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Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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Lillian Castro
Lillian Castro,Senior Editor
Lillian Guevara-Castro brings more than 30 years of journalism experience to ensure DatingAdvice articles have been edited for overall clarity, accuracy, and reader engagement. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, The Gwinnett Daily News, and The Gainesville Sun covering lifestyle topics.
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Online dating places a large and accessible pool of daters at our fingertips. While you can receive messages from all sorts of people, finding the right match is a different story. If you need help adjusting your online dating game, look to our articles below.
Knowing how to date online properly can transform your experience tremendously. And we give you the tips to stand out, so you can avoid being a tiny needle in a massive haystack.
Our articles focus on tips and strategies that daters can leverage to find the right connections online, from building an authentic dating profile to recognizing compatibility.
We aren’t biased or anything. But we offer the best advice on this side of the internet to help any dater feel more confident in today’s fast-paced online dating environment because that’s how we designed our content.
Our content covers a wide range of topics, from writing the perfect conversation starter to setting healthy boundaries. You’ll read about dating safety, compatibility, and red flag awareness, so you can avoid any approaching pitfalls.
Our experts teach you how to break the ice and get to that first date, so you won’t be left swiping endlessly. Maximize your online dating experience and find the right matches with these guides.
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Lemarc Thomas Matchmaking Agency offers a bespoke matchmaking experience for successful professionals who yearn for partnership amid their busy lives. Lemarc Thomas is a global introductions agency based in Sweden that serves clients across the globe. Elin Ribjer is the agency’s Matchmaking Director. She talked to us about Lemarc Thomas’s approach to conscious matchmaking and how the hands-on...
Anggi Pradhini is a professional copywriter who creates unique and engaging content for DatingAdvice.com. As a former stockbroker, she is skilled at delivering rational, actionable advice to help singles in their love lives. Her work has appeared in Life Coach Magazine and DatingNews.com. She has also earned certifications through HubSpot Academy.
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“Don’t talk to strangers.” This may be good advice to keep children safe, but it’s not the best advice for your love life. To find love, sometimes you must talk to strangers.
My cousin met her husband on the train when she was out of town. In a reasonable setting, talking to a stranger can make a big difference in your life.
That’s the logic you must use when someone sets you up on a blind date. Be open-minded...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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I’m about to be real honest for a sec: I’ve always been against matchmaking. That’s probably because, from a very young age, I associated it with an arranged marriage where the two individuals don’t get much of a say in the partnership — much like Princess Jasmine and Prince Achmed in “Aladdin” or Sansa and Tyrion in “Game of Thrones.”
What I’ve come to understand over recent years, however — thanks to shows...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Marriage Sharing is a robust online resource for Christian singles and couples who want to improve their relationships with themselves, each other, and God. Chaplain Felice Mathieu is a Christian Marriage Coach and the person behind Marriage Sharing. Felice talked to us about the website and his coaching offerings, plus gave Christian daters some tips for navigating the dating scene with...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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Dating can be fun. Or it can be stressful. It can be a roller coaster of emotions. Singles can go into dates with many expectations, and sometimes high hopes can lead to disappointments.
The point of dating is to have new experiences with new people, and it’s important to focus on the fun part of it. That’s what casual dating is all about.
Casual dating is a physical and emotional relationship between people...
Lexi joined the DatingAdvice team with several years of lifestyle journalism experience. She grew her writing prowess through reporting on the topic of sex and relationships, and she loves continuing to cover content in this niche while working toward becoming an AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator. You can find Lexi's writing in Refinery29, Cosmopolitan, Bustle, Well + Good, and Women's Health, among other publications.
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Dating can be challenging for anyone, but dating while queer has some complications of its own. When you’re a member of the LGBTQ+ community, meeting new people to date can be a laborious or even intimidating process — especially if you’re new to queer dating.
That said, there are plenty of amazing and welcoming people out there waiting to meet someone just like you.
According to a 2023 survey by Pew...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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Traditional matchmaking tends to be an intensely heteronormative field. Generally speaking, old-school matchmakers only take on men as clients and keep large databases of eligible women. The scene has changed a lot to keep up with a more modern approach to dating, and many agencies are moving away from the strict confines of traditional matchmaking.
Luckily, LGBTQ+ matchmakers have been matching singles for...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Patterns can be hard to break, especially when they appear in our relationships. Relationship coach John Kenny talked to us about negative relationship patterns, why they manifest, and what people who are struggling with them can do to break free and discover more positive dating experiences. John discussed attachment styles and how relationship beliefs can have a huge impact on the trajectory of a...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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If you’re anything like me, the first time you heard the word “booty call” was in 2010 when pop sensation Ke$ha leaked an absolute banger of a song by the same name. The song is and always will be a bop, but the meaning was completely out of my range of experience at the time.
What I soon learned from good ol’ Google.com, and what we’re going to dive into deeper today, is that a booty call is defined as follows:...
Velina has a passion for working with philanthropic organizations and writing all about it! Her background in healthcare and marketing introduced to her the power that creative writing can have in the sectors of humanitarian rights and advocacy. When she’s not working on her nonprofit ACTUM Giving, you can find her traveling around the world and exploring different facets of the human experience.
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The Short Version: Whether you realize it or not, most people choose to click on your online dating profile because of your pictures. So what is the reason someone will swipe left versus right? According to professional online dating photographer German Marin, if your profile does not have three necessary photos that demonstrate your personality in ways words can’t, the chances of finding your “right person” go down...
Jordan holds a bachelor's degree in Writing from Western Connecticut State University and has been writing professionally for more than half a decade. She has served as a trusted voice for leading brands across various industries, from lifestyle to technology. Recently tying the knot herself, Jordan is passionate about the sociological influences of relationships and often finds herself deeply engaged in these types of conversations with her friends and partner. Now, she's excited to extend these dialogues to the realm of DatingAdvice.com.
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The Short Version: As with flare jeans and side parts, some classics come back in style, and speed dating is in the spotlight. Dating and singles events experienced a 43% resurgence in attendance between 2022 and 2023 following a period of waning public interest. For New Yorkers, Amiccio Singles Events is the go-to weekly speed-dating event that draws singles from all boroughs. We spoke with Kevin, Amiccio’s...
Over the last 10 years, Karen Belz has written for dating and lifestyle sites such as Zoosk, Bolde, and Elite Singles. She started her career as a professional writer by helping launch HelloGiggles in 2011. Karen graduated from Millersville University of Pennsylvania, majoring in Broadcasting with a minor in Print Media Studies. She is now happily married and believes that healthy communication is the key to all successful relationships. You can follow her on Threads @karenbelz.
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Dating has gone through some changes over the last few decades. Nowadays, it's not a requirement for men to pay for dinner dates, individuals usually meet each other at a set location instead of being picked up, and if a relationship blooms, it's pretty common for a couple to live together before tying the knot — if they choose to tie the knot at all.
But while "courtship" may have faded out of your...
Hunt Ethridge is an award-winning dating and relationship expert with 15+ years of experience helping singles and couples build meaningful connections. Founder of the International Dating Coach Association, he’s been featured in Men’s Health, CNN, and Fox News and named one of the “Top 10 Most Influential Dating Experts.” Hunt has coached thousands worldwide, blending science-based strategies with practical advice to boost confidence, improve communication, and create lasting relationships.
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It happens all the time. You meet someone, online or at a party, and you swap info and start texting each other. Maybe you go out a few times. At some point, the texting stops. Maybe it petered out. Maybe it stops cold. Either way, you can’t figure out what went wrong or what you did. You ask your buddies and show them your text thread(s). They don’t know! Now frustrated, you hop online, pop in some...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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The simplicity of dating has all but disappeared in 2024. People rarely walk up to someone and ask them out on a date. Instead, many look for love online, hoping to connect with someone via dating apps before meeting in person.
In a survey of over 1,000 American singles, we’re discovering more about this digital dating process, including how far some will go to learn more about a date before physically...
Anggi Pradhini is a professional copywriter who creates unique and engaging content for DatingAdvice.com. As a former stockbroker, she is skilled at delivering rational, actionable advice to help singles in their love lives. Her work has appeared in Life Coach Magazine and DatingNews.com. She has also earned certifications through HubSpot Academy.
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In the modern dating scene, casual dating has become increasingly popular. You can meet strangers on dating apps, chat online, hang out in person, and spend a night together.
At first blush, casual dating seems like an ideal dating scenario: You can have fun, you don’t have to commit, and you can have unlimited partners.
As long as you and your partner are having a blast, everything is good,...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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Even if we don’t recognize it, each of us carries a collection of definitions, characterizations, and ideas about gender and how we experience it. To say that gender plays a big role in the dating scene would be an understatement — gender touches and affects everything we do.
When people expose themselves to diverse approaches to gender, they can better understand gender dynamics, challenge gender norms, and...
Over the last 10 years, Karen Belz has written for dating and lifestyle sites such as Zoosk, Bolde, and Elite Singles. She started her career as a professional writer by helping launch HelloGiggles in 2011. Karen graduated from Millersville University of Pennsylvania, majoring in Broadcasting with a minor in Print Media Studies. She is now happily married and believes that healthy communication is the key to all successful relationships. You can follow her on Threads @karenbelz.
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If you've ever witnessed a friend's relationship and thought, "I'd never be able to be with someone like their partner," you know why compatibility is important. Compatibility determines how well two people will get along without a huge conflict getting in the way. While it's healthy to date someone who is different from you, lacking a compatible personality or lifestyle may lead to trouble down the road in a...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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If you’re reading this, you’re either a single person new to the world of online dating… or a very confused fisherman. To those who fall under the latter: We encourage you to continue in your Google search. To those who fall under the former: We’ve got the answers you seek, and they’re wrapped in a tiny, little digital bow ready to be delivered.
What is a catfish? Where did the term come from? What should I know...
Mackenzie Buck is an experienced writer who earned a master's degree with distinction from the University of Manchester. Her relationship advice has been featured on the New York Post, and she has contributed stories to US News & World Report. She has worn a variety of hats in the digital marketing space over the years and is excited to bring her unique voice and storytelling chops to DatingAdvice.
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If you’re anything like me, hearing the word “icebreakers” sends an automatic shiver down your spine. It either reminds you of 1) the soul-crushingly boring games your corporate manager makes you play at your weekly team meetings, or 2) the icebreaker gum candy that just sent the famous Miss Peaches to the veterinary hospital this month. You can sit here and pretend you don’t know who Miss Peaches is, but we...
Cassey blends her background in social and human behavior, along with digital marketing, seamlessly into her writing. With a versatile portfolio spanning Tourism, E-commerce, Tech, Hospitality, and Medical industries, she weaves meaningful narratives that resonate with audiences. Connecting words into sentences is her craft, but Cassey also finds joy in forming genuine connections with people from all walks of life on LinkedIn.
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"Wanna come over to Netflix and chill?"
At face value, it can sound innocent, simply an invite to snuggle up and watch some shows together. But gone are these wholesome implications as the expression Netflix and chill has evolved into something far more intriguing.
For those in a steady relationship, Netflix and chill can literally mean just that – kicking back and enjoying each other's company, no hidden...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
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The term “fling” doesn’t just mean to throw stuff. In the dating world, a fling is a casual, brief relationship or romantic involvement that involves a physical or emotional connection. Flings are short-term adventures that allow you to explore your desires.
To give you a better perspective, we’re going to break down the components of a fling, what to expect from your partner, and how to navigate the short-term...
Ashayla Blakely is an experienced storyteller who has been writing for DatingAdvice.com since 2021. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in Telecommunications from the University of Florida. She also earned her MFA in Film Production at Florida State University College of Motion Picture Arts. You can often catch her with a script in her hand, calling out the shots in her many directorial roles on set.
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Society has progressed to not only accept but celebrate the powerhouse woman who knows herself and has her way with younger men. We even have a title of recognition and respect for such women: cougar.
Older single women have increasingly taken an interest in age-gap dating. It’s more common now for women to be the older, wiser benefactor in the relationship. The rise of cougar dating can be seen in its...
Hunt Ethridge is an award-winning dating and relationship expert with 15+ years of experience helping singles and couples build meaningful connections. Founder of the International Dating Coach Association, he’s been featured in Men’s Health, CNN, and Fox News and named one of the “Top 10 Most Influential Dating Experts.” Hunt has coached thousands worldwide, blending science-based strategies with practical advice to boost confidence, improve communication, and create lasting relationships.
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“Do it or don’t do it – you’ll regret both.” - Søren Kierkegaard
Truer words were never spoken. No matter what you choose in life, there are going to be regrets. That’s part of the human experience. However, only we can choose what type of regret it may be. For me personally, I would rather regret some things I did do rather than regret the loss of things I didn’t do. I don’t like the thought of missed...
Anggi Pradhini is a professional copywriter who creates unique and engaging content for DatingAdvice.com. As a former stockbroker, she is skilled at delivering rational, actionable advice to help singles in their love lives. Her work has appeared in Life Coach Magazine and DatingNews.com. She has also earned certifications through HubSpot Academy.
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If you’re a Christian and you’ve been single for a while, trying to meet someone new can be daunting — to say the least. But you’re not alone. Many singles are frustrated about their inability to find a partner who shares their beliefs. As you can imagine, asking about religion on a coffee date can feel awkward.
Fortunately, you don't need to feel discouraged. To find Christian dates, you just need to look...
Over the last 10 years, Karen Belz has written for dating and lifestyle sites such as Zoosk, Bolde, and Elite Singles. She started her career as a professional writer by helping launch HelloGiggles in 2011. Karen graduated from Millersville University of Pennsylvania, majoring in Broadcasting with a minor in Print Media Studies. She is now happily married and believes that healthy communication is the key to all successful relationships. You can follow her on Threads @karenbelz.
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It can be tough to put yourself out there on the internet, but online dating is becoming a popular choice for many seniors. That said, not every senior who signs up for a dating app or site might know what will attract like-minded singles online. Here are some easy ways to improve a senior dating profile to ensure more matches and more messages.
1. Add a New Photo or Two
Many seniors make the mistake of...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: Matchmaking is a journey, and Heather Drury, Director of Coaching at The Matchmaking Company, shed some tips for singles hoping to make the most out of the introductions process. Heather talked about mindset, trusting the journey, and how to get really honest with post-introduction feedback, and gave the scoop on all of The Matchmaking Company’s offerings. There is no right or wrong way to date –...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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The Short Version: You may think singles in big cities have it easiest: big dating pools, plenty of bars and restaurants, and too many picture-perfect date night ops to count. But, according to a study recently released by Ownerly, many of the top cities for singles have less than 10,000 residents. The Ownerly study looked into several factors, including housing affordability, sex ratio, median age, and growth of the...
Known as America's Relationship Expert, Dr. Wendy Walsh is an award-winning television journalist, radio host & podcaster, and the author of three books on relationships and thousands of print and digital articles. More than 1.5 million people follow her sage advice on social media. She holds a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and teaches in the Psychology Department at California State University Channel Islands and has been the host of "The Dr. Wendy Walsh Show" on iHeart Radio's KFI AM 640 since 2015. Walsh is also a former Emmy-nominated co-host of "The Doctors," as well as former host of the nationally syndicated show "EXTRA." She was named a Time Magazine Person of the Year in 2017 after speaking out about harassment at a major news network.
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You lock eyes. You feel a tingle in your stomach. Your heart rate increases. A smile spontaneously creeps around the corner of your lips. These are the physiological reactions to falling in love. And if you’re lucky enough to have ever experienced the idea of falling in love, you know how delicious the feeling is. Falling in love doesn’t just feel like a drug – it actually activates the exact same brain areas as a...
Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.
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Online dating is certainly the most popular way to date nowadays, but it’s not the only way. Singles of diverse backgrounds are looking to matchmakers for professional assistance in their quest for love. And that’s what a matchmaker is — a dating pro who will help you navigate every part of dating (the tough ones included).
These matchmakers represent the best of what the Land Down Under has to offer in the...
Jordan holds a bachelor's degree in Writing from Western Connecticut State University and has been writing professionally for more than half a decade. She has served as a trusted voice for leading brands across various industries, from lifestyle to technology. Recently tying the knot herself, Jordan is passionate about the sociological influences of relationships and often finds herself deeply engaged in these types of conversations with her friends and partner. Now, she's excited to extend these dialogues to the realm of DatingAdvice.com.
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The Short Version: If you’re planning a wedding in Los Angeles, you can skip the hassle of searching through gig economy sites for a DJ or MC. Second Song is a personalized wedding DJ music service tailored to your needs. Co-Founder Anna Blecker explains that Second Song fills the void in the wedding music industry by providing a smooth and personalized journey from the moment you book to the final setup and...
Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted by the Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, and AskMen, among others.
