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Amber Brooks
Amber Brooks,Editor-in-Chief
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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Lillian Castro
Lillian Castro,Senior Editor
Lillian Guevara-Castro brings more than 30 years of journalism experience to ensure DatingAdvice articles have been edited for overall clarity, accuracy, and reader engagement. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, The Gwinnett Daily News, and The Gainesville Sun covering lifestyle topics.
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Online dating places a large and accessible pool of daters at our fingertips. While you can receive messages from all sorts of people, finding the right match is a different story. If you need help adjusting your online dating game, look to our articles below.
Knowing how to date online properly can transform your experience tremendously. And we give you the tips to stand out, so you can avoid being a tiny needle in a massive haystack.
Our articles focus on tips and strategies that daters can leverage to find the right connections online, from building an authentic dating profile to recognizing compatibility.
We aren’t biased or anything. But we offer the best advice on this side of the internet to help any dater feel more confident in today’s fast-paced online dating environment because that’s how we designed our content.
Our content covers a wide range of topics, from writing the perfect conversation starter to setting healthy boundaries. You’ll read about dating safety, compatibility, and red flag awareness, so you can avoid any approaching pitfalls.
Our experts teach you how to break the ice and get to that first date, so you won’t be left swiping endlessly. Maximize your online dating experience and find the right matches with these guides.
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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When something is described as heteronormative, it means heterosexuality is the expected or preferred way of being. It assumes that being “hetero” is the “normal” way for humans to be, and a lot of Western society has been built around this idea.
We can find heteronormativity in pretty much every aspect of our culture, from TV shows and social media to healthcare and the legal system.
Think about the most...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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People choose to live a sober lifestyle for a variety of reasons. Sobriety can help individuals reach clarity and work on self-improvement without being hampered by addiction. The term “boysober” is a new trend where singles are redefining self-care and taking control of their dating life.
Boysober means choosing to not date boys and instead focusing on a celibate life of self-discovery.
It’s important now...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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The Short Version: The dating world is full of options, but not always opportunities. That’s where professional matchmakers like those at Executive Connections Dating come in to help singles turn their love lives around. The matchmakers pair singles up on real-life dates that cut through the noise and allow two people to get to know each other and form a relationship.
“The Search Ends Here.” These are the words...
Jules Chen is a Texas-based writer who has been featured on feminist blogs and lifestyle magazines. She graduated from Emory University with dual degrees in English Literature and Chinese Studies. She has served as the managing editor of Lithium Magazine where she worked with a talented team of writers covering lifestyle and pop culture. Her lifestyle writing has been published at Betches, TimeOut, Adolescent Content, and Niche, Inc.
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Endless swiping on dating apps can burn single people out real quick. You're seeing a lot of profiles but never any matches – what gives?
Perhaps it's the free basic plan tripping you up with its limited options. A paid membership can offer a quick upgrade to a better experience. You are able to both narrow down your pool of potential partners and stand out to others. In a world full of options, any leg up...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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There is no “right” or “wrong” way to find love, as long as you enjoy the process and fall in love with its results. Online dating can get tiring when you’re looking for serious commitment, but all you can find is unserious people.
Matchmaking is one way to skirt the most unpleasant aspects of online dating, while still enjoying the best parts. Many young South Asian Americans don’t want a matchmaking...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: If dating has been no fun recently, I have good news: taking a break is going to be way more fun. We talked to dating coach Blaine Anderson, who specializes in helping men level up their dating game, about how investing in yourself is the first step in an expert dating strategy.
If you’ve ever been knee-deep in dating and said to yourself, “Isn’t this supposed to be fun?” — you’re...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Serious people don’t have time for unserious dating. We talked to one of LA’s top matchmakers, Maria Silba, about her curated process, which has been tailored for successful professionals who are searching for authentic partnerships.
When you’re looking for a matchmaker, you need to consider a few important factors. You need to think about the interpersonal angle and search for a matchmaker...
Jules Chen is a Texas-based writer who has been featured on feminist blogs and lifestyle magazines. She graduated from Emory University with dual degrees in English Literature and Chinese Studies. She has served as the managing editor of Lithium Magazine where she worked with a talented team of writers covering lifestyle and pop culture. Her lifestyle writing has been published at Betches, TimeOut, Adolescent Content, and Niche, Inc.
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When I run into an unfamiliar term or phrase on a dating app profile, I look the term up before I swipe right. I think it’s important to learn about the different ways people identify and the different types of relationships on offer.
In the context of dating, the term “fluid” can refer to a person’s sexual orientation, gender identity, or approach to relationships.
Being fluid, by definition, means not...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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As someone with parents in their 50s, I spend a good amount of time during Thanksgivings, Christmases, and family vacations looking at the happily married couple walking hand in hand in front of me. And I can’t help but think they have no idea how lucky they are.
Yes, because they found each other, and yes, because they fall more and more in love with each other every day — but also because they didn’t date...
Emma has been a professional writer for nearly a decade now. She has a degree in English and Creative Writing from Fredonia State University. Her background in satirical journalism and human interest content helps her approach the dating world with humor and heart. She has gotten her byline featured on Tasting Table, Boredom Therapy, Her Moments, and Eternally Sunny, among other media outlets.
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The Short Version: To find truly compatible matches, matchmakers need to know their clients inside and out. Julia Bendis of Match by Julia does this with the help of numerology and humor. By calculating the numbers that make up birth dates and picking up on numerical patterns, Julia can uncover a client’s true personality and put them on the best path to romance — with a laugh to boot.
What if your birthdate...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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The Short Version: Finding a date isn’t as difficult as it used to be. While online dating is an incredible dating resource, it can be a bit tricky to navigate sometimes. Platforms such as Chi Rho Dating provide insight and helpful dating tips for singles seeking a true connection. Chi Rho Dating has all sorts of newsletters, guides, and fun content to connect with its audience and change the way people...
Emma has been a professional writer for nearly a decade now. She has a degree in English and Creative Writing from Fredonia State University. Her background in satirical journalism and human interest content helps her approach the dating world with humor and heart. She has gotten her byline featured on Tasting Table, Boredom Therapy, Her Moments, and Eternally Sunny, among other media outlets.
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Someone ought to tell Hollywood executives that love stories can, in fact, unfold in cities other than New York or L.A. At this very moment, farmers and teachers and plumbers and cashiers and factory workers are falling in love with each other in places like Indiana and Michigan and Ohio. In short, you can just as easily fall in love in the Midwest as on the coasts. But if you’re starting to find that it isn’t as...
Over the last 10 years, Karen Belz has written for dating and lifestyle sites such as Zoosk, Bolde, and Elite Singles. She started her career as a professional writer by helping launch HelloGiggles in 2011. Karen graduated from Millersville University of Pennsylvania, majoring in Broadcasting with a minor in Print Media Studies. She is now happily married and believes that healthy communication is the key to all successful relationships. You can follow her on Threads @karenbelz.
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The Short Version: Burned out by online dating? You're not alone. While dating sites are still quite a popular choice for those looking to find love, many people seek alternative methods — like hiring professional matchmaker Allie Leilani — to meet their soulmate.
Some people have very clear ideas about where they want their careers to go, and they pursue those goals single-mindedly. The rest of us are pretty...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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Millennials make up a unique population of the dating scene. You’ve been around long enough to remember the explosion of dating apps and every change that’s come in pop culture, technology, and the world of romance since. You can also remember a time before dating felt like it happened mostly online.
Life looks a lot different from when you were a teenager, especially when it comes to dating. These experts...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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As young and often foolish 19-year-olds, my friends and I had a favorite dorm downtime activity. We would screencast one of our phones onto the TV, open Tinder, and get swiping. Call it shallow, call it childish, call it what you will – but it was fun.
Profile browsing is the act of viewing dating photos or bios on a dating platform.
This was a distinctly surface-level approach to swiping. We weren’t really...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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At this point, it’s clear that the dating zeitgeist has changed. You can’t walk into a coffee shop or partake in a people-watching session on the subway without spotting a single person swiping away on Tinder, Grindr, Match, eharmony, or another popular app.
Online dating is the widespread practice of searching for a romantic partner via a dedicated website or app.
And are we really surprised? These...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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A sugar momma is many things, but above all, she is a force to be reckoned with! The term sugar momma refers to a wealthy woman who buys gifts or pays an allowance to a younger person for his companionship on dates and/or in the bedroom.
Unfortunately, sugar mommas (and sugar relationships in general) aren’t always painted in a positive light. People often misjudge these relationships because of the age difference...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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The story of the word “queer” is one of vitriol, discrimination, and, eventually, redemption. Historically used as a derogatory way to refer to someone who is different or unconventional, the term has come to embody a group of people with non-heteronormative identities.
In short, the queer identity is a reclamation of power by those the term was originally meant to put down.
Identifying as “queer” means a...
Raegan blends her background studying science at the University of Florida with her love of writing to craft compelling and informative lifestyle content. Whether she is consulting peer-reviewed journal articles written by sexologists or interviewing everyday people about their dating experiences, Raegan is dedicated to bringing well-researched, engaging stories to readers. When not at her writing desk, she can be found immersed in a romance novel or scouring bakeries across the country in search of the perfect cronut.
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Consider this not-so-hypothetical scenario: You’re browsing on a dating app and come across someone who seems perfect. Their profile features stunning photos, interesting hobbies, and a witty bio that makes you smile. You swipe right and — yay! It’s a match.
When the initial excitement subsides, fear sets in. What now? What is the proper etiquette for messaging online? Should I message them first? Should I wait...
Raegan blends her background studying science at the University of Florida with her love of writing to craft compelling and informative lifestyle content. Whether she is consulting peer-reviewed journal articles written by sexologists or interviewing everyday people about their dating experiences, Raegan is dedicated to bringing well-researched, engaging stories to readers. When not at her writing desk, she can be found immersed in a romance novel or scouring bakeries across the country in search of the perfect cronut.
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In today’s digital world, connecting with like-minded singles is easier than ever. A Pew Research survey found 40% of people said they believe websites and apps have made it easier to date. I certainly count myself among them!
I know of many couples who met through an app (shoutout to Hinge) and have swiping right to thank for their relationship or marriage. It’s truly impressive how much technology can connect us...
Cassey blends her background in social and human behavior, along with digital marketing, seamlessly into her writing. With a versatile portfolio spanning Tourism, E-commerce, Tech, Hospitality, and Medical industries, she weaves meaningful narratives that resonate with audiences. Connecting words into sentences is her craft, but Cassey also finds joy in forming genuine connections with people from all walks of life on LinkedIn.
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Scams are nothing new. We've all experienced it to some degree — from false advertising to random messages from Nigerian princes. The rise of online dating apps has also led to a rise in romance scams, which are essentially con jobs directed at singles hoping to connect for love.
We’ve all heard about sneaky and unethical schemes where unsuspecting victims get their emotions and trust played. Devious digital...
Jamie Ballard (she/her) is a professional writer and editor who covers news, lifestyle, and entertainment topics. She regularly contributes to Cosmopolitan, Allure, Woman’s Day, Good Housekeeping, PEOPLE, and The Hollywood Reporter, among other publications.
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A personality quiz is more than a way to while away hours of free time on the weekend. It’s a collection of probing questions designed to assess the individual traits that make up a whole person.
Personality quizzes can range from scientifically backed psychological assessments to playful compatibility tests. They can reaffirm things you already know about yourself (I am, in fact, an introvert), or they can...
Cassey blends her background in social and human behavior, along with digital marketing, seamlessly into her writing. With a versatile portfolio spanning Tourism, E-commerce, Tech, Hospitality, and Medical industries, she weaves meaningful narratives that resonate with audiences. Connecting words into sentences is her craft, but Cassey also finds joy in forming genuine connections with people from all walks of life on LinkedIn.
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The online dating landscape has revolutionized how we connect with potential partners. Thanks to a boom in dating apps and websites, it's easier than ever to meet new people from the comfort of your couch – or anywhere, really.
The heart of the online matching process is some rather sophisticated algorithms. Dating app developers have designed technologies to suggest compatible matches tailored to users'...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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The haters and naysayers can talk down about dating apps all they want, but the truth cannot be denied: Dating apps are the number one way to meet relationship partners.
Are we surprised? These platforms provide us with on-demand access to a nearly endless supply of singles, vast geographical reach, and interfaces so simple a toddler could use them (although I wouldn’t recommend it; my friend’s...
Sophia Peyser studies English and Creative Writing at Emory University. She has read extensively about dating, written passionately about love, and imparted friends with unsolicited (but well-researched) dating advice. With a background in journalism and content writing, Sophia loves writing about the tools singles can use to ensure both happiness and safety in their relationships.
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The abundance of online dating apps and websites means a service exists for every type of dater. From swiping apps to online sites for affair seekers, the internet has options for relationship seekers and those looking for a fun fling.
While some sites — eharmony and Match, for instance — are better suited for users seeking relationships, plenty of hookup site options appeal to casual daters. Hookup sites...
Emma Estrada is a writer and performer from the San Fernando Valley of Los Angeles, CA. She has a bachelor’s in English Literature from UC Berkeley and studied Commedia dell'arte at Ecole Philippe Gaulier. She’s been freelance writing since 2019 and has written, acted, and produced award-winning short films, a web series, and a one-woman comedy show for the 2024 Hollywood Fringe Festival. She still lives in Los Angeles despite repeated efforts to leave.
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Are you looking for more dates, privacy, and fun on dating apps? Start by verifying your profile. According to Hinge’s internal data, individuals with Selfie Verified profiles go on about 200% more dates than those without the blue check mark.
Verification is essential in the online world. Going the extra mile to appear safe and secure on dating apps contributes to a potential match’s confidence and ability...
Jules Chen is a Texas-based writer who has been featured on feminist blogs and lifestyle magazines. She graduated from Emory University with dual degrees in English Literature and Chinese Studies. She has served as the managing editor of Lithium Magazine where she worked with a talented team of writers covering lifestyle and pop culture. Her lifestyle writing has been published at Betches, TimeOut, Adolescent Content, and Niche, Inc.
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A dating coach is a professional who helps you identify the positive and negative habits in your dating life. They provide the encouragement and insights to break out of a rut and get results.
Images of smooth-talking, smarmy types might come to mind when you think of a dating coach. In the film Crazy, Stupid, Love, Ryan Gosling’s womanizer character takes a hopeless Steve Carell through a series of...
Anggi Pradhini is a professional copywriter who creates unique and engaging content for DatingAdvice.com. As a former stockbroker, she is skilled at delivering rational, actionable advice to help singles in their love lives. Her work has appeared in Life Coach Magazine and DatingNews.com. She has also earned certifications through HubSpot Academy.
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Algorithms seem to run our lives these days. Have a question? Just Google it. Hungry? DoorDash or UberEats can recommend a restaurant and deliver your fave dishes.
But when you are looking for love, will an online dating service deliver your soul mate to your inbox?
This article will examine all aspects of online dating algorithms: how an algorithm finds matches for you, the algorithm's limitations, how...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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I don’t know if you have heard, but it’s going down in the DMs. Amid the significant cultural changes that have come at the hands of technology, meet-cutes, and blind dates have been replaced with online matching and messaging potential dating partners.
Instead of buying a stranger a drink, daters now slide into each other's DMs. Short for “Direct Message,” the DM has emerged as one of the most popular...
Jules Chen is a Texas-based writer who has been featured on feminist blogs and lifestyle magazines. She graduated from Emory University with dual degrees in English Literature and Chinese Studies. She has served as the managing editor of Lithium Magazine where she worked with a talented team of writers covering lifestyle and pop culture. Her lifestyle writing has been published at Betches, TimeOut, Adolescent Content, and Niche, Inc.
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Discreet relationships are different from the relationships you see plastering PDA on social media or out and about in your everyday life. Instead of posing together for cutesy photos or going on dates at crowded venues, a discreet relationship might mean that you and your partner don’t interact publicly.
Is it wrong? Not necessarily. You might find yourself in a discreet relationship for many...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
