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Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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Lillian Castro
Lillian Castro,Senior Editor
Lillian Guevara-Castro brings more than 30 years of journalism experience to ensure DatingAdvice articles have been edited for overall clarity, accuracy, and reader engagement. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, The Gwinnett Daily News, and The Gainesville Sun covering lifestyle topics.
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Online dating places a large and accessible pool of daters at our fingertips. While you can receive messages from all sorts of people, finding the right match is a different story. If you need help adjusting your online dating game, look to our articles below.
Knowing how to date online properly can transform your experience tremendously. And we give you the tips to stand out, so you can avoid being a tiny needle in a massive haystack.
Our articles focus on tips and strategies that daters can leverage to find the right connections online, from building an authentic dating profile to recognizing compatibility.
We aren’t biased or anything. But we offer the best advice on this side of the internet to help any dater feel more confident in today’s fast-paced online dating environment because that’s how we designed our content.
Our content covers a wide range of topics, from writing the perfect conversation starter to setting healthy boundaries. You’ll read about dating safety, compatibility, and red flag awareness, so you can avoid any approaching pitfalls.
Our experts teach you how to break the ice and get to that first date, so you won’t be left swiping endlessly. Maximize your online dating experience and find the right matches with these guides.
Hunt Ethridge is an award-winning dating and relationship expert with 15+ years of experience helping singles and couples build meaningful connections. Founder of the International Dating Coach Association, he’s been featured in Men’s Health, CNN, and Fox News and named one of the “Top 10 Most Influential Dating Experts.” Hunt has coached thousands worldwide, blending science-based strategies with practical advice to boost confidence, improve communication, and create lasting relationships.
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Dating is supposed to be fun!
I know it isn’t fun a lot of the time, but it’s supposed to be. And it’s totally up to us to make it fun. Of course, what is fun for men and what’s fun for women can vary vastly!
There are a whole host of ways that dating can seem a burden, and it’s only natural to be a little wary. If you are feeling jaded, or needy, that’s going to come out on a date, and the man is going to...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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The Short Version: International dating has grown over the years, increasing the number of couples who meet their significant others from all over the world. As more singles explore international dating, online dating apps have become more strategic in how they help their users achieve relationship success. CuteOnly is a leading international dating site that advises its members throughout their entire dating...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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Fun relationship quizzes can be a great tool for singles and couples alike. If you’re single, a relationship quiz can help you narrow down what you’re looking for and discover things about yourself to help you find a healthy relationship. For couples, relationship quizzes can make it easier to open up about issues in your partnership, help you spice up your sex life, or give you an idea on what next steps you’re...
Hunt Ethridge is an award-winning dating and relationship expert with 15+ years of experience helping singles and couples build meaningful connections. Founder of the International Dating Coach Association, he’s been featured in Men’s Health, CNN, and Fox News and named one of the “Top 10 Most Influential Dating Experts.” Hunt has coached thousands worldwide, blending science-based strategies with practical advice to boost confidence, improve communication, and create lasting relationships.
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Dating can be hard. Dating after not dating in a decade or more is even harder. And balancing mental health, family responsibilities, and a dating life when you’ve just gotten divorced can seem insurmountable.
Divorced people have so many emotions to process and new dating etiquette to understand, not to mention the life changes they've been through since they were last single. For many divorced men, those...
Sheena Holt comes to DatingAdvice with a BA in English and creative writing. Sheena's work has appeared in numerous literary and culture publications, including Lithium Magazine and Bayou Magazine. As Managing Editor for DatingAdvice.com, she has interviewed hundreds of dating professionals and relationship experts. Sheena also enjoys writing long-form fiction in her spare time to keep her storytelling skills sharp.
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The Short Version: Couples often struggle with the choice of a wedding venue — one of the most important and financially significant decisions leading up to the wedding. But envisioning what the experience at the location will be like on the day of the event is often difficult for couples to grasp. At Terrace On The Park in Queens, New York, couples don’t need to guess. Couples can attend their Fall showcase and...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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The Short Version: Finding a partner nowadays is not always easy on your own. To expedite the search process, singles can seek help from matchmakers who know a thing or two about finding true love. The South Carolina Matchmakers is a company of professional matchmakers whose mission is to find that special someone for their clients. South Carolina Matchmakers has been recognized as a leading company in the...
After two long-term relationships and five years of dating, Pamela Gort, The Lesbian Love Coach, spent years synthesizing the most effective and relevant dating and relationship practices into five easy steps called “Find Her and Keep Her" specifically tailored for lesbians. Using her warm, funny, direct coaching style, Pamela guides single lesbians to fall in love with themselves so they can attract and keep conscious, lasting, and loving relationships.
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Meeting lesbians online can be scary and intimidating. It can also be fun and exciting. Having confidence and taking the right approach will get you off on the right foot.
I am going to give you tips on how to start conversations with lesbians online so that you don’t look like a stalker, and they don’t feel threatened. This is for you if you are just coming out and want to connect with other lesbians online...
Sheena Holt comes to DatingAdvice with a BA in English and creative writing. Sheena's work has appeared in numerous literary and culture publications, including Lithium Magazine and Bayou Magazine. As Managing Editor for DatingAdvice.com, she has interviewed hundreds of dating professionals and relationship experts. Sheena also enjoys writing long-form fiction in her spare time to keep her storytelling skills sharp.
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The Short Version: While many singles are open to love, monolingualism may be holding them back. Learning a new language can broaden one’s ability to understand different cultures, travel the world, or even start a new relationship. With Lingoda Online Language School, learning a new language can fit into even the busiest schedules. Students can learn English, French, Spanish, and German with small group and...
Brian holds a doctorate degree in human sexuality from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, a master’s degree in clinical social work from Western Michigan University, and is a Board Certified Diplomate & Sexologist through the American Board of Sexology. He has been working in the field for more than 33 years as a private practice psychotherapist and runs an international coaching business for gay men that focuses on dating, relationships, and sexuality, and also has experience teaching in higher education. He is a member of the National Association of Social Workers, Relationship Coaching Institute, The International Association of Coaches, and The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists.
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In a merciless gay community where you’re labeled “over the hill” after the age of 30 (and even younger in some circles!), it can be extremely challenging for those single gay men in midlife and beyond who are serious about dating to find quality partners who are also seeking a serious relationship.
Gay dating culture is overdue for a radical makeover. Many gay singles need to stop glamorizing youth and holding...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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The Short Version: Apart from your mom and friends who try to find dates for you without your permission, matchmakers do a great job of matching people up. Matchmakers assist singles in their dating lives from the very beginning advising them on everything from who to date to how to date. As one of the top matchmaking services in the New York and Los Angeles area, Samantha’s Table offers people personalized matches...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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The Short Version: Relationship coach and dating expert Doc Love dedicated his life to uplifting single men and advising them on how to become the best version of themselves. Now nearly two years since he passed away, the Doc Love name continues to inspire modern singles and couples who need relationship advice. Thanks to his library of archived guidance, his work remains impactful and relevant to today’s single men....
As the founder of CDE Dating, bestselling author, and a certified dating and relationship coach, Julie has more than three decades of experience guiding singles through the ever-changing world of online dating. Julie has advised leading dating platforms, coached thousands of singles, and delivered keynote presentations at global conferences on the intersection of love and technology. Her expertise has been featured on Good Morning America, Access Hollywood, the Today Show, and in The New York Times, USA Today, The Wall Street Journal, and The Washington Post.
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Dating online affords you the wonderful opportunity of casting a very wide net. By simply changing your ZIP code or being open to the possibility of meeting a potential partner who resides in another continent, true love can be found across town or across the world.
So what happens when you finally connect with a person who lives out of town, out of state or out of the country? Can you really fall in love and manage...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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Dating is difficult for everyone, but straight men face a unique challenge when it comes to finding the right person. They don’t want to ruin their chances before they even get them by coming across as “creepy” or off-putting. The fear of scaring off potential dates is paralyzing perfectly eligible single men.
Many men are worried about coming across as creepy, and they can let it impact how they interact with...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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The Short Version: It takes a lot of strength to get back into the dating scene after feeling burnt out. From what to say to who to date, singles can get caught up trying to figure out the whole dating scene alone. That’s why having a dating expert by your side is helpful. Match Chief Dating Expert Rachel DeAlto shares resourceful tips on the dating app Match on how to avoid burnout and start dating in a new and...
As the founder of CDE Dating, bestselling author, and a certified dating and relationship coach, Julie has more than three decades of experience guiding singles through the ever-changing world of online dating. Julie has advised leading dating platforms, coached thousands of singles, and delivered keynote presentations at global conferences on the intersection of love and technology. Her expertise has been featured on Good Morning America, Access Hollywood, the Today Show, and in The New York Times, USA Today, The Wall Street Journal, and The Washington Post.
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The dog days of summer have arrived, and people are seeing heatwaves across the U.S. (Death Valley just broke a record!). That means dating singles are looking for summer love with some new rules in tow.
If your spring fling fizzled out, it’s time to go on a virtual or socially distanced summer dating spree, as the warmer weather is a welcome change for many.
So if you’re busy swiping on dating apps, remember the...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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The Short Version: It’s common to see singles nowadays using matchmaking services to find love. Dating is becoming more complicated and having someone right beside you throughout the process can make all the difference. Simona Fusco created the elite matchmaking company, Perfect12 Introductions, to do just that — help singles with their dating lives. Since 2011, Perfect12 Introductions has grown into an award-winning...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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The Short Version: Four out of five clients who work with Carolinas Matchmaker Laurie Berzack find a long-lasting partner. Laurie’s methods are effective because she uses her intuitive sense as a trained social worker to understand what makes singles tick. With Laurie on their side, clients save time sorting through unsuitable partners and have more time to connect with viable ones. She also offers dating coaching...
Never bored, Suzanne Wentley is a freelance writer, marketing professional, yoga teacher, energy worker, pet sitter, full-time traveling minimalist, and vegetarian. Her favorite dates include a creative cocktail (preferably made of local fruit and without a plastic straw), laughter, and a beautiful sunset over the sea. Her website is thelovelightproject.com.
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The Short Version: Men and women are very different, and many singles still struggle to understand the opposite sex in their quest to find love. The Great Love Debate creator aims to get everyone talking about their differences — and similarities. Relationships, sex, love, dating, and modern norms are all on the table for these interactive, town hall-style live events, and their accompanying podcast. Singles and...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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The Short Version: Singles are becoming more restless in their pursuit to find their true love, but they have options to help them avoid bad dates and dead ends. Thanks to matchmaker services like Select Date Society, singles don’t have to stress about figuring out the whole dating scene alone. Select Date Society is a matchmaking service that represents elite singles who are successful in almost every aspect of...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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The Short Version: Some women go through trial and error when searching for the one. For some singles, it can take years to find someone worthy of dating or, better yet, marrying. But certain strategies can speed things up, according to Certified Dating and Relationship Coach Megan Weks. Megan offers a digital course called Manfunnel that coaches women on how they too can find their happy endings without waiting...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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The Short Version: Nowadays trying to find true love is a challenge many eventually give up on. You have to slog through so many incompatible dates before finding your perfect match. But with the help from dating coaches and experts, your love search may not be as time consuming. As a strong advocate for love, Emyli Lovz has what it takes to help singles find exactly what they’re looking for in a partner. By...
Mason Glenn has had a long career in the matchmaking industry and has spent his time helping high-caliber clientele in Los Angeles select eligible matches. He specializes in working with gay men.
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Gay dating culture can be complex. As much as I would like to think that dating should be simple, it isn’t. My hope is that, as people become less enchanted with technology, the trajectory of dating a gay man will be a lot more direct. It will be less about veering into ghosting or misleading territory.
When I asked a couple of close friends about this topic, I got replies that seemed fairly comical. Among my...
Rachel Dack is a licensed clinical professional counselor (LCPC) and relationship coach specializing in individual and couples psychotherapy. Rachel's areas of expertise include relationships, dating, mindfulness, anxiety, depression and self-esteem.
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Do you find yourself wondering if your intelligence and drive are interfering with men finding you attractive? Do you worry if you are too intimidating or too successful to meet the type of guy you are looking for? Do you want to know how to balance your educational and career goals with your goals for love, romance, and a serious relationship?
If you are a successful, independent, strong, and intelligent woman...
Never bored, Suzanne Wentley is a freelance writer, marketing professional, yoga teacher, energy worker, pet sitter, full-time traveling minimalist, and vegetarian. Her favorite dates include a creative cocktail (preferably made of local fruit and without a plastic straw), laughter, and a beautiful sunset over the sea. Her website is thelovelightproject.com.
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The Short Version: An experienced matchmaker is a worthwhile investment for singles who are short on time, ready for love, and understand the value of working with a professional. The experts at the Maclynn International matchmaking firm understand the importance of their role. They focus on creating a strong team and cultivating an extensive network to find compatible matches for their clients. The firm’s in-depth...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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The Short Version: As if it weren’t already hard enough to find love these days, the 2020 pandemic has brought on a whole new level of complexities. Falling in love during COVID-19 may be challenging, but matchmaking expert and H4M owner Tammy Shaklee says it’s not impossible. Through her extensive experience, Tammy and the H4M team have discovered new ways to support LGBTQ+ singles who are dating with confidence and...
After two long-term relationships and five years of dating, Pamela Gort, The Lesbian Love Coach, spent years synthesizing the most effective and relevant dating and relationship practices into five easy steps called “Find Her and Keep Her" specifically tailored for lesbians. Using her warm, funny, direct coaching style, Pamela guides single lesbians to fall in love with themselves so they can attract and keep conscious, lasting, and loving relationships.
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There are so many ways to break the ice with a woman who captures your attention. First let me ask – how committed are you to finding love or at least getting some dates? If you are committed, then using these messaging tips will help you find better matches through a dating app’s algorithms and your organic messaging.
The most critical step is to be active on lesbian dating apps once you’ve started...
As the founder of CDE Dating, bestselling author, and a certified dating and relationship coach, Julie has more than three decades of experience guiding singles through the ever-changing world of online dating. Julie has advised leading dating platforms, coached thousands of singles, and delivered keynote presentations at global conferences on the intersection of love and technology. Her expertise has been featured on Good Morning America, Access Hollywood, the Today Show, and in The New York Times, USA Today, The Wall Street Journal, and The Washington Post.
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If you're still on the fence about joining an online dating site or installing a dating app on your mobile phone, let me assure you there's never been a better time to join the world's largest digital love fest and start swiping.
The month of January and through mid-February is the most active time for new online dating sign-ups. It's peak season, so you may find yourself lucky in love by Valentine's Day if you get...
Never bored, Suzanne Wentley is a freelance writer, marketing professional, yoga teacher, energy worker, pet sitter, full-time traveling minimalist, and vegetarian. Her favorite dates include a creative cocktail (preferably made of local fruit and without a plastic straw), laughter, and a beautiful sunset over the sea. Her website is thelovelightproject.com.
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The Short Version: Spiritual teacher Ram Dass famously said, “If you think you are enlightened, go home and spend a week with your family.” That’s especially true for those who identify as LGBTQIA+ or consider themselves allies and want to show their support. That’s why we spoke with influencer Mathew Boudreaux, who goes by Mister Domestic on TikTok, YouTube, and Instagram, to get some tips to help make this holiday...
Jess O’Reilly (@SexWithDrJess) is a dating and relationship expert & the author of five books.
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We’ve seen so many shifts in dating, sex, and relationships over the past year, and I hope some of them are here to stay.
The dating app Plenty of Fish recently released its annual list of Dating Trends, in which it polls nearly 6,700 singles to better understand how the pandemic continues to impact their dating lives and what’s ahead in dating in 2022.
Nearly 6,700 U.S.-based Plenty of Fish users were polled...
Mason Glenn has had a long career in the matchmaking industry and has spent his time helping high-caliber clientele in Los Angeles select eligible matches. He specializes in working with gay men.
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Before you know it, your favorite radio station has started to play your favorite holiday songs. Your favorite store is packed with stocking stuffers and merry decorations. Maybe your parents or close friends are begging you to finalize your holiday plans with them.
The holidays have a rhythm that feels very different than the rest of the year. We become enveloped in social activities, family traditions, and...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.