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Amber Brooks,Editor-in-Chief
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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Lillian Castro
Lillian Castro,Senior Editor
Lillian Guevara-Castro brings more than 30 years of journalism experience to ensure DatingAdvice articles have been edited for overall clarity, accuracy, and reader engagement. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, The Gwinnett Daily News, and The Gainesville Sun covering lifestyle topics.
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Online dating places a large and accessible pool of daters at our fingertips. While you can receive messages from all sorts of people, finding the right match is a different story. If you need help adjusting your online dating game, look to our articles below.
Knowing how to date online properly can transform your experience tremendously. And we give you the tips to stand out, so you can avoid being a tiny needle in a massive haystack.
Our articles focus on tips and strategies that daters can leverage to find the right connections online, from building an authentic dating profile to recognizing compatibility.
We aren’t biased or anything. But we offer the best advice on this side of the internet to help any dater feel more confident in today’s fast-paced online dating environment because that’s how we designed our content.
Our content covers a wide range of topics, from writing the perfect conversation starter to setting healthy boundaries. You’ll read about dating safety, compatibility, and red flag awareness, so you can avoid any approaching pitfalls.
Our experts teach you how to break the ice and get to that first date, so you won’t be left swiping endlessly. Maximize your online dating experience and find the right matches with these guides.
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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The Short Version: One in five women will be sexually assaulted at some point in their lives, according to the National Sexual Violence Resource Center. While knowing the facts and talking about the issue is an important step in prevention, it's also vital that women are prepared and know how to defend themselves during an attack. Since 1989, the Rape Aggression Defense System (R.A.D.) has committed itself to doing...
Online dating expert Scott Valdez founded Virtual Dating Assistants (aka VIDA Select) in 2009. His team of highly trained professionals have helped over 11,000 clients find relationships online, and 82% of clients find a match within three months. His expertise has been featured on CNN, HBO, Forbes, and The Washington Post.
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Nothing is more frustrating than matching with an attractive girl on Tinder, excitedly sending her a message, and then facing eternal radio silence. You know you’re no Shakespeare, but your message sure seemed decent enough to get a mutual match to respond. Why are your opening lines getting ignored? Simple: You’re failing to trigger an emotional response that makes her want to write you back.
If you already...
Lauren Keys is a Contributing Editor for DatingAdvice.com with over 9 years of writing experience with publications such as The New York Times, Gainesville Magazine and numerous other media outlets. Lauren focuses on telling the human side of the story when it comes to discussing all things dating. Her varied interests — from sci-fi to fitness to the Internet — keep her writing fresh and fun while informing DatingAdvice.com readers of the latest trends.
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The Short Version: Busy, professional men turn to Personal Dating Assistants as a solution to the typical online dating woes — it takes too much time for too little of a response from women. The company specializes in revamping your profile, sending personalized messages on your behalf, and getting you to real-world conversation and the first date. Outside of booking just a profile facelift, you can select the level...
As the founder of CDE Dating, bestselling author, and a certified dating and relationship coach, Julie has more than three decades of experience guiding singles through the ever-changing world of online dating. Julie has advised leading dating platforms, coached thousands of singles, and delivered keynote presentations at global conferences on the intersection of love and technology. Her expertise has been featured on Good Morning America, Access Hollywood, the Today Show, and in The New York Times, USA Today, The Wall Street Journal, and The Washington Post.
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When it comes to Tinder dating tips, I say don’t wait. Initiate. Besides just swiping right and relying on the other person to do the work, go for it and send the first message.
Don't limit your awesome opening lines just to Tinder. Try them out on as many free dating sites and apps as you can!
To ensure you get a positive response, here are 8 great Tinder pick up lines — guaranteed to up your...
Lauren Keys is a Contributing Editor for DatingAdvice.com with over 9 years of writing experience with publications such as The New York Times, Gainesville Magazine and numerous other media outlets. Lauren focuses on telling the human side of the story when it comes to discussing all things dating. Her varied interests — from sci-fi to fitness to the Internet — keep her writing fresh and fun while informing DatingAdvice.com readers of the latest trends.
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The Short Version: Being successful in online dating comes at a price — your time. From creating perfect profiles to engaging matches to securing a first date, the experts at Virtual Dating Assistants take care of everything, giving you peace of mind and more free time. In less than four months, nearly two-thirds of clients end up in serious relationships through the service.
Scott Valdez was disenchanted with...
Michelle Marchant Johnson is a writer, speaker and relationship coach who partners with single women who want to find love and romance. Go to www.lovelifecoaching.com to receive your complimentary "7 Attraction Principles" e-course, "Love Notes" newsletter and request a complimentary "Find Your Love" coaching session. Michelle found love at age 43 and is a breast cancer survivor who believes life is meant to be filled with love and passion.
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After a hiatus, you may be excited to start dating again, but it's also perfectly normal to experience some "pre-launch" anxiety. Getting back into the dating game can be intimidating, and it's not always clear where to begin. That's where our dating experts come in.
Here are 5 tips to get you started:
1. Consider What You Want to Get Out of Dating
You may want something entirely different now than you did...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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The Short Version: Whether you're stuck on what to say in your profile, are nervous about being single again after a breakup, or want help planning the all-important first date — A Little Nudge is here to give you the extra push you need to get over any online dating speed bump. Utilizing her expertise in online dating and finance, Founder Erika Ettin takes a relatable and mathematical approach — ensuring you're...
David Wygant is an internationally-renowned dating and relationship coach, author and speaker. To find out more about David and all of his dating and relationship-building products, visit www.davidwygant.com.
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Guys, today's dating world is set up for your success. With so many sites, apps, and social media networks to choose from, it's easier than ever to meet girls online and offline. Whether you’re looking for a date, hookup, relationship, or even marriage, you have plenty of options out there.
Thanks to online dating, single men can search for women based on their dating standards and start flirtatious conversations...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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In 2009, Julie Spira wrote The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online to help singles find love. Now the revised Kindle and audiobook version will include a happily-ever-after ending, just in time for Valentine’s Day.
Spira Adds Her Own Happy Ending to "The Perils of Cyber-Dating"
Julie Spira is a digital matchmaker and CEO of Cyber-Dating Expert®. She knows the ins and...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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The Short Version: From detailed profile writing to convenient date planning to one-on-one coaching, eFlirt's customized concierge services personalize the steps for every client to find dating success. Founded by Laurie Davis in 2009, eFlirt helps singles present their best digital selves, increase the quantity and, most importantly, quality of their dates, and find the relationship they've been looking for.
For...
Mason Glenn has had a long career in the matchmaking industry and has spent his time helping high-caliber clientele in Los Angeles select eligible matches. He specializes in working with gay men.
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These days, it's easier than ever to meet gay guys online. With the evolution of technology, social media, and online dating, we now have tons of options for finding potential suitors and the perfect match. And the most popular dating sites and apps have become go-to flirting zones.
We highly recommend using a dating platform to meet people and make a date with someone who's compatible with you.
Whether you're...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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The Short Version: David DeAngelo is your average guy who's figured out what genuinely works with women — no tricks, no games, no manipulation. Relatable and honest, David shares his everyday secrets with millions of single men through a series of helpful books, programs, articles, and videos on DoubleYourDating.com.
A lot of dating experts make outrageous claims — like they've been good with women since before...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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So, he's stopped texting you, and it's driving you crazy, huh? Been there. Look, being ghosted is never fun -- I think I checked my phone 300 times one day while waiting for a text I was pretty sure was never coming -- but it's not the end of the world. It may not even be the end of the relationship. You've just got to take a breath, set aside your insecurities and fears, and think about your options.
According to...
Kathy Belge is a freelance writer specializing in lesbian and LGBT issues. She is the author of Lipstick & Dipstick’s "Essential Guide to Lesbian Relationships" and "Queer: The Ultimate LGBT Guide for Teens". She writes a monthly lesbian advice column, Lipstick & Dipstick, for Curve magazine and is the guide to all things lesbian on About.com.
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Wondering how to meet lesbian singles? You're not alone. Many single women have been frustrated by the lack of lesbian bars, lesbian sites, lesbian speed dating, lesbian matchmakers, and the general lack of places to meet lesbian singles.
Sometimes the hardest part of lesbian dating is actually finding lesbian singles or queer women to date. Here are 5 great ways to start meeting local women:
1. Online...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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According to a 2014 Pew Research Center report, 74% of women aged 18 to 32 are single. If you ask us, that's too many 20-something single ladies out there who are in their dating prime yet haven't found someone special -- yet!
To help these women out, we've made a list of 9 easy and fun ways for them to meet guys in their 20s.
1. Online Dating Sites
When it comes to meeting quality single guys, there really...
Rachel Dack is a licensed clinical professional counselor (LCPC) and relationship coach specializing in individual and couples psychotherapy. Rachel's areas of expertise include relationships, dating, mindfulness, anxiety, depression and self-esteem.
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What do men want in a woman? You could spend your life in think tanks, therapy sessions, and dating seminars searching for the answer, but now you don't have to.
We did some digging and found 7 qualities that men want in a woman — all based on scientific research and what real guys have actually said. Click the links below to learn more about why men desire each characteristic.
Navigate...
Gina is the owner of Expert Online Dating. As an online dating consultant, she helps men and women maximize their online dating experiences to get more dates. You can visit her website, www.ExpertOnlineDating.com, for more information or to contact her.
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Say you’re ready to meet someone, but you're not quite sure how to find a girlfriend online. Fear not, that's what this guide is for. The online dating world is treacherous, but our dating experts have discovered its secrets and shortcuts, so you don't have to waste your time on dead-end dates anymore.
In this article, we'll take you through the 3 best online venues to meet a girl.
Dating Sites | Dating Apps |...
Debbie Weiss is writing a memoir and anti-advice manual about widowhood. She blogs at www.thehungoverwidow.com and on The Huffington Post. She’s been featured in xojane, Better After Fifty, and The Erma Bombeck Humor Writer’s Workshop.
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A study by the University of South Florida suggests the ideal time to meet your online date in person is between 17 and 23 days after the first message is sent. This survey of 433 online daters showed the longer people waited to meet, the more likely they were to feel let down by the first date.
Online dating is an expectations game, and it's not a good move to let that spark fizzle and fade before you've even met...
David Wygant is an internationally-renowned dating and relationship coach, author and speaker. To find out more about David and all of his dating and relationship-building products, visit www.davidwygant.com.
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When I was 23, my friend taught me one of life's greatest lessons: Older women make decisions fast. It was this that led to my first experience with an older woman. She'd come to the beach for the weekend for the same reason I had: to get laid and have fun. We literally talked for 20 minutes and then went and had sex.
Really the #1 tip is to know where to meet these women. You'll find 100s of older, attractive,...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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Scorpios are known for being mysterious, sexy, and feisty, but beyond that, they can be hard to figure out, especially when it comes to dating. Born between Oct. 23 and Nov. 21, some famous Scorpio men include Leonardo DiCaprio, Ryan Gosling, and Matthew McConaughey.
(Tip: If you're a Libra, Leo, or Gemini, you might want to try another sign. Our expert-approved dating sites can help with that.)
While your...
Michelle Marchant Johnson is a writer, speaker and relationship coach who partners with single women who want to find love and romance. Go to www.lovelifecoaching.com to receive your complimentary "7 Attraction Principles" e-course, "Love Notes" newsletter and request a complimentary "Find Your Love" coaching session. Michelle found love at age 43 and is a breast cancer survivor who believes life is meant to be filled with love and passion.
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There’s no doubt that attraction, chemistry, and even love can strike two seemingly incompatible people. From the outside looking in, it can sometimes be baffling.
The so-called May to December romance in particular often raises eyebrows. Besides the obvious jail-bait issue, many people wonder how many years they can rob the cradle by and still face the light of day.
We're here to help you figure out just how young...
Hayley has over 10 years of experience overseeing content strategy, social media engagement, and article opportunities. She has also written hundreds of informational and entertaining blog posts. Her work has appeared in numerous publications, including Bustle, Cosmo, the Huffington Post, AskMen, and Entrepreneur. When she's not writing about dating news, relationship advice, or her fantasy love affair with Leonardo DiCaprio, she enjoys listening to The Beatles, watching Harry Potter reruns, and drinking IPAs.
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There are literally thousands of free online dating games out there, but we've made it easy on you by narrowing down the 40 best and dividing them into 8 different categories.
When the games aren't cutting it anymore, our 10 best online dating sites will help you find someone special in real life.
Navigate This Article:
Best...
Mary G. Malia, founder of Gay Girl Dating Coach, is a certified singles coach, strategic intervention coach and author of the book "The Gay Girl’s Guide to Avoid the 14 Dating Traps." She’s known as the leading resource and expert for lesbians who want to move past the barriers to finding love and lasting relationships.
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There’s a right way and a wrong way to start dating and begin a relationship. Here are my top 9 must-know rules for doing it the RIGHT way. These rules will make your life better and happier — and make dating a lot less crazy!
9. End One Relationship Before Beginning Another
In other words, be really single — not just almost single but completely single. It’s more common to see “separated” in online dating these...
Amie Leadingham is a Master Certified Relationship Coach. Her mission is to empower singles to heal, build self-confidence, and find a loving, genuine connection through conscious dating. Amie has been recognized as one of LA’s Best Dating Coaches and has been featured in a variety of media outlets, including the CBS Network, ABC News, LA Times, People Magazine, Oprah Daily, Cosmopolitan, InStyle, and BRIDES. Visit her at www.AmieTheDatingCoach.com.
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Let me be the first to admit that I had a “dating type” for most of my adult life. The fact is most of you reading this will say you have some kind of type (i.e., tall, dark and handsome). Looking for a partner who has qualities you want is not terrible, but relying on your type to guide you in your dating life is problematic.
If you are truly looking for a quality long-term relationship, here are 5 reasons why you...
Rachel Dack is a licensed clinical professional counselor (LCPC) and relationship coach specializing in individual and couples psychotherapy. Rachel's areas of expertise include relationships, dating, mindfulness, anxiety, depression and self-esteem.
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My previous article
discussed five signs that you are an unavailable dater. These include:
A perception that there are no available men or all of the “good guys” are taken
A lack of interest in men who treat you right
A disconnect between your actions and values about dating
A lack of effort and time for dating
A persistent fear that holds you back from connecting with men
To determine what might be...
With experience covering all things related to the dating world, I have produced content for sites like Elite Daily and The Lala. While a majority of my time is spent as an editorial assistant writing articles and transcribing interviews, you can also find me in the gym, listening to Drake or at a hipster coffee shop.
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Nips and butts and privates, oh my.
These are a few of the wonderful things that get thrown into the public eye (literally, sometimes) when Hollywood stars' outfits go wrong.
Whether the dress is too tight, the leg slit is a little too high up or even if someone accidentally rips off a part of the outfit, wardrobe malfunctions come in all shapes and sizes. Cough cough, Janet Jackson and Justin Timberlake during...
Thomas Edwards is the founder of The Professional Wingman, a social strategy consultancy with a focus on helping professional, single men develop better social skills to improve their lifestyle and romantic relationships with women. A leading expert in dating and lifestyle development, peers, colleagues and media have deemed him the "real-life Hitch." Thomas' knowledge and unique approach have received attention from more than 300 media outlets, including features in Men's Health, the Wall Street Journal, Cosmopolitan, Playboy, the New York Times, People and MTV.
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So you made it through the first date. You two had an awesome time and maybe even shared a kiss at the end of the night. Overall, all is good in the world.
So how do you make sure you get that second date?
One of the biggest things that can derail your momentum with a potential relationship is waiting too long to follow up (you do follow up, right?) or doing the wrong thing. It's easy to let the nerves or the...
As the founder of CDE Dating, bestselling author, and a certified dating and relationship coach, Julie has more than three decades of experience guiding singles through the ever-changing world of online dating. Julie has advised leading dating platforms, coached thousands of singles, and delivered keynote presentations at global conferences on the intersection of love and technology. Her expertise has been featured on Good Morning America, Access Hollywood, the Today Show, and in The New York Times, USA Today, The Wall Street Journal, and The Washington Post.
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While it seems the whole world is swiping right and left on Tinder or finding love on Match.com and eHarmony, believe it or not, every day singles come to me to tell me they’re going to try online dating for the first time.
Nine times out of 10, they are nervous and hesitant about the whole thing.
From thinking they’ll only meet creepy guys, ones who want to hook up, to wondering how much they’ll really weigh, some...
With experience covering all things related to the dating world, I have produced content for sites like Elite Daily and The Lala. While a majority of my time is spent as an editorial assistant writing articles and transcribing interviews, you can also find me in the gym, listening to Drake or at a hipster coffee shop.
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Too often we have the thought, "I wish old-fashioned dating still existed."
It's sad that the modern-day dating world has evolved into a cyberspace platform of emojis, sexting and passive aggressive tweets, although the growth of technology alone cannot explain the transformation of our romantic lives.
Comedian Aziz Ansari took a special interest in this idea and other aspects of our contemporary love lives, and...
Gina is the owner of Expert Online Dating. As an online dating consultant, she helps men and women maximize their online dating experiences to get more dates. You can visit her website, www.ExpertOnlineDating.com, for more information or to contact her.
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Rejection and online dating. Those are two terms that are pretty much synonymous.
I have been the culprit in rejecting many online dates. I have also been the victim, the one left rejected, confused and staring at my screen wondering what happened. Many times people I was interested in totally just dropped communication, even when I thought things were going fine.
I never get upset about it, though. Am I...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.