with for five years. Do you think this is negatively impacting my chances of finding my long-term/forever guy? -Catherine...

This is an exclusive study conducted by DatingAdvice.com, which surveyed respondents over the course of three weeks to reflect an accurate representation of the U.S. population. Urban Dictionary, the go-to source for slang and pop culture terms, defines a one-night stand as: “Hooking up with someone for one night of sex with no strings attached and hoping to never see them again.” Sounds like quite a night. And it...

Does watching porn have a negative effect in shaping a person's sexual behavior, or do other factors come into play? Researchers from the Netherlands have determined using pornography does not drive teens and young adults to engage in riskier sexual behavior. The study consisted of 4,600 15- to 25-year-old respondents who were asked about their attitudes on sex, their personal sexual history and the type and amount...

You’ve met her — the woman of your dreams! She might be butch, femme, lipstick, sporty or boi, but she’s hot and that’s exciting. You’ve crossed the line to having sex with your lesbian girlfriend and that’s starting to cross over into your texting. Texting + sex = sexting. It’s great for foreplay, but let’s talk about boring common sense when using this communication medium. Please don’t text pictures of...