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Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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Lillian Castro
Lillian Castro,Senior Editor
Lillian Guevara-Castro brings more than 30 years of journalism experience to ensure DatingAdvice articles have been edited for overall clarity, accuracy, and reader engagement. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, The Gwinnett Daily News, and The Gainesville Sun covering lifestyle topics.
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Online dating places a large and accessible pool of daters at our fingertips. While you can receive messages from all sorts of people, finding the right match is a different story. If you need help adjusting your online dating game, look to our articles below.
Knowing how to date online properly can transform your experience tremendously. And we give you the tips to stand out, so you can avoid being a tiny needle in a massive haystack.
Our articles focus on tips and strategies that daters can leverage to find the right connections online, from building an authentic dating profile to recognizing compatibility.
We aren’t biased or anything. But we offer the best advice on this side of the internet to help any dater feel more confident in today’s fast-paced online dating environment because that’s how we designed our content.
Our content covers a wide range of topics, from writing the perfect conversation starter to setting healthy boundaries. You’ll read about dating safety, compatibility, and red flag awareness, so you can avoid any approaching pitfalls.
Our experts teach you how to break the ice and get to that first date, so you won’t be left swiping endlessly. Maximize your online dating experience and find the right matches with these guides.
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Matchmaking is growing in popularity as singles look for offline options. Matchmaker Lisa Amador talked to us about the matchmaking process, explained why singles choose matchmaking, and tackled some misconceptions about the introductions process.
There are so many ways to meet the love of your life. My parents met in a sociology class in grad school. Both had grown up just miles away from each...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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As the saying goes, there’s no such thing as a free lunch. However, there is such a thing as a free dating site.
Nearly all dating apps and sites offer a basic level of free membership to anyone who wants to join, with premium features for people who want to get more from their online dating experience.
But what do you get with a free membership? Is it just to entice people onto a platform before making...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: If you just can’t seem to get it right in romance, it might be time to change your strategy. Matchmaker and dating expert Cat Cantrill talked to us about the importance of an emotionally prepared mindset and how working with a professional can transform singles’ experiences.
I have a friend who loves dating in a way I’ve never seen. She’s an unabashed romantic with a penchant for men who aren’t...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Karine Lang is a vegan dating expert and the founder of FindVegLove, which connects vegan and vegetarian singles across the U.S. and Canada. She talked to us about her service and how vegans can find joy and companionship through dating.
I’ve been vegan for four years and have worked with various animal rights organizations in cities across the South. Out of all those vegans and activists I’ve...
Over the last 10 years, Karen Belz has written for dating and lifestyle sites such as Zoosk, Bolde, and Elite Singles. She started her career as a professional writer by helping launch HelloGiggles in 2011. Karen graduated from Millersville University of Pennsylvania, majoring in Broadcasting with a minor in Print Media Studies. She is now happily married and believes that healthy communication is the key to all successful relationships. You can follow her on Threads @karenbelz.
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While online dating can take some of the anxiety out of face-to-face interactions, it can still be intimidating to message a stranger on an app or site. That's why many online dating sites have adopted a wink system to help break the ice.
Winks are a virtual nudge to let potential matches know they have attracted your interest. Winks are quicker and easier than a formal introduction, and the feature is typically...
Anggi Pradhini is a professional copywriter who creates unique and engaging content for DatingAdvice.com. As a former stockbroker, she is skilled at delivering rational, actionable advice to help singles in their love lives. Her work has appeared in Life Coach Magazine and DatingNews.com. She has also earned certifications through HubSpot Academy.
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A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
In the online dating scene, your first step is to create your dating profile. It’s the first impression others use to determine whether they’re interested in you.
Don’t freak out, though.
Getting your profile right isn’t rocket science. The rules are fairly straightforward: Your profile must attract the right people while keeping you safe from creeps,...
Emma Estrada is a writer and performer from the San Fernando Valley of Los Angeles, CA. She has a bachelor’s in English Literature from UC Berkeley and studied Commedia dell'arte at Ecole Philippe Gaulier. She’s been freelance writing since 2019 and has written, acted, and produced award-winning short films, a web series, and a one-woman comedy show for the 2024 Hollywood Fringe Festival. She still lives in Los Angeles despite repeated efforts to leave.
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As described by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, bisexuality is the sexual orientation of a person who is attracted emotionally, romantically, or physically to more than one gender.
While some may see bisexuality as a gateway to homosexuality or a phase a young person goes through in college, many people live in this gray or, shall I say, rainbow area.
As American psychologist and sex...
Emma has been a professional writer for nearly a decade now. She has a degree in English and Creative Writing from Fredonia State University. Her background in satirical journalism and human interest content helps her approach the dating world with humor and heart. She has gotten her byline featured on Tasting Table, Boredom Therapy, Her Moments, and Eternally Sunny, among other media outlets.
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The Short Version: Jill Monaco, Christian dating coach and founder of Single Matters ministries, is passionate about helping Christian singles find love by working on a spiritual and emotional level. By focusing on one’s personal health, spiritual growth, and self-improvement journey, Jill guides her clients through the faith-based dating process.
For those driven by religious values, finding like-minded...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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If you’ve got cash to blow and a desire to explore a nontraditional relationship, becoming a sugar daddy might seem appealing.
Sugar daddies are wealthy individuals who provide financial support, gifts, or other material benefits to a romantic partner, or “sugar baby.”
Sugar daddies often spoil their sugar babies in pursuit of physical intimacy or general companionship. These relationships...
Anggi Pradhini is a professional copywriter who creates unique and engaging content for DatingAdvice.com. As a former stockbroker, she is skilled at delivering rational, actionable advice to help singles in their love lives. Her work has appeared in Life Coach Magazine and DatingNews.com. She has also earned certifications through HubSpot Academy.
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I used to think online dating would make getting a partner easier than ever. You just had to set your goal, set your preferences, set the filter, and voila! Your candidate will be delivered to your inbox.
Well, that’s not really the case.
Online dating filters are a powerful tool for focusing your romantic search. You can find individuals with specific traits in a vast pool of people. Unfortunately, getting...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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Once upon a time, video calls were a futuristic concept worthy of an EPCOT ride. Now, many online dating platforms offer the opportunity to connect via video, so it’s safe to say the future has arrived.
The COVID-19 lockdowns made video chats an essential dating tool. A video date has become a common step for daters to take before meeting in person.
If you want to make the most of your video chats, it’s...
Jules Chen is a Texas-based writer who has been featured on feminist blogs and lifestyle magazines. She graduated from Emory University with dual degrees in English Literature and Chinese Studies. She has served as the managing editor of Lithium Magazine where she worked with a talented team of writers covering lifestyle and pop culture. Her lifestyle writing has been published at Betches, TimeOut, Adolescent Content, and Niche, Inc.
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Now’s a good time for a refresher on all things LGBTQ+ dating. The acronym encompasses many identities and orientations, with definitions that have evolved and expanded over time.
However, even as society progresses toward celebrating LGBTQ+ acceptance, the truth is that many LGBTQ+ individuals continue to experience challenges in dating and relationships.
You need to ensure you’re remaining an inclusive,...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Dating has changed– and dating experts Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick say it’s for the better. The duo, who are active daters and hosts of the podcast Dateable, talked to us about the emergence of intentional dating and how it’s shifting the modern landscape, specifically for millennial women.
Some dating advice online tells you exactly how to show up. It gives directives on what outfits to wear,...
Anggi Pradhini is a professional copywriter who creates unique and engaging content for DatingAdvice.com. As a former stockbroker, she is skilled at delivering rational, actionable advice to help singles in their love lives. Her work has appeared in Life Coach Magazine and DatingNews.com. She has also earned certifications through HubSpot Academy.
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If you’re thinking about purchasing an online dating subscription, you probably have many questions. You must do your research to understand how things work and if an online dating subscription will be beneficial for you.
Our dating experts have been in the trenches of online dating for a while, and they’ve put together this guide to help you decide which online dating platform will suit you.
Let’s get...
Jules Chen is a Texas-based writer who has been featured on feminist blogs and lifestyle magazines. She graduated from Emory University with dual degrees in English Literature and Chinese Studies. She has served as the managing editor of Lithium Magazine where she worked with a talented team of writers covering lifestyle and pop culture. Her lifestyle writing has been published at Betches, TimeOut, Adolescent Content, and Niche, Inc.
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If you’ve spent any time at all on a dating app, you’ll notice the prevalence of no-strings-attached (NSA) dating and relationships. The language users share on their profiles might vary — from “seeking something casual” to “short-term fun”-- but the idea remains the same: People want to have fun without pressure.
NSA relationships offer casual sex and intimacy without forcing partners to commit to a label or a...
Sophia Peyser studies English and Creative Writing at Emory University. She has read extensively about dating, written passionately about love, and imparted friends with unsolicited (but well-researched) dating advice. With a background in journalism and content writing, Sophia loves writing about the tools singles can use to ensure both happiness and safety in their relationships.
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The Short Version: Date for 2 is a professional matchmaking service dedicated to bringing more love into the world. We spoke with matchmaker Maya Schaareman about how the match process works and what singles can do to get results in their dating life.
Looking for love on dating apps can be exhausting. Spending hours swiping, with no success, through surface-level profiles is time-consuming. Building a lasting...
Emma Estrada is a writer and performer from the San Fernando Valley of Los Angeles, CA. She has a bachelor’s in English Literature from UC Berkeley and studied Commedia dell'arte at Ecole Philippe Gaulier. She’s been freelance writing since 2019 and has written, acted, and produced award-winning short films, a web series, and a one-woman comedy show for the 2024 Hollywood Fringe Festival. She still lives in Los Angeles despite repeated efforts to leave.
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If you’ve ever been in a sticky situation on a dating app, don’t want an awkward online run-in with an ex, or just need to get someone off your back, blocking may be the best option.
Sure, it can seem scary, definitive, and maybe harsh, but sometimes it just needs to be done.
The biggest con of meeting people on dating apps is that you might run into some people you would never want to meet in your daily...
Over the last 10 years, Karen Belz has written for dating and lifestyle sites such as Zoosk, Bolde, and Elite Singles. She started her career as a professional writer by helping launch HelloGiggles in 2011. Karen graduated from Millersville University of Pennsylvania, majoring in Broadcasting with a minor in Print Media Studies. She is now happily married and believes that healthy communication is the key to all successful relationships. You can follow her on Threads @karenbelz.
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If you've recently entered the world of online dating, you may have been warned about the possibility of online dating bots coming up in your search.
While bots unfortunately do have a presence on many dating sites, they shouldn't ruin the entire experience for you. Once you know what to look for, you'll be well aware of how to identify a real account and avoid the fake profiles.
Here's what you...
Jules Chen is a Texas-based writer who has been featured on feminist blogs and lifestyle magazines. She graduated from Emory University with dual degrees in English Literature and Chinese Studies. She has served as the managing editor of Lithium Magazine where she worked with a talented team of writers covering lifestyle and pop culture. Her lifestyle writing has been published at Betches, TimeOut, Adolescent Content, and Niche, Inc.
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Founded in 2012, Tinder laid the groundwork for what we now know as “swipe life.” Today, most dating apps have a tutorial to show first-time users how to sift through their options by swiping right if they’re interested or swiping left to discard the profile.
The right-swipe makes online dating apps intuitive and easy to use, allowing users to quickly find potential partners without the effort and anxiety that...
Over the last 10 years, Karen Belz has written for dating and lifestyle sites such as Zoosk, Bolde, and Elite Singles. She started her career as a professional writer by helping launch HelloGiggles in 2011. Karen graduated from Millersville University of Pennsylvania, majoring in Broadcasting with a minor in Print Media Studies. She is now happily married and believes that healthy communication is the key to all successful relationships. You can follow her on Threads @karenbelz.
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Online dating has always involved a few learning curves. Daters today are becoming a little more strategic when it comes to building their profiles — and you can thank algorithms for that.
Online matching systems determine which profiles you see in which order, and they can dictate your online dating future in important ways.
Algorithms were created to push the most important news (or most important...
Lexi joined the DatingAdvice team with several years of lifestyle journalism experience. She grew her writing prowess through reporting on the topic of sex and relationships, and she loves continuing to cover content in this niche while working toward becoming an AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator. You can find Lexi's writing in Refinery29, Cosmopolitan, Bustle, Well + Good, and Women's Health, among other publications.
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Picture this: you start chatting with someone exciting and plan your first date together. Once you meet up you think the date couldn’t have gone better, and you allow yourself to start imagining a future with them.
Many of us have been there, myself included. I tend to jump lightyears ahead of myself when I meet someone new and catch feelings quickly.
Let’s say you're eagerly planning a second date…...
Sophia Peyser studies English and Creative Writing at Emory University. She has read extensively about dating, written passionately about love, and imparted friends with unsolicited (but well-researched) dating advice. With a background in journalism and content writing, Sophia loves writing about the tools singles can use to ensure both happiness and safety in their relationships.
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According to the Pew Research Center, nearly 3 in 10 U.S. adults have used a dating site or app. Tinder alone is responsible for over 97 billion matches, and Match.com has been pairing people up since the 1990s.
Many types of daters can find success in online dating, whether they’re a female user who likes making the first move on Bumble or a casual dater who prefers the ease of swiping on Tinder.
However,...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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If you’ve recently heard the acronym DTF, I would bet that you heard it within one of these three contexts:
In a dating app message thread
In a raunchy coming-of-age comedy
An episode of the notoriously irresistible reality show “Jersey Shore”
Wherever you heard it, you’re here because you’re unfamiliar with the term and want to explore what it could signify within the context of dating...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Welcome to dating with your whole self. Somatic practitioner Maryanne Comaroto, PhD, talked to us about somatic therapy, the wisdom of the body, and how a well-practiced mind-body connection can elevate the dating experience.
Several times throughout the day, I find myself on autopilot. Whether taking out the trash, washing the dishes, or driving to the grocery store – autopilot moments happen...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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Whether you’ve seen videos on TikTok, watched “Marrying Millions,” or maybe even heard about it from a friend, you’ve almost certainly heard the term “sugar baby” floating around. But what is a sugar baby?
The term is part of a larger phenomenon known as sugar dating. A younger, attractive person partners with an older, usually wealthy person to exchange companionship for financial support or gifts. A sugar baby...
Jules Chen is a Texas-based writer who has been featured on feminist blogs and lifestyle magazines. She graduated from Emory University with dual degrees in English Literature and Chinese Studies. She has served as the managing editor of Lithium Magazine where she worked with a talented team of writers covering lifestyle and pop culture. Her lifestyle writing has been published at Betches, TimeOut, Adolescent Content, and Niche, Inc.
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The Short Version: Matchmaking services might be a fit for you if traditional dating just hasn’t led you to the one. Rachel Federoff and Destin Pfaff, who run Love and Matchmaking, share insights on how their unique process works. As part of their personalized approach, Rachel and Destin get to know each individual, celebrate their unique personalities, and encourage growth.
The dating process today is defined by...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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What do MTV’s “Catfish,” “Gossip Girl,” and “The Secret Life of the American Teenager” have in common? They’re shows I hate-watched as a teenager. In their own unique and cringey ways, the stories were like car wrecks on the side of the highway: tragic, and impossible to look away from.
“Catfish” has stuck with me the most out of all because of its (for lack of a better word) realness.
I’m sure...
Emma has been a professional writer for nearly a decade now. She has a degree in English and Creative Writing from Fredonia State University. Her background in satirical journalism and human interest content helps her approach the dating world with humor and heart. She has gotten her byline featured on Tasting Table, Boredom Therapy, Her Moments, and Eternally Sunny, among other media outlets.
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The Short Version: Flirtini’s intuitive AI assistant may not be a living, breathing person, but it certainly has a romantic side. The AI assistant helps the user to liven up conversation, refine flirting skills, concoct icebreakers, and put up healthy boundaries with potential dates.
Most of us spend the early days of a relationship sending increasingly flirty texts to our crushes. When done well, each person...
Anggi Pradhini is a professional copywriter who creates unique and engaging content for DatingAdvice.com. As a former stockbroker, she is skilled at delivering rational, actionable advice to help singles in their love lives. Her work has appeared in Life Coach Magazine and DatingNews.com. She has also earned certifications through HubSpot Academy.
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In real life, it’s hard to say “no” to someone who’s flirting with you. But in the online world, you can do this simply by swiping left.
This simple gesture, popularized by dating apps like Tinder, allows you to quickly express indifference toward someone new. You don’t need to explain why you’re not interested in a certain profile, and the other party also doesn’t know how many people have rejected them.
But...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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My mom is a school counselor and a big believer in affirmations. She has an app on her phone that sends her a written affirmation every morning, and in the days before smartphones, she kept an affirmation calendar pad on our kitchen table.
As a teenager, I thought affirmations were strictly corny. As an adult, I’m an affirmation reader and repeater. The words we read have the power to stay with us and impact...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.