Let's Talk Online Dating Tips (Page 24)

Raise your hand if you have ever heard someone you know say, "I'm going to date older men because they are more mature!" I know everyone has heard this statement before. For too many, it’s said with the lure of a false sense of security. Here are a few things to consider when it comes to dating someone older or younger: 1. Age doesn't always reflect maturity or character. While wisdom comes with living maturity, it...

Finding love on your mobile phone has become all the rage. We no longer have to go home to check our inboxes to see if there's been an email received by a potential suitor. Tinder has captured the hearts of millions and has a flame that seems to be burning hot. Once suggested as a hookup app, Tinder is now a social discovery and dating app that's responsible for many relationships. The site reports they’re seeing...

In a landmark book, neuroscientist Paul MacLean proposed that a "reptilian complex" was responsible for instinctual behaviors involved in aggression, dominance, territoriality and ritual displays. Sound familiar?! Yes, that's because it's like the way many men approach online dating! Men tend to focus on the visual (i.e. the photos), while women look for an interesting narrative. Guys, if your whole profile...

Reader Question: I'm a nice-looking 60-year-old Christian man looking to date a nice-looking Christian woman from the ages of 38 to 47. Am I wrong or abnormal to be interested in dating a younger woman? Am I too old to date someone this age? Do most women this age only prefer men who are no more than five to six years older than they are and not 16 to 22 years older? -Stewart (Virginia) April Braswell's...

Lots of people like to flirt at work (let’s face it, it’s fun), but what if an office relationship turns into something more? And more to the point, what should you think about when it comes to dating your boss? Here at Lovestruck.com, we know most people would shout “BAD IDEA” very loudly at you if you even mentioned the possibility of taking your boss to bed. However, we know love strikes in the most unexpected of...

I was recently talking to another dating coach and he made an interesting comment, “Most people who are good at meeting people in real life make terrific online daters.” It was an experienced perspective and one worth noting. Here I share with you what that means and some helpful tips to make you successful in either. 1. Be approachable. One thing I help online daters with is seeming nice, friendly and (most...

From: We Love Dates Mature. 

If you haven't read my first two articles about how to bag a cougar, you can check them out. Now let's move on to the third and final step! 3. Moving in for the kill So you have succeeded in luring the mighty cougar into an e-dialogue with you. What now? Hopefully you want to bring the connection into real life, face to face. If your intention is just to keep things virtual, moving it perhaps to another platform,...

Having insecure moments is a natural part of life. As we push ourselves to go after our goals, take social and emotional risks, make mistakes and try new things, we are bound to feel insecure at times. As our healthiest selves, we are able to persevere through our insecurities, embrace our strengths, accept our limitations and keep moving forward even in the toughest of moments. Many single women report insecurities...

Dating in the 1970s, with the advent of the modern feminist movement, left so many boomer women confused about dating and the roles of men and women in contemporary courtship. Now that you’re dating as senior singles, what’s expected? Should senior women make the first move? Do baby boomer men expect the lady to pay on dates? Should boomer women let senior men get the door for them? Modern dating can be...

The dating market - could anything be so capitalistic? Yet we still trade ourselves in this market of hearts. So how is one to approach this market of hearts? By breaking it down into simple marketing. Like any marketable good, you need to get your marketing mix right. You need the right product. You need to promote it in the right way, have it in the right place and for the right price. To attract the mate you’re...

We all get overwhelmed with work and family obligations. You may stay late to finish a project or put in extra hours to help ensure that promotion, or maybe you’re a single mom or dad with no time to yourself. While it’s important to move forward in your career or to be a responsible parent, you might want to consider whether you’re ignoring your personal life in the process. Being too busy is an easy response and...

One of the questions I get asked most often from lesbians is how to go slow. Going slow means waiting to jump into bed, holding off on sleepovers, not moving your toothbrush in too soon and things like that. Some women might interpret this as playing hard to get, but it’s not at all the same as going slow to make sure you’re a good match for each other. Now the real trick to playing hard to get is to always be...

Unless you are fortunate enough to lure the mighty cougar into advancing on you solely by virtue of your adorable profile, it will be incumbent upon you to make the first move. So we come to the all important first messages: 2. Laying the trap Three principles should guide your early interactions with this fierce and majestic animal: Keep it classy. Keep it personal. Keep it real. Remember this is a woman we...

Reader Question: I am a 30-something American female who has recently become acquainted with a 40-something Danish male online. He was in the states on business and we met for drinks and hit it off. He has since gone back to DK, but we communicate via Skype, phone, etc. His company is planning to send him to my city to open a new office. He seems to be interested and is moving very fast in terms of talking about...

Have you noticed you generally go for the same types of men over and over again? Have your friends and family joked with you that all of your boyfriends look the same, dress the same or have similar career patterns? Are you quick to reject a man who falls out of your predetermined type even just a little bit? Do you tend to only date men who are a certain height or have certain physical features or looks? It’s easy...

Perennially beloved actress Betty White as Rose Nylund in the '80s and '90s classic TV show "Golden Girls" had a challenge with her senior boyfriend Miles. Once he was retired and living on a fixed income, he started getting really cheap on dates. Not only did he act cheap, but he talked about it with her all the time. Guys, a word to the wise here: Mature single women are repulsed by this behavior. However, there...

In the crazy, challenging and oftentimes frustrating world of looking for a significant other, too many out there seem hung up on the fantasy that they’ll eventually find a “perfect” companion. They look and hunt everywhere, going through dozens if not hundreds of dates only to walk away somehow feeling shorthanded and cheated, wondering why this or that person couldn’t be a little bit more of what they’re...

With the old favorite dinner for two no longer our best bet for first date success, it's time for you mature gents and ladies to act your age. It's time for you single seniors to put your life experience to work and also embrace the most basic of modern dating technology. Yes, even Cupid has come of age. Unless your objective is 50 first dates, those of us looking to ride off into the sunset with our geriatric...

Reader Question: I met a woman on Match.com and had a date with her that went great. I asked her if she was interested in another date and she said definitely. At the end of the date, she even initiated a kiss. The next evening I sent her a text telling her I was looking forward to the next date. She text me back saying she felt a spark between us but admitted she had been dating a guy for some time. He was upset...

OK boys, I am talking to you now. You know who you are: young in body or, more importantly, at heart, sexually adventurous, eager to explore the world and interested in doing that in the company of a woman who has more experience in life than you. To those of us more-experienced-in-life-than-you women who find ourselves happily single and similarly open to adventure, you represent a truly worthwhile encounter,...

As mathematician G. H. Hardy once declared, "Beauty, not usefulness, is the true justification for mathematics." After years of being alone with few dating prospects and growing frustration, Chris McKinlay - a math graduate student - hacked an online dating site to try to find his true love. And it worked! He used clever extraction methods to collect millions of data points from one of the largest dating sites -...

Does the three-date rule really exist, or is it purely myth and legend? Date 1: Coffee or drinks Date 2: Dinner and drinks Date 3: Dinner, drinks, something else fun and then home for sex Is this three-date rule something you need to follow? Well, when it comes to dating, I love to think outside the box and keep things interesting. You see, women are conditioned to believe men will start putting on the...

Most people do not like saying no. In fact, many report it is one of the most uncomfortable words to say. Several factors that make it difficult to say no include the need to please others or to be liked and accepted, the unpleasantness we commonly feel when we hurt someone, the negative connotation society has placed on saying no and the idea it is selfish to let someone else down or put your own needs...

When online dating, there is a balancing act that goes into moving from the email exchanges to a number exchange. Men are usually in more of a hurry to get to the digits than their female interests. While there is no rule that says when you need to exchange info, it should be on the horizon. After all, you went into online dating to date, not make a pen pal. This happened to a client recently. To quote one of his...

What’s a plus-size romantic to do in a world obsessed with skinniness? Heavier people can certainly face a different set of challenges on the dating scene, and our 10 Best Blogs for Plus-Size Dating were selected for the contentious, creative and fun ways they explore this field. Plus-Size...

Reader Question: I am 48 and I've not had any luck with getting any dates when I go on to gay dating sites. Can you help me? -Thomas (Indiana) Brian Rzepczynski's Answer: Hi Thomas! The important thing when you're on the dating market is to make sure you spread your reach among a variety of dating venues rather than being dependent on any one particular venue. This way you'll have more exposure,...

Reader Question: I met a guy on a dating app almost a year ago. We still text, chat, Snapchat and use other social media communications, but we have never met in person. We're both in college living two hours apart. I/we have tried meeting but it never works out, mostly on his part. Am I wasting my time? -Roxy (Georgia) Gina Stewart's Answer: What’s fact is fact. It doesn’t seem like you’re going to do...

Source: We Love Dates Single Parent Dating

Reader Question: I met a great guy online about a month ago, and after talking on the phone for a month, we met in person. Something is not feeling right. I asked him if he would ever invite me to his house, and he said he wouldn't want me to drive that far. He's in Illinois. I'm in Indiana. Then he tells me I couldn't make plans on the weekends because of his job and being on call. I would have to work with...