Let's Talk Approaching & Flirting (Page 4)

Reader Question: I’ve developed a crush on the girl where I get my hair cut. My first concern is asking her out where she works, as I don’t want to embarrass her while she’s on the job. Second is I’d like to avoid any awkward tension the next time I get a haircut should she say no. Third is when to ask her out. I got my hair cut recently, so I won’t need another trim for about a month. I’m sure barging into the...

We all know being boring doesn’t get you laid, but what if there was something you could do, something that would make you more interesting to women? It’s a known fact being interesting is synonymous with being attractive. Sure, it has its limits but the general idea is 100 percent true. Being interesting is absolutely key when it comes to getting laid. Today I’m going to show you some simple yet very effective...

It’s a pretty important skill to be able to identify receptive women at a bar. There have been many times when I have walked into a bar, spotted the most receptive women and ended up making out with them within less than a minute of saying hi to them. There are two aspects to spotting receptive women in a bar. The first is knowing the signs and the second is having the reference experiences to be able to be more...

Reader Question: There's this girl who I've had crazy feelings for. A few years ago, we talked about dating, but her best friend wasn't really happy because she actually had feelings for me. Now time has passed and her friend is over me and our friendship has blossomed. But I don't know what to do. Do I ask her out on a date or tell her I've had these feelings for a long time? -Zac (Michigan) Gina...

Finding the right words can mean a potential lifetime of happiness or a depressing evening alone, depending on how well you strike the mood. Our 10 Best Blogs for Pickup Lines excel at finding a new way to reach out to someone you're interested in through sentiment and expression. Supernatural Pickup...

As we walked through the men at the casino with my two girlfriends, this cute little Mexican girl stepped in the middle of our path with her camera. “Can you take a picture of me with my guy friends?” she asked. “Sure!” Sonia said. I could feel the intense stares from the men. We snapped the picture and walked away. Then we walked over to the bar and ordered a glass of wine. As I turned around, the little Mexican...

I want to break down a subject that always seems to be up for debate amongst pickup artists, aka PUAs: Are all girls the same? Men spend years trying to crack the secret code of the female species, but it’s just not that simple. Some guys really believe females are females and all respond the same way. While at face, good game will attract every type of female. In reality, not all of them are the same. That would...

The holiday season is a perfect time for senior singles to get out and socialize with their fellow baby boomers. It is so easy to meet more people! All those boomer men and women who are so hard to meet because of their busy lives are out and about and approachable in very public venues throughout the holidays. As their personal dating coach, a lot of senior singles share with me their biggest dating challenges. One...

"Your feet must be hurting because you've been running through my mind all day!" Or how about this one, "You must be from Tennessee because you're the only 10 I see." Those are two common (and corny) pickup lines that will probably get you laughed at and labeled as lame. It seems like the art of approaching a woman has been lost and has turned into a game of cat and mouse. As confident as men claim to be, one of...

Attention men: Thanksgiving is here, the four-day holiday where people stuff their faces silly. Then when Friday suddenly becomes black, there are amazing deals at the stores. Guess what happens then? Women go shopping crazy! Here are a couple of epic openers to help you meet women from now until Cyber Monday: 1. The Poor, Pathetic Me Opener You walk into a supermarket. You find women shopping for Thanksgiving...

In the last few years, "Mad Men" has been the inspiration for players everywhere. Men have modeled themselves after leading man Don Draper, famous for knocking boots with pretty much every female character introduced on the show. She can be pretty, plain, old or young — Don Draper is on the case. And he seals the deal every time. But fellas, Don is not the one you want to be imitating, not at all. You want to be...

Reader Question: I met this guy I knew in high school. I told him about the program I was promoting. He acted interested and signed up for the newsletter with his phone number. I didn't have my phone on me and didn't want to give him my number directly because of certain people around, otherwise we would have gotten each other's numbers because we were certainly flirting with each other. I don't want to seem...

I love flirting. It’s so much fun! It’s playful and provocative and makes you feel good. But sometimes, as a woman, it can be confusing. You’re getting conflicted reports of “Make Him Come to You” and “It’s the New Millennium. Go Get Him!” If you don’t go flirt with him, he may never get up the courage to come talk to you. If you do go flirt with him, is it going to come across as too forward? So what is the right...

Having the right attitude toward the women you want to bang is absolutely paramount if you ever expect to have any sort of success. Women are always able to pick up on the vibe you are giving out and a positive one is attractive because it shows confidence and control. The right attitude enables you to make the people around you feel good. If everyone around is feeling good and eating up your amazing vibe, you can...

One-night stands are good fun. I personally like them because you take a girl from hello to sex in a couple of hours, and this really makes you feel like you have game. The truth is one-night stands are great for everyone involved because it basically gives two people the opportunity to fulfill their primal urges without any drama. Does it happen a lot? A study in 2009 revealed only 3 percent of women would agree to...

I read on one of the major search engines about a new social media trend called “Man Crush Monday.” Every Monday, people post about their favorite man crush. When I read it, I thought to myself, “What is wrong with our society?” Man crush was one of the first things Chris Carter and other guys would use as a joke on their radio shows and ESPN. They made jokes about having man crushes and how they wanted to be the...

Reader Question: I am a bisexual woman. I have only been with men, but I am sexually attracted to women. I know this woman who lives in my neighborhood. Every time I see her somewhere, she looks at me but never says anything. She got married to a man last year. I've heard rumors she was a lesbian, but I'm not sure since she is married now. She is very attractive and I would like to at least be able to hold a...

I always like going to parties because I almost never go home empty-handed. What’s so great about parties is everyone assumes they know each other through common friends. If you’re at a party and are approaching random girls, they won’t be so quick to reject you because you must be at least decent, since you know the same people (hosts). With that in mind, I want to share a couple of things I always do that help me...

It’s Friday night and you’re out with your friends. You see this guy giving you the “I’m so into you look,” but he doesn’t approach you for some reason. The night goes on and you catch eyes a few more times. He still hasn’t made a move. It’s common to assume that the single guy should approach the single girl, so why isn’t this guy approaching you? Well, men have a lot of insecurities, and it takes a lot of courage...

There are a few answers to the question “How do I make a guy want me more?” and one is to act like you don’t care and have something and someone better to do. I know this seems cliche, but trust me when I tell you that if the chase only lasts for a month, the guy will surely get bored and move on to the next conquest with a better tail. I wish I could say I listened to my own advice. But it is much harder than it...

Failing at anything in life is not that great. It doesn’t make you feel good, and the only thing you want after you’ve failed is to get rid of that bad feeling inside you. But if we never failed, we would never learn anything. This isn’t just about hooking up with women. Sure, failing is necessary for a guy who wants to get better at scoring, but it transcends that. Failing is necessary if you want to accomplish...

I’ve been doing a lot of day game recently, simply because I wanted a change from the whole night game at the club or the bar scene. It just isn't for me anymore. Amongst other things, I’ve noticed the whole point of a day-game routine is to get a solid number. There’s absolutely no reason to expect sex within a few hours when you meet someone in a coffee shop or on the train. This article will focus on some of the...

So you met this great-looking woman - nice butt, perky breasts, the works. You don't want to blow it, so you start texting her and she responds. You get into some text conversations, flirting like a couple of 14-year-olds, but you don't know what to do next. You've hinted at going out with her in your texts, but she's not really getting it. She's not responding to your hints. You're now two days into the texting....

If you really want to win someone over, you'll have to know how to be seductive. Whether it's a "come hither" look or a flip of your hair, you'll want to follow the tips of our 10 Best Seduction Blogs! Power Seduction and War BEST OF Bragging Rights: mastering your craft From New York Times...

I spend a fair share of time helping normal guys everywhere combat shyness. After all, when you get down to it, shyness is a certain reticence on someone’s part to be social. For us as guys, shyness really is the proverbial kiss of death when it comes to success with women. Sure, you might hear from certain women here and there that shy men are cute or endearing. But withstanding those rare instances, I think...

Reader Question: For a year now, I've been friends with this girl. After conjuring up the courage, I'd decided to ask her to go out on an adventure with me. She said our adventure could be considered a date. The next day, she acted as if nothing was different. She started acting increasingly strange, and when I'd finally had it with all this confusion, I broke our friendship up and have been miserable ever since....

Reader Question: How can I ask a gay guy to go out on a date with me? -David (Missouri) Brian Rzepczynski's Answer: Hi David! Cheers to you on your initiative! Gay men love a man with confidence and assertiveness who goes after what he wants. The key to asking someone out is to be your authentic self and be direct about your intentions. Be sure to maintain steady eye contact, position your body in an...

When it comes to scoring women, there are a lot of things that can influence your success. Today’s list features some very important bits of knowledge that can really help get your mind into the game. 1. Women want to hook up with you.  Yep, that’s true. When they see a guy, they don’t really think about banging him, but they do think about how awesome it would be if that guy picks them up and seduces them. They...

Reader Question: I'm a 16-year old-male in high school. There's this girl I like who many of my friends say I should just ask out. I'm not sure if I'm really her type because I'm not the most outspoken person. She hangs out with a lot of people, guys and girls, so I never really know how to approach her and try to get a connection with her. I'd like any advice as to how I should approach her and if there's...

One of the most common questions I get from guys I am teaching is probably the most basic: What are women really attracted to? Let's be honest, what men are attracted to is pretty straightforward. Guys might differ in their particular tastes, but most guys know what qualities in a woman turn them on and what qualities turn them off. With women, attraction is more complex. Some women will find a man attractive from...