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Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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Lillian Castro,Senior Editor
Lillian Guevara-Castro brings more than 30 years of journalism experience to ensure DatingAdvice articles have been edited for overall clarity, accuracy, and reader engagement. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, The Gwinnett Daily News, and The Gainesville Sun covering lifestyle topics.
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Let’s talk about sex, baby! Here you’ll find topics related to sexual intimacy and relationships. Our articles cover how couples can improve their sex lives in a safe and healthy way and how singles can explore sex and dating.
In the words of Lady Danbury, are you taking care of your garden, Violet? Well, if, like Violet, you’re doing a shabby job at it, our experts can help.
In our articles, our experts have open and judgment-free conversations about sexual wellness and how that may look in every stage of dating. Whether you want to learn about sexual boundaries or compatibility, our articles touch on every aspect of the sexual experience.
Learn how prioritizing trust, communication, and understanding can play a role in helping you establish a better sex life.
Our experts have also reviewed various sex apps and platforms that support casual hookups, sexting, and exploration, so you can know what works for you and what doesn’t. The sexual experience is different for everyone, and we cover all fantasies, kinks, and fetishes between consenting adults. Just real talk about real desires.
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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Sex apps give you the freedom to explore your interests and dive into your sexuality in a secure and private setting. You never know who you might meet online!
Not everyone in the dating scene is searching for a soul mate or true love. Some singles are simply looking for a wild encounter to spice up their night. If you're seeking an easier way to find a hookup, a free sex app might be just what you need. It's...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted as a dating expert by The Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, Bustle, Salon, Well+Good, and AskMen.
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Let’s face it, sometimes people want no-strings-attached sex with a stranger. It's a natural part of life that the internet has made simpler and faster than ever. Unlike a bar or a club, dating websites are always open and are in business to connect sexually active singles.
To make your search for casual sex a bit more convenient, we've had our online dating experts sift through the top options. This...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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The Short Version: With its tolerant attitude and accommodating platform, NaughtyCharm.com is taking common stereotypes about hooking up and turning the stigma on its head. NaughtyCharm encourages singles to stop feeling ashamed about their sexual needs and worrying about what others think — and instead helps them express their desires and meet open, like-minded people in a safe and fun way.//
Let's be honest, not...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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The Short Version: Known as "the Emily Posts of the modern bedroom," Emma Taylor and Lorelei Sharkey, simply known as Em and Lo, put a hands-on, humorous, and honest twist on your typical sex advice. From award-winning books and a popular site, EMandLO.com, to a 10-episode U.K. TV series and personalized product reviews, these two friends are redefining what it means to be a sex, dating, and love expert.
It seems...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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You may have come across the term "NSA" on a dating site or app and wondered what it means. Well, it's not that complicated. The acronym NSA means "no strings attached." As in, I'm not looking for a girlfriend, boyfriend, or serious commitment. I just want to have fun.
People who are looking for no-strings-attached dates want a casual sexual encounter without making any promises about the future. Here are some...
Jackie Melfi is in an open relationship with her husband, John. Together they are the driving force behind some of the most well-known swingers clubs in the world. Jackie and John recently were featured in an ABC News Nightline special report called “Getting ‘Naughty in N’Awlins’: Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention.” They also coach couples on the lifestyle and frequently blog on the topic.
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When you decide to swing, you don't necessarily have this tidy list of pros and cons that occur in succession. It's more of a swirling plethora of emotions as you and your partner explore a new terrain of possibilities within the relationship.
What is interesting about this new terrain, at least for most of us, is it is uncharted territory, so the "list" of pros and cons sort of materializes as you explore. This is...
John Melfi is in an open relationship with his wife, Jackie. Together they are the driving force behind some of the most well-known swingers clubs in the world. John and Jackie recently were featured in an ABC News Nightline special report called “Getting ‘Naughty in N’Awlins’: Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention.” They also coach couples on the lifestyle and frequently blog on the topic. Visit www.openlove101.com to sign up for their FREE newsletter and get updates on their videos and articles.
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“Do you know people my age who are in the swinger lifestyle?”
“Do any couples over 60 come to your club?”
“Will we fit in?”
These are the kinds of questions that Jackie and I get on OpenLove101.com and our club site, ColetteClubs.com. We've been getting more and more lately, so we thought we would take this opportunity to answer a few of the most frequently asked questions from seniors:
1. Are There...
With experience covering all things related to the dating world, I have produced content for sites like Elite Daily and The Lala. While a majority of my time is spent as an editorial assistant writing articles and transcribing interviews, you can also find me in the gym, listening to Drake or at a hipster coffee shop.
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Unfortunately in the villages of sub-Saharan Africa, economic blows often come in the form of droughts.
A new study presented in the Economic Journal is breaking ground in confirming the correlation between financial hardships and the spread of HIV.
Researchers from UC Berkeley, Middlebury College and the International Food Policy Research Institute showed that preventing people from having shocks to their bank...
With experience covering all things related to the dating world, I have produced content for sites like Elite Daily and The Lala. While a majority of my time is spent as an editorial assistant writing articles and transcribing interviews, you can also find me in the gym, listening to Drake or at a hipster coffee shop.
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For women who are trapped in the limbo of sexuality, there may be a greater tendency to rely on destructive coping mechanisms to distract from negativity, a new study by the American Sociological Association suggests.
These women lack the clear connection between who they are attracted to and how they identify themselves, which creates a conflict because according to cognitive dissonance theory, humans like to be...
John Melfi is in an open relationship with his wife, Jackie. Together they are the driving force behind some of the most well-known swingers clubs in the world. John and Jackie recently were featured in an ABC News Nightline special report called “Getting ‘Naughty in N’Awlins’: Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention.” They also coach couples on the lifestyle and frequently blog on the topic. Visit www.openlove101.com to sign up for their FREE newsletter and get updates on their videos and articles.
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I used to have a really hot neighbor. She was divorced. I remember the first time I saw her.
I pulled into my driveway, and there she was talking to somebody, a guy I hadn't seen before. I made that crumpled up face we do with pouted lips and a furrowed brow, half closing one eye while deep in thought, slowly nodding my head up and down and saying "hmm..."
I figured it was her boyfriend, but I found out later it...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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Since 1892, the American Psychological Association (APA) has been paving the way for advancing the creation, communication and application of psychological knowledge to benefit society.
With nearly 122,500 members and 54 divisions in sub-fields of psychology, the amount of information it yields to scientific research is immeasurable. In an effort to understand the relationship among the brain, environment and...
With experience covering all things related to the dating world, I have produced content for sites like Elite Daily and The Lala. While a majority of my time is spent as an editorial assistant writing articles and transcribing interviews, you can also find me in the gym, listening to Drake or at a hipster coffee shop.
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Next time you swipe right, you may want to invest in some contraception. As technology and social media continues to escalate, so do the threats to your health and safety.
While one could argue apps that promote the concept of online dating allow people to find lovers and friends, new research proves the disadvantages outweigh the benefits. People are beginning to care more about doing the deed than protecting...
Jackie Melfi is in an open relationship with her husband, John. Together they are the driving force behind some of the most well-known swingers clubs in the world. Jackie and John recently were featured in an ABC News Nightline special report called “Getting ‘Naughty in N’Awlins’: Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention.” They also coach couples on the lifestyle and frequently blog on the topic.
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Am I a swinger? Yes. Do I swing all the time? No.
So what exactly does that mean? Isn't that the goal of a swinger? Don't swingers just want to have sex all the time with everyone and anyone? No and no.
As with any group, I know there will be those who fit within the extremes, but for the most part, I have found the swingers I come in contact with have the "goal" of enhancing and increasing the bond and...
Among other things, Julian Wolf is an internationally known educator
specializing in kink, BDSM and alternative relationship dynamics. A
long time advocate for sexual freedom, Julian is on the board of the
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and can be found on stage, in
studios and classrooms across North America and beyond.
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BDSM doesn't have to be formal, play doesn't have to be within the confines of a serious relationship, and there is nothing wrong with being a "weekend warrior."
Casual BDSM, much like casual sex, can be satisfying and fun when done right.
There are two major types of play dynamics: egalitarian and non-egalitarian. Casual play can fall into either category, as everything is negotiable.
1. No one has to "be the...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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Teens are bombarded with images and articles that cause them to hypersexualize themselves, making them ready for a pornography shoot even if they never set foot on one, according to Dr. Gail Dines.
“This culture is socializing our young girls to be ready for pornography, whether they ever end up on a porn site or not,” said Dines, a professor of sociology and women’s studies at Wheelock College in Boston.
Dines...
Loveisrespect, a project of the National Domestic Violence Hotline and Break the Cycle, is the ultimate resource to empower youth to prevent and end dating abuse. To learn more, visit www.loveisrespect.org.
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So you’ve decided to have sex for the first time ever. Maybe you’re feeling a bit nervous. You might have a lot of questions like:
What should I expect?
What will it feel like?
Will it be awkward?
We get it. Having sex for the first time can be a little intimidating, and it’s totally normal to feel this way! While everyone’s experience will be different, we have some tips that will help make your first time...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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Don't let being in public stop you from getting it on. At work. On the bus. Right there on the table. Whenever the feeling strikes, whip out your phone and get your blood pumping with some scandalous texting.
But why stick to words when you can express your desires via deliberately placed emojis?
Whether you opt for subtly sexy or straight-up erotic, here is a list of the best emojis to keep your bedroom game...
Jackie Melfi is in an open relationship with her husband, John. Together they are the driving force behind some of the most well-known swingers clubs in the world. Jackie and John recently were featured in an ABC News Nightline special report called “Getting ‘Naughty in N’Awlins’: Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention.” They also coach couples on the lifestyle and frequently blog on the topic.
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So you and your partner have decided you want to give swinging a try? You've had the conversation and read some articles, and you are now ready to move to the next phase: finding a couple to "swing" with.
Should be easy enough, but what exactly is the best way to approach another like-minded couple?
Well, John and I are not only swingers, but we also own a couple of swingers clubs (coletteclubs.com). We have...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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The 411: If you really want to spice things up in the bedroom, there's no better site to turn to than 3WISHES.com, a premier online retailer that specializes in exclusively-designed, boutique-style lingerie.
Halloween is known as a time to bring out your wild side, but sexy outfits and role playing deserve more than just one day. And 3WISHES.com knows that!
Caron Spatola, CEO and founder of 3WISHES.com
As a...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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The 411: What started as an extracurricular class in high school has turned into a successful career for Dr. Cati Connell, an assistant professor of sociology at Boston University.
Since childhood, Dr. Cati Connell has been fascinated by how people make the choices they make, what kind of adversities they face and how those adversities change the course of their lives, particularly when it comes to disadvantage...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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It should come as no surprise to anyone that technology has taken the dating world by storm.
You can fall in love with an ocean between you and your soulmate, or you can find the answers to your 20 questions and more with a cursory profile scan. Heck, connecting with your future spouse could just be a few finger swipes on a screen away.
Technology has brought an element of convenience to dating, but just...
Dr. Gloria Brame has a Ph.D. in human sexuality. She is a board certified sexologist best known for her books "Different Loving" and "The Truth About Sex", which promote evidence-based, pro-diversity perspectives on human sexuality. She has given live-radio and television interviews with BBC, CBS, NBC, FOX, and PBS. Find her at gloriabrame.com.
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I love orgasms, and since masturbation is the handiest way to have an orgasm, I love masturbating.
I first discovered that my body could give me ecstasy when I was about five and accidentally made the intimate acquaintance of the shiny faucet of an old claw-foot bathtub as I was romping around in the bath.
When cold drops of water dripped onto my labia, I was stunned. The feeling was indescribably amazing. I loved...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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The 411: Dr. Janice Irvine may be going on her 22nd year at the University of Massachusetts Amherst, but she's been working to get rid of the stigma that surrounds sex education since the '80s.
Dr. Janice Irvine has always been interested in political activism, but it wasn't until her graduate student years at Brandeis University that she discovered her passion for sociology, particularly when it comes to sex...
We Love Dates is a worldwide online dating site. For more dating advice and tips, visit the We Love Dates blog and find them on Twitter and Facebook.
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With the premiere of "Fifty Shades of Grey" right around the corner (Feb. 13, or Galentine's Day, to be exact), let's take a deeper look at the plot, the characters, the popularity of the books and how it all compares to reality.
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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When it comes to free-loving, the U.S. may be a few steps behind Europe, which has long been overtly comfortable with sex as a part of culture, but a few select cities certainly stand out.
Open can mean a lot of things, whether it’s sexual orientation or willingness to reach across restrictive boundaries.
Here’s a roundup of the top nine cities in America that love to get their love on.
1. Las Vegas, Nevada
What...
As the founder of CDE Dating, bestselling author, and a certified dating and relationship coach, Julie has more than three decades of experience guiding singles through the ever-changing world of online dating. Julie has advised leading dating platforms, coached thousands of singles, and delivered keynote presentations at global conferences on the intersection of love and technology. Her expertise has been featured on Good Morning America, Access Hollywood, the Today Show, and in The New York Times, USA Today, The Wall Street Journal, and The Washington Post.
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To sext, or not to sext? With everyone attached to their mobile phones and sharing photos through texts, SnapChat or AirDrop, couples in a sexy mood can’t help but send a photo of their private parts.
From the penis shot to the bra-less look with string bikini panties, people are sexting away. That is, until the relationship ends and the digital photos don’t remain solely between the two of you.
Whether you’re...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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Sex without condoms feels better. Guys cheat more than girls. Women are more likely to "fake it" for their man. We all have our preconceived accepted "truths" about sex.
With so many shades of gray hidden behind closed doors, there's all sorts of room for scandalous sexual delusions.
How much of what you think you know about sex is actually backed by science? Well, we've done the research on all things orgasmic,...
Arden Leigh is the founder of the Sirens Seduction Forum for Women and the author of "The New Rules of Attraction: How To Get Him, Keep Him and Make Him Beg For More" (Sourcebooks, 2011). She writes a regular advice column for Auxiliary Magazine and maintains her seduction blog at www.ardenleigh.typepad.com. She has been publicly labeled a “predator” and she took it as a compliment.
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Recently I came across an article posted on the UrbanDater written by a woman who just doesn't believe women can actually enjoy anal sex. She even insinuates that articles written in praise of the amazing orgasms women can sometimes experience from anal penetration may actually be written by men propagating a falsehood in the hopes of encouraging more women to spread their cheeks for the dicks of men everywhere. She...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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TL;DR: When you want to learn more about sex tourism, particularly the contradictions that exist among men and women, there's no better person to turn to than Dr. Jacqueline Sanchez Taylor, a lecturer at the University of Leicester.
If you see an older man with a younger woman at a tourist resort, do you assume there is an arrangement where money is exchanged for sex? Probably.
However, if you see an older...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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TL;DR: For more than 15 years, Dr. Brad Sagarin, a psychology professor at Northern Illinois University, has used his innovative research to identify the positive aspects of BDSM.
He may have a background in computer science, but Dr. Brad Sagarin knows a thing or two about bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism.
And as an esteemed professor of psychology at Northern Illinois University, he's able to share...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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