Let's Talk Communication (Page 2)

Amber Brooks

By: Amber Brooks

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Ever wondered why some couples just click so well? It’s most likely because they have such great communication. Just ask our experts. Learning to communicate your thoughts and concerns in the right way can do wonders for any relationship.

As it happens, our writers help educate readers to do just that. Below, you’ll learn to foster healthy communication and strengthen relationships through mutual understanding.

It’s time to mend the disconnect. By applying our advice, couples can better listen, respond, and resolve conflict. Whether you need active listening techniques or emotional regulation strategies, you’ll find the insights to help you build communication rooted in honesty and respect.

Here you can discover ways to overcome everything from misunderstandings to more sensitive subjects like sexual challenges. Our writers also explore communication in the digital world, giving readers insight into the best ways to strike up conversations online.

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What Our Experts Say:

31.
Great Sex Starts With Vulnerable Conversations
Chloë Hylkema

Chloë Hylkema

The Short Version: Sexual disconnect can be confusing and disorientating for couples. Austin Cresap, a sex and relationship therapist at PNW Sex Therapy Collective and starting her own practice, I Came Here to Talk, talked to us about why couples may experience sexual discrepancies and how authentic and secure communication can help them through it. Communication is one of the biggest challenges couples face....

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Break Free from Toxic Masculinity: How This Content Creator is Changing the Game
Cassey Ashley Sua

Cassey Ashley Sua

The Short Version: Men’s dating expert Samir Mourani has a passion for creating open, judgment-free environments where men can share their vulnerabilities and redefine masculinity. Through Gent’s Post and Gent's Talk podcast, he fills the gap with practical advice and interviews with notable figures to discuss and promote these important topics. These discussions normalize emotional dialogue to empower men and...

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Guide to Long-Distance Relationships: Benefits & Tips
Ashayla Blakely

Ashayla Blakely

I remember the day my boyfriend and I received notification that we had both been accepted into our dream Master's programs. Me at Florida State University and him at the University of Michigan. Although the moment was a very happy one, I couldn’t help but feel a bit sad that my college sweetheart and I would have to go through the ultimate couples challenge –– a long-distance relationship.  Long-distance...

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What’s So “Dirty” About Sex Talk?
Chloë Hylkema

Chloë Hylkema

The Short Version: Sex isn’t an easy conversation topic for most people. Certified sex therapist Kimberly Resnick Anderson talked to us about why this is and how individuals and couples can overcome shame, silence, and isolation and step into an empowered and embodied experience of sexuality. We use a lot of words and phrases to describe having sex. There’s “doing the deed,” and it’s close relative, “doing the...

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Dating App’s New AI Assistant Can Teach Singles How to Flirt
Emma Patterson

Emma Patterson

The Short Version: Flirtini’s intuitive AI assistant may not be a living, breathing person, but it certainly has a romantic side. The AI assistant helps the user to liven up conversation, refine flirting skills, concoct icebreakers, and put up healthy boundaries with potential dates. Most of us spend the early days of a relationship sending increasingly flirty texts to our crushes. When done well, each person...

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Dating Support for Christians, from the Early Stages of Dating to Marriage
Chloë Hylkema

Chloë Hylkema

The Short Version: Marriage Sharing is a robust online resource for Christian singles and couples who want to improve their relationships with themselves, each other, and God. Chaplain Felice Mathieu is a Christian Marriage Coach and the person behind Marriage Sharing. Felice talked to us about the website and his coaching offerings, plus gave Christian daters some tips for navigating the dating scene with...

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Relationship Expert Paula Quinsee Provides Tools to Help Couples Overcome Everyday Conflict 
Chloë Hylkema

Chloë Hylkema

The Short Version: Conflict is an inevitable part of being in a relationship – but that needn’t be a bad thing. Renowned author and relationship expert Paula Quinsee challenges couples to rethink their approach to disagreement. Instead of seeing conflict as a villain to be defeated, think of it as a vital force for fostering growth and understanding. With her wealth of wisdom and years of experience, she highlights...

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Why Did She Stop Texting Me? 8 Possible Explanations
Hunt Ethridge

Hunt Ethridge

It happens all the time.  You meet someone, online or at a party, and you swap info and start texting each other. Maybe you go out a few times. At some point, the texting stops. Maybe it petered out.  Maybe it stops cold. Either way, you can’t figure out what went wrong or what you did. You ask your buddies and show them your text thread(s). They don’t know! Now frustrated, you hop online, pop in some...

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Intimacy Coach and Marriage Expert Alexandra Stockwell Discusses Rebuilding Intimacy in a Relationship
Chloë Hylkema

Chloë Hylkema

The Short Version: When it comes to relationships, keeping the flame of intimacy alive involves more than closeness and affection. Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, a Rolling Stones, USA Today, and Fox News Intimacy Coach and Marriage Expert, believes true intimacy evolves from deliberate effort and mutual understanding. In an exclusive interview, Dr. Stockwell unveils her insights on how couples can rekindle and reignite...

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40.
What Does Polyamorous Dating Mean?
Jamie Ballard

Jamie Ballard

It’s safe to say that polyamory is having a moment. Wave-making articles in The New York Times, The Atlantic, and The New Yorker have talked about polyamory’s growing popularity. Plenty of people are exploring polyamory as an alternative to monogamous relationships these days, but it’s hardly a new way of conducting relationships. In fact, there’s evidence suggesting that people have been practicing polyamory as...

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A Guide to Effective Icebreakers for Singles
Mackenzie Buck

Mackenzie Buck

If you’re anything like me, hearing the word “icebreakers” sends an automatic shiver down your  spine. It either reminds you of 1) the soul-crushingly boring games your corporate manager makes you play at your weekly team meetings, or 2) the icebreaker gum candy that just sent the famous Miss Peaches to the veterinary hospital this month. You can sit here and pretend you don’t know who Miss Peaches is, but we...

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10 Best Relationship Counselors of 2024
Chloë Hylkema

Chloë Hylkema

If you and your partner fight, I have great news for you. So does every other couple — ever! Part of learning to navigate a romantic relationship is learning how to argue with them and how to get the most out of arguments. Disagreements, squabbles, and even bigger moments of discord all present the opportunity for you and your partner to deepen your connection and learn more about each other. If you’ve ever...

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Dr. Jessica Higgins Says Overcoming the “Criticism Loop” Helps Couples Find Happiness
Chloë Hylkema

Chloë Hylkema

The Short Version: Communication breakdown is one of the biggest issues couples face in relationships today. Dr. Jessica Higgins, a licensed psychologist and couples therapist, talked to us about common communication problems in relationships and what couples can do to overcome them. The “criticism loop” is when couples lead their communication with criticisms and intellect instead of emotion. Dr. Jessica said...

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10 Best Relationship Coaches for 2023
Chloë Hylkema

Chloë Hylkema

Not to be a buzzkill, but love isn’t enough when it comes to relationships. While love is obviously necessary in romantic relationships, it doesn’t do all the heavy lifting. Rather, it’s the foundation for a healthy, happy, and long-lasting partnership. The happiest couples have shared values and goals, along with the tools they need to communicate with each other more effectively. They set boundaries and pursue...

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7 Stressors Lesbian Couples Face in Their Relationships (Expert Advice)
Pamela Gort

Pamela Gort

Lesbians in a committed relationship may experience a wide range of stressors, including some unique to lesbians, that can impact their relationship. Whether it's conflicts with your partner or challenges related to family support, societal stigma, finances or intimacy, navigating these issues can be challenging. Fortunately, there are ways to overcome these stressors and maintain a healthy, happy relationship...

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The Gottman Institute Uses Research-Based Approaches to Help Relationships Heal and Thrive
Ashayla Blakely

Ashayla Blakely

The Short Version: The process of living life with your partner can be a beautiful journey where love, trust, and support are the backbone of your relationship. But – no matter how much we want it to be – life is not always sunshine and rainbows. Learning how to support your partner through the different obstacles that life will throw at you two can be challenging at times.  Thankfully, the Gottman Institute provides...

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The Couples Financial Coach Helps Partners Achieve Financial Intimacy
Sheena Holt

Sheena Holt

The Short Version: Finances are often a huge source of stress and tension for couples. It can be difficult for partners to communicate about money, especially when they have different financial personalities. Couples who want to improve their relationship with money can turn to The Couples Financial Coach for help. Adam Kol has dedicated his practice to helping couples achieve financial and personal success. When...

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48.
3 Important Gay Dating Steps to Follow for Success
Mason Glenn

Mason Glenn

It doesn't matter if you're gay, bi, queer, or just horny, we’ve all been on dates that felt a little lackluster. A meh first date that doesn't get you excited for a second date. Too often, gay singles report having more awkward dating experiences than dates that truly woo us. So, why are so many dates so dull? Here are some of my explanations for why some dates are "just OK" as well as my top steps for making a gay...

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Dr. Susan Heitler Says Effective Listening Can Transform Relationships
Ashayla Blakely

Ashayla Blakely

Listening is an absolute necessity when you want to have a committed relationship. It’s important to be heard and also listen well to your partner. Instead of hearing “you never listen to me” a billion times, couples can learn healthy ways to show that they’re attentive and care about what their partner has to say.  Of course, it’s easier said than done. Sometimes couples forget how to properly listen when...

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50.
The Hit Podcast “Sex Talk With My Mom” Talks its Way to its 400th Episode
Ashayla Blakely

Ashayla Blakely

The Short Version: Having the sex talk with your parents is never an easy task. In fact, many parents avoid the conversation altogether, assuming that their precious child will never participate in such intimate activities. That’s definitely not the case for sexually liberated mom and comedic son duo, KarenLee Poter and Cam. Their podcast, Sex Talk With My Mom, helps pave the way for parents and children to talk...

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51.
Relationship Hero Counselors Share Advice to Foster Better Partnerships
Suzanne Wentley

Suzanne Wentley

The Short Version: Learning how to effectively communicate and show love for another person are essential tools in any relationship. Dating Coach Merri Knox, who works with Relationship Hero, shares valuable advice about what it takes for couples to learn those skills. She offers practical steps to help people improve their relationships or identify when to end a toxic relationship. Romantic relationships can be...

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8 Relationship Resolutions for the New Year[updated_month_year before=" (" after=")"]
Rachel Dack

Rachel Dack

As we approach a new year and reflect on 2021, there’s no better time to take your relationship to the next level by implementing healthy relationship habits and resolutions.  Regardless of how you are feeling about your relationship and whether you are feeling more satisfied or dissatisfied at the moment, know there is a lot you can do to make your relationship more rewarding. Here are eight relationship...

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53.
5 Tips for When & How to Say “I Love You” for the First Time
Rachel Dack

Rachel Dack

Saying “I love you” for the first time is a monumental moment in a relationship. The timing will look different for different couples because love develops over time and is felt at varying paces. So it’s natural to wonder how to handle the timing of saying “I love you,” as well as the best ways to express feelings of love to your significant other.  While there is no one-size-fits-all approach to saying “I...

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54.
15 Fun & Interesting Conversation Starters for Lesbian Singles on a Date
Pamela Gort

Pamela Gort

Conversation starters are crucial for any good date. They help you break the ice and get to know your date better.  It can be hard to know what to say on the first date especially when you're not sure how open your date is. We have all been on a first date with someone we really like. You know you need to ask some questions or risk being labeled as a conversational black hole. With these 15 conversation...

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55.
Love Like the French: Dating Coach Guy Blaise Offers Readers Tips on Romance
Amber Brooks

Amber Brooks

The Short Version: Author and Dating Coach Guy Blaise has answers for women and other daters who want to know what’s going on in a man’s mind. In his new book, “Love Like the French: A Guide to Better Romance and Relationships,” Guy answers some of the most common questions about love from his unique perspective. He offers advice with a dose of humor and kindness to Americans who want to stop settling for less and...

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56.
8 Common Relationship Problems Most Couples Face
Rachel Dack

Rachel Dack

Oftentimes couples wonder if their relationship problems are "normal." Does every couple struggle and fight as they do? What are common relationship problems? While every relationship is unique, there are areas of conflict that most couples encounter as they go through life together. It makes sense that as your relationship deepens and becomes more serious, your conversations may touch on deeper and more serious...

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57.
Braver Angels Helps Couples See Past Politics to Strengthen Their Relationships
Amber Brooks

Amber Brooks

The Short Version: Braver Angels has strengthened relationships by helping singles and couples learn civil discourse tactics. The bipartisan organization launched in 2016 to advocate for rational and respectful debate on potentially divisive issues. Braver Angels fosters healthy political debates through in-person and virtual workshops. Couples who disagree politically can engage in these events to find common ground...

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5 Things To Do Before Asking Your Boyfriend to Move in With You
Mason Glenn

Mason Glenn

Moving in with your significant other is a huge step. It demonstrates a big commitment, and it can test the strength of your relationship -- or reveal its weaknesses. Making the decision to move in together can be extremely exciting and intimidating at the same time. Experts say personal growth starts with being uncomfortable. That's when you feel most motivated to change. Creating a home with your new man may not...

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DC Counseling Center Helps Couples Recommit to Their Relationships
Amber Brooks

Amber Brooks

The Short Version: Many couples have struggled to maintain happy relationships during the COVID-19 pandemic. Lockdowns put stress on their homelife, and the economic downturn exacerbated some of the inequalities in salary, health, and housework. Couples who want to resolve these issues can turn to the DC Counseling Center and start rebuilding their relationships. The team of trained marriage and family therapists...

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Lasting The Distance Offers First-Hand Advice for Couples in Long-Distance Relationships
Hayley Matthews

Hayley Matthews

The Short Version: Relationships aren’t easy, but long-distance relationships can be particularly hard to maintain. Lolo and Nate, a couple who spent over a year with about 11,000 miles between them, know this from experience. And now they share the secrets to their success in an advice blog called Lasting The Distance. Lolo and Nate found clever ways to overcome the space between them and strengthen their love in...

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Amber Brooks

By: Amber Brooks

Editor-in-Chief

Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.

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