Let's Talk Online Dating Tips (Page 32)

Reader Question: I met a guy on Match.com. He is 62. I am 56. He said, “I'm falling in love with you,” but 10 minutes later he said he wants to continue seeing other women. He also has ejaculation issues. We have not gone so far as to be 100 percent intimate. I know he likes me very much, as evidenced by the quality of our time together as well as the increased closeness of him to me. My intuition says his sexual...

So you've met a woman who vibes with you the right way. She’s not only attractive, but she’s thoughtful, engaging, smart. You really like a lot of things about her. She mentioned to you she was a bisexual woman, and you decided to take her out. After just a couple of dates, you’re still really into her. The problem is you’re not so sure she’s into you -- or even into the lesbian scene. You’re constantly getting...

Have you felt the hurt and betrayal of being catfished? Have you been in an online relationship with someone who wasn't who they said they were? Catfishing has been made famous through the MTV show and Netflix documentary, and it's brought to light a lot of what many of you have been experiencing alone. Catfishing involves an online romantic relationship that never manifests into a real-life romance because one...

When you first join an online dating site, it’s exciting to see an overflowing inbox of people who are interested in communicating with you. The majority of people create a dating profile with the goal of retiring it and riding into the sunset together. Some people get lucky and meet someone they connect with right away. Others can stay on the dating sites for months or even years. The question you have to ask...

Reader Question: I’m 46 years old. I’m on online dating sites. I have a few men asking me out at the same time. I’m not sure if I should tell the others. These men express they are looking for a girlfriend and want a relationship, which is also my goal. Should I go on dates with different men to see which one pans out? -Kris (Ohio) Dr. Wendy Walsh's Answer: Excellent question, Kris! Remember, dating is...

Maybe I’m just from another day and age. Call me a prude. Call me soft. Call me old. But I couldn’t believe my eyes. Here I was making plans to meet a woman for the first time online, innocently flirting pre-date about whether or not she was in shape, when bam, a naked picture pops across my phone with the caption, “So what do you think?” Needless to say, that was enough of a red flag for me to gracefully bow out...

Dating as a Christian can be a whole 'nother ballgame, and our 10 Best Christian Dating Blogs are up to bat. These blogs are unique in their own ways, but they all have one thing in common - quality advice made for the Christian dater. Christian Mingle BEST OF Bragging Rights: One-stop shop...

I met this guy about three weeks ago online, and we’ve been out a few times for drinks and shared some kisses. I’d like to see him more, but I always see he’s logged into his online account. Seriously, every single time I’m on there he shows up. This makes me think he’s talking to a lot of other girls, and I want someone who is only interested in me. Not looking for players! How do I communicate to him I’m looking...

Are you online dating and feeling like the pool is getting a little tired? Keep seeing the same faces and no one feels very exciting anymore? Here are three super easy changes you can make without even typing a word. Consequently, they will also help you to find love. Is it online dating magic? No. But you did say you're ready to find some love, right? Then what are you waiting for? 1, 2, 3, GO! 1. Your age...

Reader Question: An overwhelming majority of the women I date are professional women who earn a lot more money than I do. I have no problem with this. I have a good job, but it doesn't pay as much as the careers these women have. I sometimes wonder if my earnings exclude me with these ladies because I'm not at "their level." As you have pointed out, women today are the hunters/gatherers and I could end up as a...

Reader Question: I've been divorced since 1988 and haven't really dated. I'm a very pretty woman. I have a master's, three grown married, professional children and seven grandchildren. My profile reads well. I speak three languages and I am really interested in everything. I have been on eHarmony for months but have had almost no response. What is the matter? -Rita (New York) April Braswell's Answer: I...

What are the dating rules? What is the order of things that should happen while dating? These are common questions I see from my dating clients. In an ideal world, this would be the format: 1. Meet online or in real life. First you meet a fantastic guy on a dating site like Match or an app like Grindr, and you hit it off. Or maybe you chat up a single man in line for coffee or groceries. Maybe you started dancing...

Last week I shared the first part of an ongoing series about online dating profile unplugging. It’s always one of the most popular questions singles looking for love online ask me. This is *Robin’s question: “Do I or don’t I ask him to take down his profile? We’ve been dating for a while, but I see he’s still logging on.” In this scenario, after only three dates with *Tim, Robin assumed they were in an...

You've met a new woman. You've been single for a while, and you just feel it's time to have a relationship. She's cute and fun, but you're not incredibly excited about her. Here's what happens: Whenever we go through long bouts of being single, we tend to get lonely. It's human nature. The problem with that dynamic is it clouds our judgment when it comes to dating. Eventually we hit a point where we say to...

The wonderful world of dating is full of joyous experiences and is soaked in potential for a dream-like future. However, the reality of it can be a mixed bag. Here are some of the top tips to make sure you get the most out of each experience. Create a foundation. The dating experience can feel a bit like a conveyor belt, with men passing by in front of you. Some will have an expiration date, like dairy products,...

Reader Question: I've been seeing this guy for about three months now. We met online and just recently decided to not see other people. We really enjoy each other and starting to introduce our families. He is still active on the dating website we met off of. He admitted to having casual conversations still from time to time. I'm not a jealous or insecure person, but this has kind of hit me wrong. Should this...

Reader Question: We have stopped seeing other people until we decide if we are right for one another. We met on a dating site. My subscription ran out and I decided not to renew. Her subscription is still active. She tells men who email her that she is seeing someone, but she will not make her online profile invisible. Her reasoning is we are not in a committed relationship, even though we have agreed to see only...

Your online dating profile is your digital billboard to tell other members you’re available and are willing to be contacted for a potential date. One of the most common questions I get asked as an online dating expert and coach is, “When should we take down our profiles? Do we do this together as a ritual, or should I take mine down and hope he or she does the same?” This isn’t an answer that comes in a...

Are you addicted to dating? In today's fast-paced, instant gratification society, do we give up on a new relationship too soon? I am not saying you should just settle down with the first person you meet, but you should give your dates a chance. We are all guilty of judging someone based on first impressions, and if they don't fit our fantasy "cookie cutter" ideal, we put a cross in the box and move on. I know I...

Let's talk about sex! Want all your sex questions answered? Our 10 Best Sex and Dating Experts can help you out. These men and women know all the tips and tricks to having a satisfying sex life. Emily Morse BEST OF Bragging Rights: Practices what she preaches A sex and relationship...

There is one rule in life that applies to just about all members of the human race: People always want what they can't have. Well online dating is no exception to this universal condition. It is for this reason that one must be extremely careful not to appear too eager when writing emails. Doing so can have disastrous effects on the amount of responses received and the eventual number of first dates...

When it comes to starting things off with a new guy, I have one piece of advice for gay men: Don’t do what I used to do. What I mean, specifically, is this: Do not eat an entire cheesecake while watching "He’s Just Not That Into You" repeatedly and decide you’re going to adjust your entire approach to dating based on the concepts contained in the film. I’ve learned the hard way that girl-boy dating rules don’t...

By now, everyone has probably seen the Nice Guys of OkCupid. If you haven’t, here’s the premise: Someone thought it would be funny to post pictures of unattractive, socially awkward men from OkCupid, along with painful clips from their profiles talking about how they are “nice guys.” While I can’t help but wonder what would happen if the gender roles were reversed here, it did get me thinking about “nice...

Reader Question: I am 43-year-old female and have tried online dating off/on for a few years, mostly unsuccessfully. At this age, I am really looking for a relationship, not just casual dating as I have never been married. Someone emailed me from Match.com before I ended my life as a profile. He is new to online dating at 48 years of age after being in a 19-year marriage. I am telling myself maybe it is not good...

Reader Question: I’ve been doing the online dating thing for a while now. Recently I met someone. It’s only been a couple of days of texting and talking on the phone, but we’ve both said we have a really good feeling about us. We’re trying to set up a first date. Unfortunately, our schedules this week are off. I’m wondering if it’s OK to invite her out with my friends. What are the negatives of this approach...

Reader Question: I don't know how to say this online, but I found out around 2001 I had hepatitis C. The biopsy showed it to be a one on a one to four scale. I never drink and don't need medication for it. I haven't had sex in decades, so I'm guessing I may have gotten it as a teen who, very briefly, tried some drugs by injection. I would like to enjoy sex in this life. How do I bring this up...

It’s springtime and love is in the air, as well as on your computers and mobile phones. On March 20th, along with the arrival of the spring equinox, several singles I’ve been working with in my Online Dating BootCamp changed their relationship status to “In a Relationship” and retired their online dating profiles since the first day of spring. What’s their secret in just one week? Preparation and careful planning...

A good magazine doesn't just entertain its readers. A good magazine also informs, raises questions and gives a voice to those who can't speak up. From compelling features to hard-hitting news, our 10 Best Gay Dating Magazines will have you ordering every issue. Out BEST OF Bragging Rights:...

In this digital age, we are all connected. Hey, if you are reading this, you are on a computer and more than likely you have messages coming at you from emails, blogs, social media and all the other forms of digital communication. Social media in regards to dating. More than likely you have a dating profile on one (or more) of the many wonderful dating sites available. If you have these available to you, so do...

How much should I tell this guy about me on our second date? I really like him and we clicked. I’m divorced, but my ex is still disruptive and mean to our two kids. I’m afraid if I tell too much about me to this new man, I’ll lose him. What should I do? -Andie (Ohio) Dear Andie, Those early stages of dating can feel as though you’re on a roller coaster. On the way up the hill, you like the excitement of...