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Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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Lillian Castro
Lillian Castro,Senior Editor
Lillian Guevara-Castro brings more than 30 years of journalism experience to ensure DatingAdvice articles have been edited for overall clarity, accuracy, and reader engagement. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, The Gwinnett Daily News, and The Gainesville Sun covering lifestyle topics.
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Let’s talk about sex, baby! Here you’ll find topics related to sexual intimacy and relationships. Our articles cover how couples can improve their sex lives in a safe and healthy way and how singles can explore sex and dating.
In the words of Lady Danbury, are you taking care of your garden, Violet? Well, if, like Violet, you’re doing a shabby job at it, our experts can help.
In our articles, our experts have open and judgment-free conversations about sexual wellness and how that may look in every stage of dating. Whether you want to learn about sexual boundaries or compatibility, our articles touch on every aspect of the sexual experience.
Learn how prioritizing trust, communication, and understanding can play a role in helping you establish a better sex life.
Our experts have also reviewed various sex apps and platforms that support casual hookups, sexting, and exploration, so you can know what works for you and what doesn’t. The sexual experience is different for everyone, and we cover all fantasies, kinks, and fetishes between consenting adults. Just real talk about real desires.
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted as a dating expert by The Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, Bustle, Salon, Well+Good, and AskMen.
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When most people think of dating apps and sites, the mainstream options tend to come to mind: Match, eharmony, Tinder, and other platforms dedicated to helping singles find romantic connections.
People who want something simple and casual, however, may want to look elsewhere for satisfaction. Hookup apps have become a haven for sex-driven individuals online.
What are hookup apps? These platforms offer a...
Jules Chen is a Texas-based writer who has been featured on feminist blogs and lifestyle magazines. She graduated from Emory University with dual degrees in English Literature and Chinese Studies. She has served as the managing editor of Lithium Magazine where she worked with a talented team of writers covering lifestyle and pop culture. Her lifestyle writing has been published at Betches, TimeOut, Adolescent Content, and Niche, Inc.
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Even if you don’t know what MILF stands for, you’ve definitely met more than a few in your lifetime. You may even be one yourself. MILFs, or Mothers I’d Like to F—k, are typically identified as sexually attractive middle-aged women with children.
Think of the hot mom from the “Stacy’s Mom” music video or the colloquial Mrs. Robinson from “The Graduate.”
Depictions in pop culture run the gamut from...
Jules Chen is a Texas-based writer who has been featured on feminist blogs and lifestyle magazines. She graduated from Emory University with dual degrees in English Literature and Chinese Studies. She has served as the managing editor of Lithium Magazine where she worked with a talented team of writers covering lifestyle and pop culture. Her lifestyle writing has been published at Betches, TimeOut, Adolescent Content, and Niche, Inc.
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If you’ve spent any time at all on a dating app, you’ll notice the prevalence of no-strings-attached (NSA) dating and relationships. The language users share on their profiles might vary — from “seeking something casual” to “short-term fun”-- but the idea remains the same: People want to have fun without pressure.
NSA relationships offer casual sex and intimacy without forcing partners to commit to a label or a...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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If you’ve recently heard the acronym DTF, I would bet that you heard it within one of these three contexts:
In a dating app message thread
In a raunchy coming-of-age comedy
An episode of the notoriously irresistible reality show “Jersey Shore”
Wherever you heard it, you’re here because you’re unfamiliar with the term and want to explore what it could signify within the context of dating...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research in the past. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Sex isn’t an easy conversation topic for most people. Certified sex therapist Kimberly Resnick Anderson talked to us about why this is and how individuals and couples can overcome shame, silence, and isolation and step into an empowered and embodied experience of sexuality.
We use a lot of words and phrases to describe having sex. There’s “doing the deed,” and it’s close relative, “doing the...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted as a dating expert by The Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, Bustle, Salon, Well+Good, and AskMen.
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Casual relationships and hookup culture are no longer whispers in the shadows — they're becoming mainstream topics in America. With shifting societal norms, more people are openly embracing casual encounters and redefining what modern romance looks like.
As we move through 2024, casual hookups have become a prominent part of the dating landscape. They offer spontaneity, freedom, and a break from the...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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If you’re anything like me, the first time you heard the word “booty call” was in 2010 when pop sensation Ke$ha leaked an absolute banger of a song by the same name. The song is and always will be a bop, but the meaning was completely out of my range of experience at the time.
What I soon learned from good ol’ Google.com, and what we’re going to dive into deeper today, is that a booty call is defined as follows:...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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The Short Version: It’s 2024. Women occupy over half the workforce, have flown around the moon, and dominate the music scene in undeniable ways. Isn’t it about time we let moms feel sexy in their own skin? Bestselling author and intimacy coach Alexandra Roxo is leading the way with a message of empowerment for women. She encourages her clients and followers to embrace the sexiness of a mother’s life-giving body.
I...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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The dating landscape is diverse and constantly evolving. Thanks to poly culture, people are getting to experience dating the way they want with no shame. Swingers are defined as people who are married or in a long-term relationship having consensual sex with other couples or individuals.
Let’s be real -- a swinger’s lifestyle is often misunderstood and judged. Some people will blithely pass judgment on...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted as a dating expert by The Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, Bustle, Salon, Well+Good, and AskMen.
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Many flashy headlines claim that Gen Z is having less sex than previous generations and that 20-somethings are “rejecting hookup culture” en masse, but that's not true for everyone. Plenty of single people still want to have sex without making things serious. One-night stands are a staple of single life. These intimate nights offer the option to satisfy physical needs without having to deal with the messiness of a...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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We live in a time when robots are waiting tables, doctors are 3D-printing human tissue, and tech company founders are being blasted into space in rocket ships. Isn’t it about time we had an app other than Tinder to make hooking up easier? Turns out, we do. And it’s been under our noses for the past 11 years.
This comprehensive review will take a closer look at the popular hookup app DOWN and provide helpful...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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The Short Version: Sex and relationship therapist Isiah McKimmie is passionate about helping couples achieve sexual freedom in their relationships. From one-on-one sessions to fun blogs and podcasts, Isiah leads couples to a harmonious relationship filled with long-lasting intimacy and healing.
Sex is a sensitive topic that most couples avoid discussing. I get it, but keeping your relationship problems...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research in the past. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Ingredients matter when it comes to hygiene products, and that’s especially the case for personal lubricants. The Butters Hygienic Co. is a small business based in Michigan that makes natural vegan hygiene products and lubricants at a budget-friendly price. Jerome Stuart Nichols is the founder, owner, and maker at The Butters. Jerome told us about his company’s story, why sexual health awareness...
Lexi joined the DatingAdvice team with years of lifestyle journalism experience. She grew her writing prowess through reporting on the topic of sex and relationships, and she loves continuing to cover this niche content while working toward becoming an AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator. You can find Lexi's writing in Refinery29, Cosmopolitan, Bustle, Well + Good, and Women's Health, among other publications.
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When you’re scrolling through a dating app, it’s always a good idea to know what you’re looking for. Being clear about your intentions — both for yourself and the people you meet — can lead you down the right path.
While building your dating profile with these intentions in mind can help, choosing the best dating app for you can lead to the best results. Popular hookup apps such as Tinder or Ashley Madison...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted as a dating expert by The Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, Bustle, Salon, Well+Good, and AskMen.
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According to the Pew Research Center, 3 in 10 U.S. adults have used a dating site or app, and not everyone is searching for true love. Some are looking for no-strings hookups, and plenty of niche sites cater to those sultry needs.
The leading hookup sites empower you to be honest about what you're really looking for in the dating scene. Whether you're ready to embrace your adventurous side or prefer a more relaxed...
Anggi Pradhini is a professional copywriter who creates unique, engaging, and up-to-date content for DatingAdvice.com. As a former stockbroker turned professional writer, she loves to challenge herself to broaden her horizons and improve her skills, one article at a time. After learning from the breakups of three long-term relationships, she dedicated her life to providing informative and relatable content about relationships and dating for those who need it.
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Let’s face it: Sometimes people want to get laid without engaging in dull small talk and a long-term commitment. Many sex-driven people have gone online to find sex partners with similar intentions and kinks.
Many local sex sites have found success by providing legit matchmaking services for free and paid members. You just have to know which app to use to get the best deals.
Our dating experts have rounded up...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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From feather foreplay to BDSM sex, there's a lot to try outside of vanilla missionary coupling. And a lot of people are up for a little playtime. You just need the right network to find them.
Kinky singles can go online to fulfill their desires and connect with others who share similar fetishes. Many kink dating sites embrace an "anything-goes" philosophy to encourage naughty singles and couples to experiment and...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted as a dating expert by The Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, Bustle, Salon, Well+Good, and AskMen.
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A night of romance can do the heart good. Today’s fast-paced hookup culture may make it seem like romance is a fading concept, but many hopeless romantics still crave a late-night rendezvous and true connection. Online dating has opened a new world for single people to find date options quickly, and not everyone has long-term intentions when it comes to swiping.
To help sex-driven people find what they want, we...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted as a dating expert by The Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, Bustle, Salon, Well+Good, and AskMen.
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Not everyone is looking for a happily ever after. In fact, a Pew Research study found that almost 24% of dating site and app users say a major reason for using these platforms was to have casual sex. Hookup websites and apps can help with that. Certain casual dating spaces aim to connect like-minded people who have similar kinks and don't want to get too serious too soon.
The best hookup websites and apps offer...
Jamie Ballard (she/her) is a professional writer and editor who covers news, lifestyle, and entertainment topics. She regularly contributes to Cosmopolitan, Allure, Woman’s Day, Good Housekeeping, PEOPLE, and The Hollywood Reporter, among other publications.
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A person’s first love is something special. TV shows and movies often promote the idea that most people’s first experiences with love and dating come when they’re teenagers in high school.
But according to data on the topic, most teens today don’t date much, let alone have sex. What’s more, most high school relationships don’t last more than a matter of months, and even fewer result in a lifelong...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted as a dating expert by The Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, Bustle, Salon, Well+Good, and AskMen.
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Dating is fun and all, but sometimes it can be frustrating to continually strike out with matches. It may start to feel like everyone online is looking for love, and but you’re not the only one dating to have someone warm your bed for the night. Sex is a natural part of the dating world. Recent polling found over 79% of men and 83% of women reported being sexually active within the last month.
Online dating...
Jamie Ballard (she/her) is a professional writer and editor who covers news, lifestyle, and entertainment topics. She regularly contributes to Cosmopolitan, Allure, Woman’s Day, Good Housekeeping, PEOPLE, and The Hollywood Reporter, among other publications.
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If you’re dating in the digital age, you better brush up on your emoji knowledge. Whether you’re flirting via dating app, text, or other online platforms, emojis are likely part of your dating vocabulary. Some people use emojis to send a fun message, while others use them when they’re breaking things off.
A new survey commissioned by DatingAdvice asked Americans about their emoji use. Among other interesting...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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Maybe it’s just me, but it feels like the dynamics of modern dating are changing by the day. More and more people are ditching the rules and regulations of the standard romantic couple and opening their relationships to third (or fourth or fifth) parties. And, honestly, who am I to judge? Considering the high divorce rate in the United States, they may just be onto something.
If this resonates with you — and you...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted as a dating expert by The Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, Bustle, Salon, Well+Good, and AskMen.
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In the wake of the Backpage shutdown in 2018, Bedpage rose from the ashes, promising users the same functionality with none of the legal risks. The personals site even copied the format and layout of Backpage, making it the obvious successor to the defunct classified ads site. But complaints about scammers and fake ads have more people turning to Bedpage alternatives.
These sites and apps give you anonymity and...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted as a dating expert by The Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, Bustle, Salon, Well+Good, and AskMen.
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A Pew Research study found that nearly a quarter of people who use dating apps and sites are looking for casual sex, so it should come as no surprise that sites for finding hookups continue to gain popularity.
These platforms create a lively, judgment-free zone for singles, couples, and groups eager for exciting adventures without any stigma or harassment.
The best hookup apps take things to the next level,...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research in the past. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Beducated is empowering singles and couples with shame-free, pleasure-based sex education. Mariah Freya and her husband, Philipp Steinweber, founded the platform in 2018. Beducated’s mission is to provide expert-backed, educational, and safe content for anyone interested in learning more about their sexual selves. The platform, which features over 100 sex education courses, released an AI Sex Coach...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research in the past. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Chispa, the leading Latino dating app in the United States, is partnering with psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Shannon Chavez to celebrate Sexual Health Awareness Month. Dr. Chavez specializes in treating clients from conservative and religious cultural backgrounds with sexual health and wellness concerns. Chispa and Dr. Chavez are releasing a collection of resources about sex, sexuality, and...
Lexi joined the DatingAdvice team with years of lifestyle journalism experience. She grew her writing prowess through reporting on the topic of sex and relationships, and she loves continuing to cover this niche content while working toward becoming an AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator. You can find Lexi's writing in Refinery29, Cosmopolitan, Bustle, Well + Good, and Women's Health, among other publications.
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Picture this: you’re winding down for the night and watching your comfort show in bed. While you’re scrolling absentmindedly on your phone, a text notification pops up — and it’s a scandalous photo of your current love interest. How would you respond?
If you’d be down to reciprocate with a sexy pic or seductive compliment, you’re not alone. Sexting is a common practice that serves as a way for partners to connect...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted as a dating expert by The Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, Bustle, Salon, Well+Good, and AskMen.
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It’s a common misconception that seniors have lower sex drives. In fact, senior communities are major hotbeds for sexually-transmitted infections (STIs), which just goes to show that many older folks like to get down just as much as college students do.
Fortunately, dating sites and apps have started catching up to the fact that plenty of senior singles want casual relationships with an emphasis on sex and...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research in the past. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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Sex: almost everybody does it, and almost everybody hates talking about it. Centuries of various kinds of cultural conditioning have resulted in generations of people who flat-out refuse to talk about sex. Others may be able to talk about it, but are plagued with feelings of shame or guilt. Sex is human nature, yet consistently made taboo.
There is an appropriate time and place to discuss sex, sexuality, and...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.