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Amber Brooks,Editor-in-Chief
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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Lillian Castro
Lillian Castro,Senior Editor
Lillian Guevara-Castro brings more than 30 years of journalism experience to ensure DatingAdvice articles have been edited for overall clarity, accuracy, and reader engagement. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, The Gwinnett Daily News, and The Gainesville Sun covering lifestyle topics.
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Online dating places a large and accessible pool of daters at our fingertips. While you can receive messages from all sorts of people, finding the right match is a different story. If you need help adjusting your online dating game, look to our articles below.
Knowing how to date online properly can transform your experience tremendously. And we give you the tips to stand out, so you can avoid being a tiny needle in a massive haystack.
Our articles focus on tips and strategies that daters can leverage to find the right connections online, from building an authentic dating profile to recognizing compatibility.
We aren’t biased or anything. But we offer the best advice on this side of the internet to help any dater feel more confident in today’s fast-paced online dating environment because that’s how we designed our content.
Our content covers a wide range of topics, from writing the perfect conversation starter to setting healthy boundaries. You’ll read about dating safety, compatibility, and red flag awareness, so you can avoid any approaching pitfalls.
Our experts teach you how to break the ice and get to that first date, so you won’t be left swiping endlessly. Maximize your online dating experience and find the right matches with these guides.
Doc Love coached men for over 30 years after interviewing thousands of women in his lifetime asking them why they chose one man versus another. What Doc learned directly from women he then taught to men. Doc was a prolific writer and created a lot of timeless dating content for his team to continue sharing his message. Singles can also get additional coaching via his still active blog and podcast at www.doclove.com/blog and www.datingwomenpodcast.com. For more tips visit his official site www.doclove.com.
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As a men’s dating expert, I receive plenty of inquiries and questions from men who want to date better and figure out what’s going on in their dating lives. I enjoy having conversations with single men and helping them figure out things they may not have realized before. Here’s an example of a letter and response I received from a guy who had no idea why his girl was dating other men. Check it out!
When Some Other...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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Diaries used to be the holders of your most pressing ponderings. Today, it’s your search history. If you’re anything like me, the moment you have a question or something you’re not sure about, you’re opening your phone and lobbing that question to Google. This continues to be the case when it comes to romance and relationships.
The internet is now our go-to source for insights, advice, and knowledge about...
Hunt Ethridge is an award-winning dating and relationship expert with 15+ years of experience helping singles and couples build meaningful connections. Founder of the International Dating Coach Association, he’s been featured in Men’s Health, CNN, and Fox News and named one of the “Top 10 Most Influential Dating Experts.” Hunt has coached thousands worldwide, blending science-based strategies with practical advice to boost confidence, improve communication, and create lasting relationships.
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While we can alter and improve almost every aspect of ourselves, the one thing we’re pretty stuck with is our height. And the media doesn’t help with its depiction of the ideal man as “tall, dark, and handsome.”
Even small male actors like Tom Cruise and Daniel Radcliffe are presented as tall. Tom Cruise’s 5-foot-7-inches frame appears scaled up to look much more prominent in his action movies. But a real-life man...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Alyssa Dineen created Style My Profile to help divorced midlife daters have fun and find success in online dating. From creating an account to actually planning a date, the complexities of online dating can be overwhelming and confusing for people who aren’t familiar with navigating digital connections. Style My Profile is a dating concierge service tailored to the needs of divorced midlife daters,...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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I lived in Florida for a little while. When I first moved there, a friend who grew up in Tampa Bay told me tall tales about pirates on horses, parades, and a road called Bayshore (AKA Gasparilla).
That’s when I knew I was in for a wild ride. People say a lot of different things about Florida, but Floridians know there’s something special about the state that can’t be found anywhere else.
Florida is a...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: First Date Stories shows single midlife women that where they are in their lives is just right. Jodi Klein is the author and host of the book, podcast, and blog that make up First Date Stories. Jodi collects and shares the stories of real women navigating dating and romance in their 30s, 40s, 50s, and beyond to support other women like them. While dating in midlife can have its challenges, Jodi is...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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Most anthropologists agree that humans started wearing some sort of habitual clothing at some point between 83,000 and 170,000 years ago. Clothing is distinctly human, and the importance of clothing extends into our romantic lives in a big way.
Try to remember the last time you got dressed for a first date. Pretty stressful, right? Now, remember the first thing you noticed about your date. Was it what...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Matchmakers take the guesswork out of dating and give singles access to professional advice and guidance that makes finding love easier. Selective Search is a leader in the industry with over 4,000 in-house matches. The Chicago-based firm provides luxury and bespoke matchmaking services to singles across the United States. Vice President Lisa Hutcherson talked to us about Selective Search’s...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: The Social is a Denver-based matchmaking service that’s been matching Colorado’s most eligible singles since 2020. Abby Rosenblum is the founder and lead matchmaker for The Social. She started the business after years of playing matchmaker for her friends. The Social offers traditional matchmaking for men, plus dating coaching and in-person singles events. With a hands-on touch and in-depth...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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Single people in their 50s and beyond make up a unique portion of the dating field. Separated from other dating demographics by their distinct dating goals and ways of navigating romance, senior singles have a lot to enjoy in the dating field. Seniors can have a dating experience removed from some of the concerns their younger single counterparts face, like the pressure to make big commitments or know if they want...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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Let me guess: You’re hoping to ring in the New Year with a healthier body, a cooler wardrobe, or a more positive outlook on life. Don’t get me wrong — these are honorable aspirations to have (“health is wealth,” “look good, feel good” — we all know these to be true). But perhaps what you could really use an extra dose of in 2024 is rizz. For those of you who aren’t familiar with the term, it’s a Gen Z way of...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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If you’re single, you’re in a great spot to dedicate some time to improving yourself. These blogs all focus on topics relevant to single folks who are ready to date again. They address issues ranging from date night ideas to advice for dealing with rejection. The blogs help readers understand all the nuances of single life with an understanding tone and practical advice.
As wonderful as it is to date and have a...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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Remember when we used to meet people by joining book clubs and joining Tuesday night bowling leagues? Yeah, me neither. And we’ve got technology to thank for it.
Since the introduction of the internet, social networks, and, eventually, dating apps, the way we connect with our fellow humans has been completely transformed. Coffee shop run-ins, house party hookups, and flirty cocktail bar encounters have...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Singles Travel International is a travel agency dedicated to bringing groups of senior singles on fabulous vacations. Traveling solo can be challenging, ostracizing, and sometimes unsafe. Singles Travel International gives singles over the age of 50 the opportunity to experience getaways to the fullest. Singles tours range from Caribbean cruises to expeditions to Antarctica and the Galapagos. With...
Over the last 10 years, Karen Belz has written for dating and lifestyle sites such as Zoosk, Bolde, and Elite Singles. She started her career as a professional writer by helping launch HelloGiggles in 2011. Karen graduated from Millersville University of Pennsylvania, majoring in Broadcasting with a minor in Print Media Studies. She is now happily married and believes that healthy communication is the key to all successful relationships. You can follow her on Threads @karenbelz.
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I still remember one of the first dates I met on a dating site. We clicked online, but something seemed off in person. Despite the fact that my profile openly stated that I was 5 feet 10 inches tall, I don't think that my date — who seemed a bit shorter than his profile stated — thought I was being serious. That was the moment I learned that tall girls often have another obstacle on dating websites compared to...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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Dating in New York City has long had a rep for being a little tricky. While there are a lot of different hypotheses as to why dating in the Big Apple is so hard, one seems to garner seemingly unanimous agreement.
There’s just so many people!
Almost 8.5 million people live in New York City. If just one-fifth of that population is dating, singles have a dating pool that’s swimming with over 1 million singles....
Hunt Ethridge is an award-winning dating and relationship expert with 15+ years of experience helping singles and couples build meaningful connections. Founder of the International Dating Coach Association, he’s been featured in Men’s Health, CNN, and Fox News and named one of the “Top 10 Most Influential Dating Experts.” Hunt has coached thousands worldwide, blending science-based strategies with practical advice to boost confidence, improve communication, and create lasting relationships.
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Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider wrote a dating advice book called "The Rules” in 1995 to discuss the dating norms of the day. The book promoted a slower, more traditional way for women to date. The authors claimed women using their tips would have men ready to say, “I do!”
"The Rules" sold 2 million copies, and Oprah featured its teachings as a new movement in the dating world. The detractors called the book...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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Dating itself can be hard for anyone to navigate. Online dating? That’s another conversation entirely. Dating apps and sites have become the norm for meeting new people over the past decade, but many see it as more of a necessary evil.
Gone are the days of meeting a partner “in the wild” because love now seems to start with a swipe. If you’re someone who finds online dating to be a battlefield, fear not...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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Big into math? I have good news and bad news. The bad news is that there isn’t a magical formula that will guarantee you the perfect match – or even the perfect date. (Is there such a thing, anyway?). But, the good news is some pretty cut and dried dating rules can help singles optimize their chances of success.
Take heed of these tips on what to avoid as you embark on your online dating voyage. If you...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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You may want to seek a partner in the top 1% of wealth for many reasons. Maybe you’ve got a thing for big boats. Maybe you’re in the 1% yourself and want a partner to match your energy. Or perhaps you simply want access to a higher quality of life and all that comes with it: financial security, better healthcare, networking opportunities — the list goes on.
Is seeking this kind of relationship really the...
Over the last 10 years, Karen Belz has written for dating and lifestyle sites such as Zoosk, Bolde, and Elite Singles. She started her career as a professional writer by helping launch HelloGiggles in 2011. Karen graduated from Millersville University of Pennsylvania, majoring in Broadcasting with a minor in Print Media Studies. She is now happily married and believes that healthy communication is the key to all successful relationships. You can follow her on Threads @karenbelz.
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While it's always fun to vacation with a partner or a group of friends, many single women today are opting to travel by themselves. In doing so, they're realizing that it's an experience like no other.
Women who travel solo can ensure they see the sights they want when they want to see them — without having to poll a group. Traveling solo is also a great way to feel in control, learn how to enjoy quality...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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When a person who identifies as part of the LGBTQ+ community feels like they need help in the dating department, finding expert resources that are geared toward them and their experiences is important. Being lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans, or queer deeply influences how a person navigates the world around them. They need dating and relationship resources that understand the queer perspective.
These queer dating...
Doc Love coached men for over 30 years after interviewing thousands of women in his lifetime asking them why they chose one man versus another. What Doc learned directly from women he then taught to men. Doc was a prolific writer and created a lot of timeless dating content for his team to continue sharing his message. Singles can also get additional coaching via his still active blog and podcast at www.doclove.com/blog and www.datingwomenpodcast.com. For more tips visit his official site www.doclove.com.
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I'm going to start in a positive way. Dating at work has some pros, despite the challenges it also poses, and it could be the right decision if you meet the right person – in the right circumstance.
Let’s go over the pros and cons of dating at work so you know what you’re getting into before you ask a colleague on a date.
PRO #1: You Start With Something in Common
Coworkers develop a sense of familiarity...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Penny Thornton is an astrologer who writes weekly forecasts, compatibility reports, and more on her website, Astrolutely. Penny is a classically trained astrologer who has worked in various astrology spaces, from writing columns to doing readings for Princess Diana. She’s also written several books and is a longtime astrology educator. Penny told us daters and couples can use Astrolutely’s...
Over the last 10 years, Karen Belz has written for dating and lifestyle sites such as Zoosk, Bolde, and Elite Singles. She started her career as a professional writer by helping launch HelloGiggles in 2011. Karen graduated from Millersville University of Pennsylvania, majoring in Broadcasting with a minor in Print Media Studies. She is now happily married and believes that healthy communication is the key to all successful relationships. You can follow her on Threads @karenbelz.
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The internet has helped change the way people talk to each other — especially when it comes to dating. But, one thing that might take you aback is the fact that just like language in general, online jargon is always changing.
The good part about these new linguistic shortcuts is that they're usually pretty easy to pick up on once you've identified them — and once you're more experienced with the world of...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Evan Marc Katz is a dating coach who has been helping strong, successful, and intelligent women find the quality men they deserve since 2003. Evan’s dating coaching focuses on identifying the important standards in relationships, brainstorming where and how to meet good men, and helping women understand how men behave. Through his acclaimed Love U program, single women can regain confidence,...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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You know how, when you have an argument with someone and three days later while you’re doom scrolling or walking the dog or unpacking your groceries, you come up with the perfect comeback to a point they made? Internet dating is kind of like that, except (hopefully) without the fighting.
Thanks to the technology used in dating platforms, we’re given the benefit of time and space when it comes to communicating...
Lexi joined the DatingAdvice team with several years of lifestyle journalism experience. She grew her writing prowess through reporting on the topic of sex and relationships, and she loves continuing to cover content in this niche while working toward becoming an AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator. You can find Lexi's writing in Refinery29, Cosmopolitan, Bustle, Well + Good, and Women's Health, among other publications.
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The Short Version: After years scouring dating apps and sites for an ideal match, singles may start to feel a little jaded or burned out with online dating. Fortunately dating expert Eddie Hernandez is here to help. As a professional photographer working for clients all over the world, Eddie knows a thing or two about the dating landscape — and how singles can find success navigating it. His tips for setting up a...
Doc Love coached men for over 30 years after interviewing thousands of women in his lifetime asking them why they chose one man versus another. What Doc learned directly from women he then taught to men. Doc was a prolific writer and created a lot of timeless dating content for his team to continue sharing his message. Singles can also get additional coaching via his still active blog and podcast at www.doclove.com/blog and www.datingwomenpodcast.com. For more tips visit his official site www.doclove.com.
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What is one of the defining behaviors of toddlers? Lack of impulse control. They want, so they grab. And that's okay because, well, they are toddlers. They don't know any better and need adults to guide them.
A mature man should know better. Yet some guys start acting like a toddler in their relationships. How does a person act like a toddler when it comes to dating and relationships? I believe there are...
Anggi Pradhini is a professional copywriter who creates unique and engaging content for DatingAdvice.com. As a former stockbroker, she is skilled at delivering rational, actionable advice to help singles in their love lives. Her work has appeared in Life Coach Magazine and DatingNews.com. She has also earned certifications through HubSpot Academy.
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The digital era has transformed how we live, including our quest to find love. More than half of Americans agreed in a Pew Research survey that a relationship that begins on a dating site or app is just as successful as those that begin in person.1
So if you’re single, it’s worth learning a bit about this new terrain.
Whether you’re a seasoned online dater or new to the game, you shouldn’t underestimate the...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
